Wingman Dating? 😉

[Guest]

So guys they say ‘friends know you best’ 

Would you trust your friends to chose your next short or long term partner? 
 

Have a great week 

 

Karl 😀

 

[Guest WelshBBCigarFuck]

I’ve had friends recommend a fuck before now, nothing much more than that.

you have a great week too

[AirmaxUK]

Not so much for choosing a partner, but when clubs were open it was fun to go with a friend as a wingman - you can kinda let go a bit more knowing someone is keeping an eye out, and we also developed techniques to catch guys we wouldn't normally get on our own.  We find it pays to put on a bit of a display or show to get the ball rolling and kickstart some action. So being versatile and helping each other out is useful. I wouldn't wingman with someone I don't know well - sometimes a greedy bottom takes over and steals all the action!  

[NEDenver]

Depends on the friend, I guess.  I would trust a few, probably not more than that.

[xxbjn2]

Not for choosing a partner but definitely for choosing the next guy to breed me. It's hot having someone to share the fun with and encourage other guys to join in, encouraging each other to take any cock you can.

[jonny4dad]

When I'm at a sauna I'll often tell whichever stranger is fucking me that he can offer my throat and ass to anyone and I'll take any raw cock he tells me to.  It's awesome how many really get off on the power of beckoning other men over to use me, or how a little nod of their head towards another guy will instantly send me over to take his raw dick.  

[Horus73]

Nope, no need for a wingman. Much prefer to hunt alone.

[Close2MyBro]

I wouldn't trust any of my friends for finding me a long term partner. Their ideal of what I need is not what I need. Most of my friends would not even be good at choosing a short term partner either, but a few of my fuck buddies would be excellent at finding me short term partners, and I have one who often refers me off to other people he knows on a regular basis.

[Guest]

I don't have any gay male friends.  Would rather find guys on my own.  Would love a life partner who is good with an open relationship.  No cheating drama this way. 

 

[Alunex]

Most of my friends have fucked me, so they could probably guess who I’d like in bed. For long term partner? Probably not

[anonCUMtainer]

On 6/29/2021 at 3:29 PM, xxbjn2 said:

Not for choosing a partner but definitely for choosing the next guy to breed me. It's hot having someone to share the fun with and encourage other guys to join in, encouraging each other to take any cock you can.

I appreciate the 'guest' OP for putting this out there. Interestingly, the way the topic heading reads - I assumed (perhaps literally) it meant dating your wingman. Which made sense to me, a lot of sense to me. For the reason my brother @xxbjn2 so eloquently pointed out.

As for fitting in with society and coupling up and having a "partner" for the 'bad times' I am conflicted by the following:

• anal gay bottoms, the kind that need to get fucked and bred by any horny man - can never seriously consider monogamy and accept or fulfill their calling of being used as a fuck hole for any horny man in need.
  • this is where having a 'good friend' like a wingman as a life partner makes a lot of sense to me.
  • especially when there is a shared purpose for the relationship.
  • having another gay bottom as a partner that doesn't also want to act as your wingman, seems like a dead end situation unless the relationship is built on other common and shared activities beyond sex.
• oral gay men (sides), also just want to suck any dick. they may not need a wingman.
  • this may appeal or lend itself more to the "lone wolves" of the gay community.
  • why only oral? I never understood this aversion to using your ass to get bred...tbh.
• a-sexual or confused sexual persons. these people are the ones who complicate everything for all the actual breeders on this site.
  • are these guys "tops" because they don't like anal?
  • are they x, because they don't like y? not because they are hired to want z?
  • is there a simple test to help a-sexual people figure this out?
    • if you see a sexy ass and you don't immediate get hard and want to breed it, then:
      • it's either not the ass for you
      • or you don't want to breed ass
    • if you see a sexy person, but don't imagine yourself penetrating them / or being penetrated by them
      • it's either not the right person to breed
      • or you don't actually want penetration to breed
  • there is no way to "teach" these people how to desire to breed. you either need to breed (or get bred) or you don't.
  • I think we need to find a way to let these poor fuckers off the hook so they can have their own letter in the alphabet of marginalized weird soup pop culture has lumped us all into.

Sorry for the weird rant, but yeah...I don't know if gay men who want to be bred by any man are meant to be in any relationship, except for with their wingman.

HMMMM, love you guys. Go easy on me.

 

[blackrobe]

When I see guys out together with a wingman vibe at a venue/bathhouse/etc., it usually leads to neither of them having any contact with anyone else. It seems like the exact opposite of what a true wingman enables.  

I don't understand the dynamic, perhaps it's safety, perhaps it's concern about being judged for who/what you really want being seen by another, but it usually leads to looking and not touching. Why even venture out?

To the OP's point, I'd love someone who knows what I need sending those qualified breeders my way. I just don't have a friend like that in my life.

[NWUSHorny]

7 minutes ago, blackrobe said:

When I see guys out together with a wingman vibe at a venue/bathhouse/etc., it usually leads to neither of them having any contact with anyone else. It seems like the exact opposite of what a true wingman enables.  

I don't understand the dynamic, perhaps it's safety, perhaps it's concern about being judged for who/what you really want being seen by another, but it usually leads to looking and not touching. Why even venture out?

Interesting take. Since I've never used or been a wingman, I can only speak to what I've observed, but there are at least a couple of different wingman dynamics that exist. I think you may have a regional bias based on where you live.

The one you described is the only one that is common in the PNW.

In other parts of North America, you see both the dynamic you described as well as true wingman dynamics, where they do actively assist each other in trying to hookup, sometimes going as far as the wingman pretty much whoring out his partner. I've seen guys attempt it in the PNW, but I've never seen it work here, on the other hand it is highly effective in places like Palm Springs and LA where both of these dynamics coexist.