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I have a long term buddy that really enjoys FF. For the most part, he likes to take the top role when we play. If we play at my house, I lie back in the sling, hole right at the edge and because we have played for years, I trust him. That is an important part of making the experience enjoyable for me. We all know that sometimes the real pig comes out and you are open to almost anything. Other times, your hole might be tender or your ass just isn't in a stretching mode, despite some 420 and popper help. The trust part is that he can FEEL whether I am relaxed and at times, he pushes me over the edge a little when I am teetering... and the magic starts. He knows enough about me and my ass that he is happy to take control of my hole and typically starts with a solid rimming, then fingers and works up to his fist. LOTS of lube helps make it all enjoyable as well. He has made me cum just through his fist actions... and made me piss through his fist actions. VERY intense and hot. Maybe 20% of the time, I get him on his back in the sling and I take control of the situation. I can 'feel' when he is in the mood to have his hole opened up, and like he does to me, I push his limits a little and keep him cumming. I enjoy those sessions because I usually fuck him for a while after the rimming and fingering. Helps lube up his hole and stretch it for my hands. He always jokes that because I am a piano player with BIG mitts, he needs to be in the right frame of mind for a good fisting episode. I totally agree. Others have said it... the turn on is the bottom guy giving you total access... and all gates pass... to his hole. And you BOTH know that it is a relinquishing of control to the top that makes it especially exciting. Both of us love to take our time and really make the play session a good long one with lots of poppers to keep things fun. And the fact that we take turns being the guy in 'charge' of the hole means we both get to experience the action/control of the other guy now and then... and it is a real turn on to be giving OR taking. If that makes any sense

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Welcome to the site! VERY nice pictures there... of a very hot ass.... looks delectable! Hope you enjoy the forums, pictures and discussions. Cheers man!

I was an Exec for my large company... mostly business casual, but sometimes I was meeting with other Senior execs from other companies and would do the suit/tie thing. I have a young otter fuck buddy who is hairy, 8" uncut and loves oral and fucking. He has a Daddy thing going on.... One day, he texted me and said he was HAF and would I like to play? I said I would pop by his place on my way home from work. His face LIT UP when I came in the front door that day. Suit and tie. He told me that Men at Play was his favourite studio at the time and while he enjoyed MAP flicks, most at that time were using rubbers. He asked if I would leave my shirt/tie/dress socks and dress shoes on while we fucked - of course we fucked raw. I could see he was turned on big time and I said 'of course'. While I stripped off my pants (and left my jock on), he ran into his room and I could hear him rustling around. A minute later he came out with a shirt/tie and dress socks/shoes. And his cock was already rock hard. Clearly, this was turning him on big time. Then he asked if he could film us fucking?? Again, I said sure. He proceeded to take his time that first 'executive' fuck session. We both have a copy of the video and the massive cum shot. He made sure to get some video of our shirts and our shoes. I talked dirty to him through the entire juicy fuck and he gave me a 3 day load that day. He didn't even stop fucking. He just stayed hard and loaded me up a second time within minutes. Wow.. this CLEARLY was a fantasy for him. We usually fucked every few weeks as time permitted. Every second or third time tho, I would dress up in suit/tie and suck his cock and let him video record us fucking. Great 'spanking' material for the days you can't find anyone ... lol. I looked at it as a fantasy that he enjoyed and whenever I dressed up in my 'Sunday clothes', he would always dump two loads. So, I was happy to play along.

I let my paid membership expire. It really wasn't worth it once I stopped travelling. It isn't a great app for my region. I've never dealt with Owner, but I have certainly read lots of interesting things in different forums over the years. So, I can't comment on him specifically. I find that most (if not all) guys on other apps all expert to fuck raw (yup even the married guys). I'm on PrEP (as are a lot of others now) and I get tested every 3 months at my PrEP clinic. That's my only option with this clinic and I am 100% OK with it.

Sounds like you had a 100% chance of getting ass that night.. I think she would have caved for the raw fuck.. they had gone that far already (almost.. lol). I'd bet money on you getting his ass tho... sounds eager. And horny. Great visit tho!

I love your descriptions of fucking and sucking and rimming and felching frozen cum. Tried it a couple of times with a FB and we both really enjoyed it. Have really enjoyed it so far, and how you describe it is pretty damn accurate ... I've given the frozen loads and taken them. I love your blog man.. cheers

Ya.. that's a nice difference huh? When I'm on home turf, I know my sling and I really get into taking my time and throwing a hard fuck at the end. That requires me really holding that bottom tight via his harness. I love it when a top uses the harness to his advantage when he is using my hole. I agree 101%. Oink

I have a regular young top that loves Daddy ass. He is 22 years younger than me and married. He says he enjoys the fact that I talk dirty to him and I can take a rough pounding. He can really dole it out hard and is usually good for seconds or thirds. He was here yesterday at noon. He had called and said his wife was on the rag and he was pent up, did I want a quickie? I was in my jock on the bed waiting for him when he came upstairs. His cock was already hard and he pounded two quick loads into me and was gone within 30 minutes from walking in the door. He is a good top. He likes a slow lingering fuck AND the quickies like yesterday. Nice uncut piece of cock that loves my hole. There are a lot of young guys out there these days that are happy to fuck a Daddy ass... lots more than I thought.

