What tops want?

[LetsPOZBreed]

4 hours ago, parvenu said:

Just polite guys, I know we all discuss being hard faggot or dom or whatever but at least when meeting just being relaxed and not looking weirdly judgmental (we all judge anyway). Moaning - not crazy fake sean cody but the raw sound of a bitch taking cock up his ass, whimpering. Most of these will prob be meet ups so I always just tell him to keep it at the angle I want and dont improvise, the main thing is more me focusing on the feeling of your hole so I can deposit a load into it and feel like I conquered you.

I'm upvoting this.  I love a squealer as a bottom, makes me want to fuck him harder.  I can sense a fake-porn-style moan from a mile away...and that is a complete turn off.  

[Phallarchist]

I do like them much shorter. Rectum sex is awkward but the process is easier and feels more natural with a smaller boy. I want to push him around as necessary without feeling like I'm moving heavy furniture. I also like seeing my impact on him as I push deep into his little body.

That said, an inordinate number of rather tall men want me to ram them hard. They're often sturdy and their cunts can take a beating. So it's not out of the question.

As to masculinity: yes. Fat: no.

[hexfet]

On 7/10/2021 at 5:46 AM, Phallarchist said:

I do like them much shorter. Rectum sex is awkward but the process is easier and feels more natural with a smaller boy. I want to push him around as necessary without feeling like I'm moving heavy furniture. I also like seeing my impact on him as I push deep into his little body.

As a fairly petite top, but decently hung, this definitely resonates well.  Love feeling a small bottom work hard on my cock as I really stretch him out good and move him around to hit all the spots in there. 
But ya having a taller bigger fella with a steel belted cunt you can just pound out isn’t the worst time 😉

[OrdinaryJoe]

17 hours ago, hexfet said:

As a fairly petite top, but decently hung, this definitely resonates well.  Love feeling a small bottom work hard on my cock as I really stretch him out good and move him around to hit all the spots in there. 
But ya having a taller bigger fella with a steel belted cunt you can just pound out isn’t the worst time 😉

My most favorite thing in the world is being laid out by a guy smaller than me. But it's not super common that smaller guys like to top a bigger guy. The norm is smaller, younger = bottom. Older, bigger = Top. I understand that......just makes it that much hotter when a smaller and/or younger guy wants to go to town on me

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

On 7/18/2021 at 1:03 PM, OrdinaryJoe said:

My most favorite thing in the world is being laid out by a guy smaller than me. But it's not super common that smaller guys like to top a bigger guy. The norm is smaller, younger = bottom. Older, bigger = Top. I understand that......just makes it that much hotter when a smaller and/or younger guy wants to go to town on me

I'm the same way, love tops smaller than me. But unfortunately I'm on the more masculine thick built size so I'm unfuckable unless they want some "bbc"😒

[SFSloppyAznBottom]

I felt that many tops care about the person they are fucking more than bottoms do, such as a certain personalities or type.

Many bottoms would kinda just take any cock. 
 

Is my assessment accurate ?

[mblad99]

As a top, I want bottom that truly gives me the sense that my sexual needs are his priority.  Second, I want him to appreciate that I am willing to fuck him.  I dont like bottoms who treat me as a human dildo. I am doing you an act of kindness by fucking you.   And finally, I want you appreciate my load.  So dont tell me to cum in a condom or pull out.  I dont care about the physical body as much as the attitude.

 

[Guest]

21 minutes ago, mblad99 said:

As a top, I want bottom that truly gives me the sense that my sexual needs are his priority.  Second, I want him to appreciate that I am willing to fuck him.  I dont like bottoms who treat me as a human dildo. I am doing you an act of kindness by fucking you.   And finally, I want you appreciate my load.  So dont tell me to cum in a condom or pull out.  I dont care about the physical body as much as the attitude.

 

 

You are so right, My role as a bottom is to give pleasure and be centered on the man's sexual needs.   I'm like a submissive wife and know how to honor and obey.  It is all about you, your cum, your cock.  I love tops who know what they want and are dominate. 

[BootmanLA]

19 hours ago, SFSloppyAznBottom said:

I felt that many tops care about the person they are fucking more than bottoms do, such as a certain personalities or type.

Many bottoms would kinda just take any cock. 
 

Is my assessment accurate ?

I'd say it is, in part, for some people. How's that for equivocation?

Some bottoms (you say many, I can't say if it's most or just some) do in fact want "any cock". I think that some posters (again, can't say how many) dramatically exaggerate their willingness to take any cock out there, and some will do that when they're high but not when they're sober, or when they're extra horny but not other times, and so on.

That said, I also know some tops that will fuck any hole that's not moving away too fast. Again, I can't say how many tops are like that.

I *suspect* that tops who are reasonably fit, passably attractive, and hung at least slightly better than average have - IF THEY WISH - the ability to be pretty picky about who they fuck. There may well be significant numbers of tops who are less conventionally appealing, for whatever reason, who have to lower their standards as much as some bottoms do (as you note).

