to all the married guys what would your wife say or do if she found out you like to suck cock?

[Poz2play]

My wife didn’t know I liked to play around with my friends we fucked and sucked. She didn’t know that I was homosexual living in a straight relationship. She was a ok at giving head. One of my friends was great giving head and I let it slip . She soon found out that I was having bareback sex . I tested positive a few months after that. I had been barebacking for a few years before she married me. She divorced me. 

[Bicycledude]

We have a sort of don’t ask don’t tell understanding. She knows I am turned on by gay porn, but I don’t tell her when I hook up for sex. Married for 56 years and I would never leave her, but I love to fuck with guys. No interest in other women.

[da1doc]

As I am reading this...and responding, it should be obvious she does not know.  If my obituary should appear suddenly, then you might logically conclude she found out...

 

just sayin’

[gwmxyz]

For some reason she was convinced this profile on gaydar was me.  I kept telling her she would be scaring the hell out of some complete innocent ("Helllo, it's your wife here...)

[Guest]

My wife doesn't know. If she'd find out that would probably mean divorce. We're not having sex anymore, and I'm definitely more into men than women. Gay? Maybe. If I'm not, I would love to be converted ("hetero" to gay, not neg to poz). But want to stay married, love my wife and our life together. Just very horny for dominant gay cocks and cum.

[barebottomslut]

She has no idea and I’ve been a slut since we’ve been together. Even had 3 guys use and abuse me the night before our wedding. 😈

[Bibttmmiami]

It turns my wife on. 

[Guest]

She knows...and loves watching.

Sometimes she'll get on her knees with me,put her head on my shoulder and tell me how sexy I look sucking cock.

[BiCurious100]

Hmmmm...

Out of all the new experiences that I look forward to in the coming months, this isn't one of them - frankly, I hope never to find out, since wouldn't go well and would probably end in divorce.

 

[fskn]

26 minutes ago, BiCurious100 said:

Out of all the new experiences that I look forward to in the coming months, this isn't one of them - frankly, I hope never to find out, since wouldn't go well and would probably end in divorce.

Your post made an impression on me.

I don't know if you've seen Woody Allen's Crimes and Misdemeanors, but one of the most interesting perspectives offered in the film is that of a rabbi who advocates what we'd today call radical honesty. The protagonist, a wealthy eye doctor with a doting wife, has been having an affair. The rabbi, his patient and friend, advocates telling her, and says that it will be difficult but could result in an even better relationship between them.

I don't know anything about your situation but I hope that you will find a way to have the sex you want and the marriage you want, too.

[BiCurious100]

13 minutes ago, fskn said:

Your post made an impression on me.

I don't know if you've seen Woody Allen's Crimes and Misdemeanors, but one of the most interesting perspectives offered in the film is that of a rabbi who advocates what we'd today call radical honesty. The protagonist, a wealthy eye doctor with a doting wife, has been having an affair. The rabbi, his patient and friend, advocates telling her, and says that it will be difficult but could result in an even better relationship between them.

I don't know anything about your situation but I hope that you will find a way to have the sex you want and the marriage you want, too.

Not seen this Woody Allen film, it sounds interesting.

I have been married for a long time and my wife is more of a good friend and sole-mate, to be honest, since sex with her dried up a few years ago.

I have had bareback sex, with several (female) prostitutes over the years and am now embarking on my bi-side.

I want to keep this side of me separate from my wife, since wish to remain in my marriage.

Interestingly, my wife must suspect, deep down, that I'm getting sex from somewhere else, although she has no idea that I'm also attracted to men.

In a way, it would be interesting to see how she would react, but I don't want to go down that road at present.

Writing this is actually a turn on, thinking about when I have my first visit to the sauna and suck my first cock 😆

[Guest]

I have recently been agonising about telling my wife, as we are in a sexless marriage. I think she may be ok with the fact I wanna have sex with men...I have been jokingly saying Im gay and bi sexual for a while....but I think the fact I have been cheating on her with anyone would be the end of our marriage,  as her previous husband cheated on her. I am really good at hiding my guy fucks and sucks  so the safest thing to do is carry on and say nothing...until I am caught out I guess!! I cheated on my first wife with women and she never found out until after I divorced her...I actually told her and we are still friends. 

[BarebackBrat]

My wife’s best friend is a gay guy. However if she knew I dressed, sucked cock, like being pissed on, fisted and bred by anonymous cock and have had more BBC than she. Well she would ruin my career, my relationships with my kids and take me for everything. 

[fskn]

10 hours ago, BiCurious100 said:

Writing this is actually a turn on, thinking about when I have my first visit to the sauna and suck my first cock 😆

Exciting, and keep us posted! Cock is good for you! 😏

Edited April 20, 2022 by fskn

[fskn]

4 hours ago, Queenzlander59 said:

I have recently been agonising about telling my wife, as we are in a sexless marriage. I think she may be ok with the fact I wanna have sex with men...I have been jokingly saying Im gay and bi sexual for a while....but I think the fact I have been cheating on her with anyone would be the end of our marriage

This is the worst, when one partner is not fulfilling the other's sexual needs and is effectively blocking the person from getting sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

It is irrational, selfish, and mean — quite inconsistent with love.

I hope you continue to have the sex you want, and either that you succeed in keeping it hidden (under the circumstances), or that your wife surprisingly accepts your needs (if she ever finds out).