I have a regular FWB who really enjoys ass play. We takes turns working on one another's holes. Typically, we smoke a joint or two to relax, some good poppers and then start opening one another's holes up. We have played for a number of years and we both really enjoy opening the other guy's hole up with tongues, fingers, toys, fists and our cocks. A great way to learn to relax with someone you trust and really let go and open up!!! As a number have mentioned... a lot of this is 'mental'... just relax and enjoy the stretching. It gets easier (and more fun!). Good luck with your journey

I enjoyed the short story, and I also enjoyed your AI protrayals of the characters. Nicely put together. Cheers

Couple of folks already mentioned a key part... clean out deep and well and have a nice chat with your brain that we are 'all systems go' here and enjoy the fuck. Here's a key one for me... relax WHILE you are cleaning yourself out before the fuck. In other words, take your time douching and let the water really clean things out. There are a lot of shower attachments that connect into an existing shower head and you can use the nozzle in a controlled fashion, with nice warm water... with frequent cleanouts into the toilet.. and don't be fooled by the difference of a 1 minute quick flush to a 10 - 15 (or more) minute, slow, warm cleanout. Then you can have that conversation with your brain to say... hey! accidents happen, but I'm clean as a whistle here.. let's enjoy this!! It allows you to enjoy and focus on the fucking now and the angles etc. Lucky partner... you're doing your homework. Enjoy!

Oh my.. yes. indeed. I can picture this entire scene. In explicit detail. Thanks for that. LOL. (As I stroke my dick). Great visuals on this one. Just started experimenting with WS. I'm liking it so far. Cheers

So, your breeder tells you he has tested positive for a STD. Yet, you want to DOX your wife? Dude... go get tested. If you are OK... count yourself lucky. Lucky because your breeder warned you and lucky because you can dodge that bullet with your wife. Your logic baffles me.

A have a few FWB's who are in their mid-late 60's and one hot fucker who is 70. These guys know how to ruck and/or take dick and the sex is always awesome... lots of experience is brought to the massage table, rim chair, bed or sling. I've had a number of younger guys who are interested in fucking a Daddy or taking Daddy dick (I'm 62). For me... 60+ fuckers are HOT!

I have a buddy who loves the NSA fantasy thing. He is a married guy and loves the kink that we share when we get together. Really hung and thick. Uncut. Knows how to fuck. He loves me blindfolded now and then and we pretend we don't know one another and he almost always dumps TWO loads from those sessions. We both enjoy the blindfold part of things. Very hot.

This is on my bucket list. I've got a FWB who said he would be happy to try it out with me in my sling. He is also an ass play fan and we have some great sessions with toys and fingers/fists. Thanks for the great advice!!

My ex was a porn junkie. He loved watching porn and stroking. Constantly. But he loved taking video of me plowing a hot hole and creampies to the guy's hole. But he REALLY loved taking video me taking hard cock(s) up my hole raw and getting bred on camera. He would stroke his cock the entire time he was filming. His unedited stuff was pretty good, because he watched so much porn - he knew the kind of scenes he liked seeing... so he filmed the say way. I still have videos of me topping/bottoming from 15 years ago and I love to throw them on and jerk off while remembering me seeding a hot hole or a hot load across my own ass from a hung top. We spent the money on a decent camera with a light, so the quality was pretty decent. Lots of married Daddy's breeding me. Ex had to ensure NO faces. I also edited a lot of the camera jostling etc out of the final. So it was a lot of frisky stuff - just all looked NSA (which in itself is kinda hot). Singles. Doubles, Triples. And even one gang bang where I took 9 loads from 4 guys over the evening. (I still have the original files from that night too.. whahooo!). After we split up, I found a couple of other guys who were into pics - random or posed. I love ass play, and a lot of my picture collection is with other FB's who like to play with a hole and toys and FF... so, there is some excellent quality stuff there... both picture and recently, video. It's fun to run two cameras... either one stationary and aimed and you try and remember it is there... LOL... or one in each guy's hand. Get the same fuck from two different angles and also different quality of shots. I take that stuff and mash it together into a 5 or 10 minute Amateur movie. It's a hobby. And it's a great hobby if the other guy(s) into it!! Love making amateur porn. (Pics are from 5 movies with the same top breeding my hole)

This morning - my hung uncut buddy called me. His partner was going shopping with some friends and he didn't want to go. He begged off and then reached out to me and said he needed some piggy play. His other half is a total bottom but not into the kind of assplay. He and get together once a week and get naked and take turns on one another's holes. He loves to be a sub bottom and I use his hole and dump a load in his guts. This morning he showed up, horny as fuck. He stepped out of his clothes 2 minutes after showing up at the door. His cock was already half hard and he was already dripping precum. Seems they had been busy all weekend and he said he needed to open my hole up. He used fingers and toys. Shared some poppers and then took his fist for a while. He was just short of his elbow deep. Fawwwk!! Then he unloaded his cock deep inside my stretched guts. He stayed hard!! He just kept talking dirty and churning his load up inside.... in/out motions and pumping deep before pulling out to the edge... then he unloaded a SECOND load a few minutes later. That is one well used hole and what a great time.

