how to get a looser cunt ??

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On 4/6/2020 at 8:48 AM, tinyclitmuscle said:

honestly I would much rather have a cunt that didn't close at all. At least then I could just wear a butt plug all day. I really want to be loose!

That's an option too of course...

[PG1961Canada]

I have some toys of MANY sizes so I can progressively and slowly increase during an ass play session.  I clean out well and plan for a good 30-60 minutes of ass play with my toys while watching porn and stroking slow.

I am very fortunate to have 2 FB's who LOVE ass play.  They take their time.  They use a combination of toys, fingers, mouth, tongue, cock and more toys. It is a journey of exploration that typically ends with a nice gradual introduction of a fist. 

I agree with comments about the numbing cream.  Poppers and/or a slow tantric pace are good.

I've learned one cannot rush ass play.  Take your time and open up a couple or three times a week and 'train'.

Enjoy the ride (no pun intended).  Grin

[garsento]

On 4/2/2020 at 3:35 PM, tallslenderguy said:

As a physiologist, i get the false notion that "you will not get loose overnight."   I also get that "...practicing with dildos and plugs, a little 30min play 3 times a week goes a long way." 

my challenge has been my emotional/psychologicla connection to be opened and penetrated. For me, it's not just being opened and penetrated, it's the Man and the intent behind it. 

i was fortunate to have a FB (who never actually 'fucked' me) who introduced Himself as just liking to give massage. We got together at least once a week for over a year. He gave an amazing, erotic massage that made my legs spread and had so horny. After a few massages, He 'tested' me to see if i liked my hole used. Once He realized i'm a total bottom slut, it was game on. It took me a long time to realize, because He was patient and purposely slow and secretive about what He was doing. His intent was to open my hole... permanently. And He did, even 7 years later, my hole has never returned to completely the way it was before He opened me.

 i love Him for what He did to me. To me, His permanently changing my hole was every bit "breeding" and imprengating me with Himself.  And that's where i am emotionally and psychologically with my pussy, it's not something i really want control over opening or breeding. Or i should say, that i feel i can open or breed myself? Because i connect its opening and breeding to the person who is doing it, it's not just an independent result.  i'm a bottom, and have a distinct sub side, its not in my nature to open or penetrate a hole...even my own.

What did he do to you?

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Unfortunately the stretching of my hole is limited...
I have a very narrow pelvis and my coccyx [last bone of my spine] is also coming far into an angle towards my asshole...
I used to be able to fist myself - I have pretty small hands - but I can't make the bend of my wrist to angle into my ass anymore...
One day I hope to find a regular experienced fister that can slowly widen my my pelvis bones... 
Below you see one of my large dildos... I was able to push it all the way in eventually. It was about 30 cm long and 8 cm across.

[MuscledHorse]

On 4/6/2020 at 3:48 AM, tinyclitmuscle said:

honestly I would much rather have a cunt that didn't close at all. At least then I could just wear a butt plug all day. I really want to be loose!

That is thee dream goal of maay of us bottom pigs. I love having a loose canyon for an sex hole and I love seeing a guy with a hole that ha clearly been heavily used. I know the amount of sexual excess he has endured to get his ass that way because I've been through it myself.

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I’m pretty much also extremely turned on by the thought of becoming looser and looser overtime. Nothing more horny than to submit fully to a top and loose all resistance in my cunt. The longer I stay sloppy the more horny I seem to be. I try to clench and keep the ability to do so but have started lately to feel that my clenches are much weaker than before. I do use pad in my jeans for a day or a couple of days after a prolonged fisting as I close up very slowly. 

[brianthor69]

For me the inflatable dildo was the best thing to use. I would use it for a few hours at a time. I would pump till I felt a stretch and then hold it for one min. I release it, then pump it 2 more pumps past where I stopped the time before and hold for 2 min. I do it while looking at porn. After a point your ass won't stretch from the pressure and the dildo gets longer not thicker. I use this every time I try size up on a dildo. Its also great prep for a fisting session.