[ErosWired]

20 hours ago, SFSloppyAznBottom said:

I felt that many tops care about the person they are fucking more than bottoms do, such as a certain personalities or type.

Many bottoms would kinda just take any cock. 
 

Is my assessment accurate ?

I would think that your assessment is more accurate than not, simply because it’s a buyer’s market for the Tops out there. Polls on this forum consistently put bottoms at around 66% of the total MSM population, with Total Tops coming in at less than 10%. Tops not only get to make a choice, they have to make a choice, because there’s simply too much ass to be humanly fucked, and the majority of them are done for the night after one ejaculation.

So if a Top is obliged to select one bottom over another, he has to rely on some criteria of some sort, and no one can fault him if he puts his personal sexual needs and preferences foremost in making the decision - that is, actually, the point of the thing for him, and the sine qua non that enables us bottoms to receive cock at all.

To wit:

3 hours ago, mblad99 said:

As a top, I want bottom that truly gives me the sense that my sexual needs are his priority.  Second, I want him to appreciate that I am willing to fuck him.  I dont like bottoms who treat me as a human dildo. I am doing you an act of kindness by fucking you.   And finally, I want you appreciate my load.  So dont tell me to cum in a condom or pull out.  I dont care about the physical body as much as the attitude.

 

^ This is, in my mind, precisely correct, and well put. This is the sort of Man that I delight in servicing - he understands me, and I understand him.

[ErosWired]

On 7/17/2021 at 6:11 PM, hexfet said:

a steel belted cunt

By this I guess you mean a cunt that never gets...tired?  😜

[hungry_hole]

On 7/7/2021 at 11:52 AM, Xtraglazedonuthole said:

What tops want?

I don't think this is an easy question to answer because from a bottom like myself, anyone who fucks me and breeds my hole is a "top". This may include a horny bottom who at the sauna just wants to unload so he can go home or take a break. But I'm sure that most guys who fuck want a clean hole.

Tops, or guys who enjoy fucking, most likely can pound a hole for a long time or can fuck several holes without shooting their load. So what they want is not only a clean hole, but a hole that is in tune with his needs in terms of the right pressure on the cock and a nice experience while shooting their load inside the hole. I pay a lot of attention to the pressure that my hole applies on the cock and because every cock needs different pressure, like uncut vs. cut, I always play with my hole and get the feedback from the guy fucking me. Some guys need more pressure during the fucking and while the shoot their loads, while others need less pressure otherwise they cum to quickly. Once a guy at the sauna throughout the night fucked me three times and gave me three loads, which told me that what he wanted my hole was providing.

But before fucking the guy needs a good hard-on and here is what every guy is different. Twink holes are very popular but many guys prefer to fuck and breed mature holes. Others need some kink.

Once in a Montreal sauna I made sure to have in my room a French version of my "CREAM MY HOLE" glow-in-the-dark sign "Trou à décharge". I was on the sling in my room wearing my shorts with a green hole that glows in the dark. My lights were dimmed and had the door open. Some French speaking guy came in, uncut,  fucked me for a few minutes and eventually shot inside while uttering some hot talk in French. He pulled out, was very happy, and before leaving he managed to tell me that he liked the sign which turned him on and made him came in.

What did this "top" want? Hard to tell. He didn't come into my room because I was a twink or a mature bottom, He simply read the sign in French and when he saw my hole on the sling and the glowing sign "Hole to cum inside", he was compelled to fuck it and cum inside.

I've had many ongoing fuck-buddies, some 8-10 years, that I've met in the parks and saunas, on telephone hook-up systems, and later, in the Internet. With these guys who knew me as a bareback bottom, would come over to my place and would have sex. Some wanted me on my bed on my fours, others wanted to use my gloryhole. Why would these "tops", for years, come back, over and over again? Number one, a clean hole.

After a clean hole, if a guy comes back for another session it means that he probably enjoyed the fucking itself, the way the hole grips the cock, etc, and also the experience of blowing a load inside the hole, which usually feels soft and moist and which can adapt to the needs of the cock at the time of explosion. I had one long-time fuck-buddy (he had an 8" cut cock, more than 8 years, I met him on the telephone system), who when he was cumming inside me, he would ask me not to touch any part of his body. With him I would open up my hole wide so he would stay inside for a couple of minutes. He would eventually be back, which meant he liked the experience, starting from the clean hole.

I say this because sometimes a "top" may want to fuck me again simply because he found a "hole" that he feels comfortable with, and sticks to it. This is actually true in my case, where a much younger guy constantly wants to have sex with me because he is too shy to cruise around and find other holes. It is a boost to the bottom's  ego to feel that guys want their hole, independent on "what do tops want?" It can be kink, like at the sauna, but it can also be a fantasy like "masculine bottoms" or "twink bottoms". In Montreal you go to one sauna if you want twinks and to another if you're into masculine/leather types.

"What do tops want?" may depend on if the top is looking for a bottom for a boyfriend/lover/relationship, or is in at a sauna/bathhouse/darkrooms. I've been assuming that is a top looking for an anonymous bottom at a sauna.