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Hey there.

Been taking cock for years, but recently took the decision to get on PrEP and am keen to start taking raw loads.

Have you found that you get more or less offers on dating apps since you took the decision to go bare?

I was suddenly expecting to be inundated and it has'nt happened.

Interested in the experiences of others.

 

Thx

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I definitely think bareback is more popular. I’ve had guys play the bring condom game on and off over the years but hmmmm, the condoms never left my pocket and I received loafs and so did they. So yeah, bareback is the standard 

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I agree! Especially in ATL I’m on BBRT, Sniffies, Squirt regularly. I’d say I’m more popular or known on BBRT only because I’ve been on there longer and have been fucked by hundreds of tops just from BBRT alone. 

So guys know if I’m on all sites - even if it’s repeat breeders or even new tops or visitors - that I’m taking as many loads from as many tops that want to dump in my sloppy hole. No questions. So when guys message I usually have their raw cock balls deep up my muscle ass 5-15 minutes later

Guys hit me up a lot more that heard from a buddy or other tops that loaded me. It’s been great for me as more and more tops use me. Plus there’s no better lube than cum, and tops know I always have a SLOPPY hole that they can use! 

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Perhaps what you’re seeing is a reflection that barebacking has now become commonplace enough in the age of U=U and PrEP that it’s no longer eagerly sought on the basis of being hard to get. If a Top tells me “I only fuck bare,” my reply is both “Good, I only take it bare,” and “Okay... why would you not?”

Of course, I understand why someone would still personally choose to use a condom - they are undeniably the front-line prevention against most STDs. But with the death-spectre of HIV no longer looming immediately overhead, barebacking was bound to regain currency as the more natural method.

 If you’re relying in your claim of barebacking to generate interest in your profile, you should probably add some other attributes as well. In time, “I fuck bare” may become about as effective as “I have a nice cock” - only useful in that it isn’t a negative.

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TBH I find the apps are only good for finding active cruising spots. Over this last year actual hook ups from the apps have been almost non-existent (understandably so).

That said I can't remember the last time a top has even suggested wrapping up when I have been out. And before that I don't think I was ever asked at the sauna when it was open.

I don't raise the subject myself and always decline when they are mentioned. I can count on one hand the number of guys who have refused a fuck when I say I only take it raw.

Maybe this just says something about the guys I like...

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You’re several years too late for that kind of rush of attention. Years ago, being an open bare backer made you stand out from the crowd, and all the guys who were dying to ditch the rubbers would pursue you. Now bare is common enough that guys have lots of choices for getting it. 

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Yes, at least here in Atlanta. Since I went on PreP I no longer use condoms. Just some lube or spit on a cock pumping my hole. Best sites are bbrts and nastykinkpigs for me and of course Scruff too...

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For me I bareback coz I just want to feel skin on skin action. I’m already poz, but if I was neg, I’d just bareback and let the clinic inform me I was HIV Poz or had other STDs. 
 

bareback is way more popular now. I watched treasure island media films, and that’s basically why I wanted to bareback. It looked fucking great, I wanted to be bred, I wanted to try a slam, I wanted to get pozzed up like in viral load. But also these days stuff on pornhub is all bareback! 
 

im proud to have never needed to get prep coz I wanted HIV so I could get the biohazard tattoo, stay toxic, no meds for life, and breed chasers and negs.

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Thanks for the opinions guys.

I guess I was a little naive in hoping the opportunity to be the first to take me raw would spark loads of interest lol

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Its hit or miss for me, mostly depending on the site or time I'm on. Back in the days of good old Craigslist hookups, definitely. Grindr and BBRT today yes, it seems to garner more responses especially late night hours, not so much during the day. A4A it seems to repel a lot of guys and have been outright attacked by a few dudes that got offended when I prefer raw and would prefer they dont wrap it, calling me unclean and whatnot. But with the fear of HIV waning and all the medical options available as others have said, it's less of a [banned word] to be taking loads so it's less of a torch in the dark now to draw raw tops in. They dont have to treat every loaded hole like an oasis in the desert.

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I'd definitely say that I've had more sex since I went all bare and it has become the new normal. Think I've only come across one guy who wanted to use a condom but I declined. My only use for condoms is to store some cum from jerking off, freeze and use it later. 

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You're smart to go on prep if you're gonna bareback. I've always done bare so its not like I can say what its like versus with condoms. I typically get with younger guys and maybe that's part of it...young guys just don't usually ask about condoms for sex...they just go for it no questions. All of my profiles are upfront about wanting bareback so I guess if guys don't want bare they move on.

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in the last 6 months i had sex with 64 men, 48 of them were bareback... so it means, 75% of them sex i had were bareback... yes, its a very high number for me... and after the hiv vaccinne im pretty sure 90% of the sex will be bare

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I can only speak from a UK/Manchester perspective, but I can’t recall the last time any guy asked to use a rubber in an encounter. It’s sort of a given now that any guy will go in raw. 

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