Married but addicted...

[Throwaway325]

Hey guys kinda new here. I’m a married guy (woman) and father of three kids. Wife recently found out she’s expecting the fourth. Meanwhile, life in the bedroom has come to a near screeching halt and I find myself addicted to breeding ass. Of course with the new social distancing it’s been weeks but I’m craving it like never before. 
 

I’ve been trying to keep my mind off it by watching straight porn to jerk off but I always end up online chatting with bb bottoms. Thinking about checking into PrEP but not sure of the risk associated with being strictly a top guy. Idk why I’m posting...just cabin fever I guess  

 

peace boys. 

[mblad99]

I stopped a lot of guys bb.  Risk is low.  Topped a lot of married guys  bb too.

[coastalbender]

You can have my ass.

[stevelovesfucking]

I too am a married guy, but I've been fucking guys all my life and as I get older I love bum more and more

was lucky that one of my regs was able to pop over today and I could fuck him for 3 or 4 hours while wifey was at work

sticking your cock in a bum hole, no nicer feeling!

[tallslenderguy]

"Married but addicted..."

i was married too (a woman), my story is all over on this site, but long story short, religion.

i hated myself for cheating and lying, but i did it constantly, had to have that connection. i had the 'addiction' from the opposite side, as a bottom, but as guys we are both driven by testosterone towards other men. i finally worked through my belief system and divorced. Meanwhile, i gave my with STD's a couple of times and finally fessed up when i thought i had given her HIV (i hadn't). i'm so much happier and at peace now. i love men, can't help it, i'm just built that way. Men are fuckng awesome... of course, i'm gay, so i guess i'm biased. lol

Good luck, i feel for you. The odds are better for a Top than a bottom, but it's still Russian roulette. i took over a thousand loads on the DL while i was married. 10 years after divorcing, i went to the clinic to get started on PrEP and was poz. I had tested negative 3 months prior. i'm grateful on so many levels, i'm fine with being poz, on meds and undetectable. Amazing it didn't happen sooner. Either way, it doesn't matter, i love Men and could not and cannot help myself. 

[tallslenderguy]

On 4/7/2020 at 3:34 PM, MattAsFuck said:

 

I’ve been trying to keep my mind off it by watching straight porn to jerk off but I always end up online chatting with bb bottoms. Thinking about checking into PrEP but not sure of the risk associated with being strictly a top guy. Idk why I’m posting...just cabin fever I guess  

 

peace boys. 

Been thinking about this topic specifically and in general.  

First of all, i want you lol. i love men in general, but some have things about them that just make my legs spread (actually and figurativly) and present for them to penetrate me.  i wonder, in general, if some married guys hook with other guys because of the lack of sex at home, or the lack of type of sex?   Guys are different, not just physically.  When was the last time any of us heard another guy say: "not tonight, i have a headache?"  

One of the things i was thinking about M/F marriage is how often there's this power exchange going on when it comes to sex. i know it's not universal, but it seems in so many marriages, sex is a negotiation and the woman often uses it as a reward or gift. my former wife used to believe she was doing me a solid by getting me a steak and presenting herself for my birthday. Hard to imagine the reverse scenario: "honey, i got you a box of chocolates and my cock for your birthday."  lol.  i know all women arent like this, but it seems a pretty common cultural attitude that men want sex more than their wives and that somehow their wives are doing them a favor to have sex.

Men are different, Top or bottom, Dom or sub, or something in the vast middle, it's hard to find a man who doesn't want sex. Okay, they may think they're to hot for 'you' and can do better, but they still wanna fuck. 

For me, one of the things i love about sex with a Man is we both want it. It's not like either of us is doing the other a favor, we both have lust for each other. It can take on a myriad of forms, One guy needs to seed, the other may need to be bred. One Guy wants to piss on or in a guy, another can't wait to get it, but the lust is pretty mutual.  i've never had a guy expect a piece of jewelry or a new couch because He fucked me. We both seem pretty grateful. 

[bihairy]

On 4/7/2020 at 6:34 PM, MattAsFuck said:

Hey guys kinda new here. I’m a married guy (woman) and father of three kids. Wife recently found out she’s expecting the fourth. Meanwhile, life in the bedroom has come to a near screeching halt and I find myself addicted to breeding ass. Of course with the new social distancing it’s been weeks but I’m craving it like never before. 
 

I’ve been trying to keep my mind off it by watching straight porn to jerk off but I always end up online chatting with bb bottoms. Thinking about checking into PrEP but not sure of the risk associated with being strictly a top guy. Idk why I’m posting...just cabin fever I guess  

 

peace boys. 

I know the feeling. Got myself on PrEP and fuck bareback ass as much as possible. It is the best sex. But I realized I am gay so go figure...