Relationships

[Carlos1881]

What is important for you in relationship today? 

Look forward to hearing your thoughts

Karl

[120DaysofSodom]

Id cheat on all my boyfriends and couldn't help it. It was always a big thrill for me and id do it as often as possible. My last boyfriend I was with for 4 years refused an open relationship when I proposed it multiple times and tried forcing me to be monogamous, but it only made me want to cheat on him even more. I probably let the entire city fuck me before we finally broke up.

Id love to have a partner, but he'd have to accept an open relationship. I cant stand jealousy nor possessiveness.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

It’s got to be an open relationship or not at all. I get a few guys who get into me and want to date but I have to get honest with them that I fuck around and I’m just not capable of being monogamous and will still fuck around. Even if they’re cool with that I’m skeptical as I’ve had guys say they were cool then freak when the reality hits them in the face that I actually did fuck around and did it bareback. Most guys, unless they are true sluts, just aren’t cool with that.

[bareback-flipflop]

I have never wanted a relationship just because of the feelings. I had two boyfriends. The first was that I mentioned, I began that relationship just because I wanted to try the relationship with a man. Although it lasted two years but I cannot say that it was a good relationship. I cheated my bf as many as I could. 
The other was a real love. Lasted more than 16 years. We loved each other. However, our expectations of sex were different. Therefore we lived in an open relationship. Basically, it was a semi-open relationship, because my boyfriend wasn’t interested in sex, so although he could he didn’t want to have sex with others. 
Now, I’m in a strange situation. I’ve fallen in love with a guy and I cannot think about sex with others. He is always in my mind and I want everything with him. I’m curious about his thoughts about the open relationship but he seems to be unsure. 
 

[latinobb]

4 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

It’s got to be an open relationship or not at all. I get a few guys who get into me and want to date but I have to get honest with them that I fuck around and I’m just not capable of being monogamous and will still fuck around. Even if they’re cool with that I’m skeptical as I’ve had guys say they were cool then freak when the reality hits them in the face that I actually did fuck around and did it bareback. Most guys, unless they are true sluts, just aren’t cool with that.

I'm always hoping to find someone who's as slutty as me. I'd love to have a boyfriend who collects loads with me or loves seeing me get bred. 

[bihairy]

5 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

It’s got to be an open relationship or not at all. I get a few guys who get into me and want to date but I have to get honest with them that I fuck around and I’m just not capable of being monogamous and will still fuck around. Even if they’re cool with that I’m skeptical as I’ve had guys say they were cool then freak when the reality hits them in the face that I actually did fuck around and did it bareback. Most guys, unless they are true sluts, just aren’t cool with that.

I would need an open relationship too.  Fucking together and fucking on my own etc. I would need another slut that would understand my high sex drive.

[Dee82]

I definitely would need to be in an open relationship as well.  I'm just too much of a slut to stay monogamous.  The guy who I would be with has to be a slut like me and barebacks just like I do. 

[Piggyybttmm]

On 8/20/2020 at 7:09 PM, bihairy said:

I would need an open relationship too.  Fucking together and fucking on my own etc. I would need another slut that would understand my high sex drive.

Same. I don't think I can commit sexually...I like getting fucked often as possible by as many men as possible. A lot of guys can't handle that

[subbottomguy]

On 8/20/2020 at 6:40 PM, CuriousDallas said:

It’s got to be an open relationship or not at all. I get a few guys who get into me and want to date but I have to get honest with them that I fuck around and I’m just not capable of being monogamous and will still fuck around. Even if they’re cool with that I’m skeptical as I’ve had guys say they were cool then freak when the reality hits them in the face that I actually did fuck around and did it bareback. Most guys, unless they are true sluts, just aren’t cool with that.

I’m the same, usually never works out except one guy that was into passing me round, he loved hearing how I took this guys or that guys loads. He preferred to watch or take part but was happy hearing bout it, but weird but he enjoyed it specially stripping me and finding my hole filled with cum for him to use as lube. But most dating I’ve done just doesn’t work cause they freak too much when they find out I really was getting fucked behind their back lol

[PopperMeUp79]

I’ve been in an open relationship for 15+ years. It was something we agreed to very early on. And it works very well. We still have sex as a couple, but both are free to play with others when it comes along. There are times when traveling we hit a bathhouse together, but even there we head different directions and score our own tricks. 

[Guest Porthos]

The guys I have had relationships were great partners. Guys I loved to travel with, socialize with and guys I was definitely attracted to...handsome, smart....Unfortunately those guys were usually pretty vanilla sex wise....Conversely the men who I have the most incredible sex with I couldn't see myself in a relationship with....I am currently having regular sex with a black man. Our sex is incredible. Passionate, verbal, aggressive, very sexy physically. He is more top, has a huge penis, only barebacks and is poz.  Other than sex though we have nothing in common. He is younger than me, unemployed,  only a high school grad, lives with his unemployed mother. Culturally we have nothing in common either. he is a sweetheart. Kind, polite...a genuinely nice person.  But I could not imagine us being together

[leatherpunk16]

My first boyfriend wanted monogamy. I was just starting to turn my wheels in porn, and thus having both was an obstacle. He actually tried to break up with me when I was hired to host an event at Steamworks. Just hosting and nothing more. I did the event anyway, but things went awry at the event, and I may as well have not done it for all the good it did in my porn career. My man stayed with me, but I was still shooting porn and not telling him. Eventually that caught up with me, and I got gono. Had to tell my guy before a doctor told him, and we split up three weeks later. Totally worth it because seven weeks later, I met the man who would be my husband.

Now THIS guy let me be a ho. I even had sex in front of him with someone else on our second date. My date was so impressed by my work that he asked me to do the same thing with him later. It was always "You boys go have fun." 

Strangely, I was super protective of him, and was not fond of him bedding other men. Why the double standard? I don't know. Maybe I was the alpha? Who knows.

But his own ho life is what got him killed. I've beaten this story to death on BZ and elsewhere, but suffice it to say that he was ruled by his hole, and the wrong people took advantage of that, and it ultimately claimed his life. 

Can my next relationship be like this but without the tragic ending? I'd like that. Two big muscle kings seeding and breeding and getting pumped full of cum by others, and still happy in their relationship, would be ideal for me.

[POZSado]

Simply put, strict definition of roles.  

[Guest]

Interesting topic, given the nature of this place.  With that being said, I am not sure what I may want.  I have had the experience of a boyfriend. While nice, I learned an awful lot from it very fast (was my first and only relationship if you could call it that).  By nature, I am a very private person and very slow to open up my feelings, etc., so I am not exactly sure if a monogamous relationship would do it do for me.  I probably would enjoy an open relationship, knowing we are both getting what we want when we want it, but also knowing that we would be there for one another at other times.  Complicating that even further is my desire for a dad/son type relationship, but who knows.

[Guest Footprints]

I tried open relationships with a guy since I live a cumslut life, not really working. He said he's okay with me taking loads, but turns out he's not okay. Other guys seem to only want to play, rather than in a serious relationship. It's harder than I thought to find someone accept me being a cumdump.