My answer is also yes and yes!!! I totally agree with your explanation. In fact, I was collecting very similar comments to post when I read your post. I have a couple of long term friends with benefits that interact with others in this exact manner - it's about enjoying some hot sex. We know one another's fave activities. We know limits. We understand one another's body language. And I have had a couple of these friends decide today was going to be a toy session that ended up with me taking a load of cum on my face or ass, followed by having it washed off with some pissplay. One buddy was a total top until I got him in the sling one afternoon and showed him how pleasurable a tongue, fingers and a cock could feel. He loved getting fucked and taking my load. I would venture "I" service his cock, balls and take his load and fists 75% of the time now... he says he only trusts 'giving up control' to me. Another FB needs to start out slow. He has a hole that blossoms for a tongue... but quite often, I will talk filthy to him while easing toys in and out of his hole... working my way up until he is totally loosened up... he loves to popper up at the same time and relax... that is usually when I really lube him up and slow fuck him with my fist until he sucks it inside.... I can tell WHEN he CAN take it vs. when he is muttering that he can't take it... but trusts that I will take my time and make this a good event for us both. He shoots massive pre-cum loads, followed immediately by massive cum loads.... and one time, he just churned his cum all around and stopped and pissed a load into my already wet hole. I blew my load immediately just at the 'thought' of what was going on - and how it must look for him. We like to explore and take one another to sexual highs. To do that, it makes it easier to trust the guys you are with and just give them the control to steer the romp in the direction THEY might feel like that day. That's half the fun IMHO

I've read some really well thought out responses here .... nice job. I enjoy using some big toys now and then to stay 'in-shape' and enjoy feeling a fat dildo or rubber fist toy open me up. I switch it up between fat toys and long toys. In some cases when I'm really horny and my hole is 'swallowing' the toys easily, I will go back and forth between fat and long... and I have a couple of extra large fat/long that I slowly work inside. I agree that a monster cock is indeed, a treat. In my experience, the guys know that they are hefting around a big piece of cock, and I have had the pleasure of them enjoying rimming and using fingers to stretch and really enjoy some assplay before they start with their cock. By the time they are ready to start inserting, my hole is absolutely warm, juicy and ready. I have a married Italian Daddy FWB who has 11x8 and we found the best position is for him to sit back and let me work my way 'down' onto that cock. Once I'm relaxed I build up speed and really ride it harder and harder. We both love the feeling. I control the speed and depth. But, we often finish with me doggy and him loading me up from behind. He now controls the speed and depth. But my hole is usually nice and wet and loose at that point. I make sure to milk him when he starts to cum deep inside that second hole. He says he loves the fact that I can 'open' it up deep for him to pound, and then squeeze the head of his cock as he is cumming. I also play now and then with a young black guy. He is a gently soul and charming as hell. 30 years younger than me. I live in Canada and we enjoy a smoke together and get naked. He is very patient and loves to eat ass. His favourite place to fuck is in the leather sling. This young guy has a 13" long cock. It is always ROCK hard. He sits on a stool and eats my ass and plays with it for 20-30 minutes. He makes sure my hole desires that big cock. He always teases me. Just the fat head... (that can last 3-5 minutes alone!! He loves to hear me moan). He takes 10-15 minutes of slow, teasing strokes.... If I twist my left hip upwards a couple of inches in that sling, he slides perfectly straight inside. And he takes his time. We both talk dirty to one another the entire time about his fat cock opening my guts up and how he is going to flood my guts etc etc. My ass juices start to flow and add to the lube already coating that cock. We typically play for about 2 quality hours. He never rushes, but sometimes, I feel some pain and we use a code word 'yellow' for him to stop and let things inside "shift" (grin). Once he gets in my hole and his big balls are sitting on the rim of my ass... he starts nice deep, slow thrusts. Eventually, I just open right up and he pounds the shit out of my hole... right from the outside edge to his balls. Again, sometimes we need to slow up a bit and build up more gradual pounding. He told me one time that he loves the way we build up and build up and the fact that I can take that entire cock.. apparently he has had a lot of tap-outs, even if he goes slow. So, it's always a hot romp... he knows how to fuck as a top and I enjoy feeling my entire hole and guts open up and the feeling of that big dick inside of me.. And the dirty talk? banter? I think that makes a BIG difference for both sides as well. BTW - I have a couple of regular married FWB who are 6"- 8" and really know how to work over a hole quite well. My Dad used to say.. it's not the size of the meat... it's the motions buddy. LOL. He was right.

@daddybear54 Well done you ol' hopeless romantic piggy! Grin. Great storyline. Great sex. I thoroughly enjoyed it all!

Club Hamilton isn't the same as the TO clubs... it's not as busy. But like any club, there are some good times to be had if the place is full. Lots of cocksuckers around and lots of guys fucking raw.