Do Small City Motel Cumdump Sessions Usually Work?

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

I've been thinking of doing an ass up/ cumdump motel type thing in a small city a few hours from me. Probably gonna do a doublelist post, grindr and bbrt as well. My question is in you guys' experience, does this usually work out in a smaller city? One were the apps/ bbrt isn't arent populated and there's no bathhouse?

[ErosWired]

In Louisville, I hotel host (well, did pre-COVID) and would average around 5-7 fucks per session. I could have as many as 12 or as few as 2. My session runs from about 7pm til 9am the following morning, so that tally is in 14 hours of slutting. The return on time spent has a lot to do with the day chosen; I have always found Thursday evenings best for turnout.

Your mileage may vary depending on the city and what you’re calling a “small city”. Louisville is in no way Sexytown, USA, and in a lot of ways is a lousy place to look for a fuck. Bowling Green, Ky, by contrast, pop. 50,000, would like to call itself a city (bless their hearts) but I would never invest my hotel room money in my chances of getting fucked more than twice in a place that small - and it’s a college town. My success in barely-city Louisville is partly from building up a base of semi-regulars out of a small pool simply because I’m too stubborn to give up and don’t have a better alternative anyway.

Plus, if you’re planning to make a habit/hobby of this, you’d best make sure you’ve got the goods - men won’t bother coming back for mediocre ass. There’s just too much meat on the hoof. Do whatever you can to make sure that they’re never going to forget your hole, in the good way.

[LittleCumSewer]

they can if you do it in the right area. really helps to have the right guy setting it up. when I have had guys set it up by inviting enough guys ahead of the day and posting hot ads during I have gotten a LOT of loads dumped inside me this way. the key is getting whored out by a boyfriend or a daddy. I had one guy who liked to leave the curtains open and the lights on so anyone who looked in could see me getting fucked

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

In Louisville, I hotel host (well, did pre-COVID) and would average around 5-7 fucks per session. I could have as many as 12 or as few as 2. My session runs from about 7pm til 9am the following morning, so that tally is in 14 hours of slutting. The return on time spent has a lot to do with the day chosen; I have always found Thursday evenings best for turnout.

Your mileage may vary depending on the city and what you’re calling a “small city”. Louisville is in no way Sexytown, USA, and in a lot of ways is a lousy place to look for a fuck. Bowling Green, Ky, by contrast, pop. 50,000, would like to call itself a city (bless their hearts) but I would never invest my hotel room money in my chances of getting fucked more than twice in a place that small - and it’s a college town. My success in barely-city Louisville is partly from building up a base of semi-regulars out of a small pool simply because I’m too stubborn to give up and don’t have a better alternative anyway.

Plus, if you’re planning to make a habit/hobby of this, you’d best make sure you’ve got the goods - men won’t bother coming back for mediocre ass. There’s just too much meat on the hoof. Do whatever you can to make sure that they’re never going to forget your hole, in the good way.

It's in Ohio and it is a small college city so maybe I will rethink the locale. I'm pretty sure I got the goods lol

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

1 hour ago, LittleCumSewer said:

they can if you do it in the right area. really helps to have the right guy setting it up. when I have had guys set it up by inviting enough guys ahead of the day and posting hot ads during I have gotten a LOT of loads dumped inside me this way. the key is getting whored out by a boyfriend or a daddy. I had one guy who liked to leave the curtains open and the lights on so anyone who looked in could see me getting fucked

So then would u suggest posting ads and looking for a guy to set this up first instead of just winging it and searching myself? 

[ErosWired]

1 hour ago, LittleCumSewer said:

really helps to have the right guy setting it up. when I have had guys set it up by inviting enough guys ahead of the day and posting hot ads during I have gotten a LOT of loads dumped inside me this way. the key is getting whored out by a boyfriend or a daddy

This makes a big, big difference, because luring men in to fuck a cumdump actually is not an easy task and somewhat resembles work. If you’re fortunate enough to have a Top willing to take the time and effort over the course of several hours to make numerous connections, scour the apps and put up with the general bullshit from guys who aren’t seriously looking, then yeah, you can just lie there and wait for them. If the Top happens to have a lot of friends and likes to share out his bottom, you’re going to get some traffic.

The thing is, those Tops are scarce, and if you’re like most of us, you’re going to be out there slutting solo, working the apps sometimes for hours between fucks and maybe getting more flakey grief than seems worth the hassle.

 I find it rewarding, though. I keep holding out hope of finding that whiring Top someday - he will never be sorry he found me, I promise him that - but until then, I’ll just keep doing it the hard way, on my own.

[ErosWired]

4 minutes ago, Xtraglazedonuthole said:

So then would u suggest posting ads and looking for a guy to set this up first instead of just winging it and searching myself? 

Here’s the thing - Whoring out another man’s ass (in the non-renunerative way) provides no benefit or incentive to a Top unless that Top is one if a very select type of man who derives psychological pleasure from the humiliation and debasement of another man, and specifically his own power to control that man and bring about his devolvement at a whim. It is a type of schadenfreude, a delight in the misfortune of others, coupled with a delight in the exercise of power. In order to gain a benefit from whoring out another man that would be worth the significant investment of time and energy required, the Top must be receiving in return something that he finds significantly valuable or compelling. These Tops occupy a very small niche among the greater community even of Dominants and Alphas, many of which are actually quite territorial about their conquests and are adverse to the idea of letting other men have what they consider to be theirs.

In any case, for the vast majority of Tops, watching a bottom get fucked just ain’t all that. Not their fantasy. You can try advertising for a Top to whore you out - you’ll never catch a fish if you don’t at least have a line in the water - but the smaller the population, the less it’s statistically likely that one of these special Tops is going to be there to find. Good luck.

[ncbareback]

Salt Lake City was good. Notre Dame, IN was  winner winner chicken dinner. Memphis was crash and burn. 

[BootmanLA]

17 minutes ago, ncbareback said:

Salt Lake City was good. Notre Dame, IN was  winner winner chicken dinner. Memphis was crash and burn. 

Not surprising. What do SLC and Notre Dame/South Bend have in common? Large conservative religious college campuses. AFAIK, there's nothing comparable in Memphis.

Additionally, Memphis is only about 25% white, While I'm sure there are some conservatives there, Shelby County went 65% for Biden last year despite Trump winning the state as a whole with 60% of the vote. So it's a fairly progressive place (at least for the south) and so you're not likely to have the kind of sexually repressed guys you get in a place like South Bend or SLC.

[BlackDude]

1 hour ago, ncbareback said:

Salt Lake City was good. Notre Dame, IN was  winner winner chicken dinner. Memphis was crash and burn. 

I can actually believe that. I’m in a similar sized city to Memphis, and it is not large enough to guarantee a turnout but just large enough for guys to think they can wait it out for a “better option.” Hell, I even had an ex-BB porn star I hooked up with who had to cancel a party due to flakes. So if it can happen to him....

Not that I’m experienced, but I would think like guys said on here: large city or smaller conservative town. 

[Oldercumslut]

I've had mixed results in Memphis.  One night I had 12 guys and other nights I've been alone all night.   I do remember a trip were everyone wanted me in the morning before I checked out of hotel.  Action started about 7 am and last one left at 1030.

I generally use a mix.  BBRT, Doublist even Grindr.