Ever fallen for a random guy in a sauna?

[BritishCumdump]

Hey, does anyone have any tales of just slightly falling for someone fucking them at a sauna? I was at SBN in London yesterday and spent some time getting fucked in one of the slings, and this guy comes along to take his turn and what an absolute stunner, I was pretty poppered up but I think I even thanked him after he finished haha. He was like nicely short, big phoenix style tattoo across his chest and big otter beard and hair. Just moments like that that make being a cumdump just that extra bit special 🤤

[PigBoyDallas]

I think it’s pretty easy o fall for a guy when he checks all the boxes for you…body type, dick, looks, etc. I’m never sure if I do the same for them and have to remain aware of that. After all, they’re there for the same thing..they wanna get off first and foremost. They’re looking for Mr Right Now, not Mr Right. I’m sure to some I’m just a hole to breed and I’m fine for that. I’ve given my number to some I’m really hot for but I rarely hear from them. They want anon, which I get. We both get what we want in that moment and that’s cool. 

[BritishCumdump]

2 hours ago, PigBoyDallas said:

I think it’s pretty easy o fall for a guy when he checks all the boxes for you…body type, dick, looks, etc. I’m never sure if I do the same for them and have to remain aware of that. After all, they’re there for the same thing..they wanna get off first and foremost. They’re looking for Mr Right Now, not Mr Right. I’m sure to some I’m just a hole to breed and I’m fine for that. I’ve given my number to some I’m really hot for but I rarely hear from them. They want anon, which I get. We both get what we want in that moment and that’s cool. 

Yeah! I mean I get off on the feeling that I'm just a hole to breed for them, but it does add to it when you feel privileged that this hot guy is shooting his spunk in you and not some other slut. I don't think I'd give a guy from the sauna my number but I'll defo add them as a favourite on Grindr if they're on.

[MuscledHorse]

It's an easy state to be in, but I think guys tend to confuse the dopamine/serotonin high of good sex with a person who is a fit mate outside the bedroom. I click sexually with A LOT of guys, but I know some of them, no matter how great the sex is, would never be compatible with me because I've seen how they behave in the rest of their lives outside of sex.

[DarkroomTaker]

12 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

Hey, does anyone have any tales of just slightly falling for someone fucking them at a sauna? I was at SBN in London yesterday and spent some time getting fucked in one of the slings, and this guy comes along to take his turn and what an absolute stunner, I was pretty poppered up but I think I even thanked him after he finished haha. He was like nicely short, big phoenix style tattoo across his chest and big otter beard and hair. Just moments like that that make being a cumdump just that extra bit special 🤤

Yeah I get this. Many guys fucked me, but there was one guy, who used to fuck me good who stood out from all the rest. He had a great not perfect body, but hairy, thick thighs, black short hair, blue eyes and a real short but girthy dick. He had a hot smell about him and tasted of cigarettes lol. But he fucked me good. Kissed and licked my armpits and kissed me and said thanks for getting me off. I still wank about him years later, oh and he was called Steve, for some reason I love that name and its gets me horny.

[120DaysofSodom]

My most recent trip to Prague I met another gay porn actor there in bathhouse Babylonia. He came home with me and the next day I took him to dinner and an orchestra of Mozart at the Church of Our Lady Before Tyn. We dated for a few weeks while I was there and it was fun while it lasted. Went to the spas together, had fun groups. He was from Siberia and was an exchange student studying history there at the University of Praha. Didnt realize he had done porn til he pulled up his videos and I chuckled, then put my name into google and up opened pandoras box with my moppy head of hair being pissed on. I definitely didnt "fall for him" though, but certainly had a more than conventional, passionate fling.

[120DaysofSodom]

17 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

 

 

Edited October 19, 2021 by BaphometNocturne

[Guest]

Met one of my former partners at a sauna while I was away from home on holiday. A top, he cruised me then gave me a good fucking. He was one of those guys that didn't leave after he blew his load and by that stage I didn't want him too anyway. I ended up going home with him. After a couple of weeks he travelled to visit me and stayed for a week and I asked him to move permanently. That relationship last 18 months which for me was a record but while he could play around and could stay out half the night cruising toilets and parks I wasn't allowed to hook up with guys on my own as he was quite jealous of that and although we did enjoy some threesomes I slowly lost interest as there was nothing "upstairs" to engage me other than sex. He also had no job and was unlikely to find one in a hurry.

[BritishCumdump]

5 hours ago, BaphometNocturne said:

My most recent trip to Prague I met another gay porn actor there in bathhouse Babylonia. He came home with me and the next day I took him to dinner and an orchestra of Mozart at the Church of Our Lady Before Tyn. We dated for a few weeks while I was there and it was fun while it lasted. Went to the spas together, had fun groups. He was from Siberia and was an exchange student studying history there at the University of Praha. Didnt realize he had done porn til he pulled up his videos and I chuckled, then put my name into google and up opened pandoras box with my moppy head of hair being pissed on. I definitely didnt "fall for him" though, but certainly had a more than conventional, passionate fling.

That sounds really nice, was it just like a connection you felt at the sauna or was he just so attractive that you knew you wanted to know him outside of that environment? Was he a good fuck?

[BritishCumdump]

4 hours ago, NZWhore said:

Met one of my former partners at a sauna while I was away from home on holiday. A top, he cruised me then gave me a good fucking. He was one of those guys that didn't leave after he blew his load and by that stage I didn't want him too anyway. I ended up going home with him. After a couple of weeks he travelled to visit me and stayed for a week and I asked him to move permanently. That relationship last 18 months which for me was a record but while he could play around and could stay out half the night cruising toilets and parks I wasn't allowed to hook up with guys on my own as he was quite jealous of that and although we did enjoy some threesomes I slowly lost interest as there was nothing "upstairs" to engage me other than sex. He also had no job and was unlikely to find one in a hurry.

See that's my worry that if I settle down it'll be a one-way street in regards to being an open relationship. At least you shared some good times. When you say he didn't leave you at the sauna, do you mean he stayed there encouraging other guys to fuck you? 😈

[Guest WelshBBCigarFuck]

My first ever sauna visit in my 20’s was an experience. I was wandering around and this tall muscular guy took an interest, turns out he had modelled on the sauna’s calendar too. Well we went into a cubicle and he proceeded to eat my hole, when he stood up he had this massive cock, bigger than any I had taken at that time but because of how relaxed the rimming made me he just slowly slid in balls deep. There was some pain when he got 3/4 inside, it felt like he had forced something open but he kissed me and started pumping slowly. After half an hour he started pumping faster and harder and, without any discussion from either of us, he shot balls deep inside me and just kept pumping back and forth for a few minutes afterwards. 
I didn’t ask his status, he didn’t ask mine, but he shot so deep I didn’t have any leakage and I proceeded to fuck and get fucked by a few more hours with other guys after he left. Whenever I went back I looked out for him but we didn’t cross paths again.

[tallslenderguy]

Not necessarily at a sauna, but i have had this happen a (comparatively) few times with anonymous hook ups. i've had thousands of those, and the guys i have "fallen" for i could probably count on 2 hands, so there is something unique and special about it, though i cannot exactly say what? It's more/different than sex or lust, i've had enough of that to know the difference. For me, it has been an energy, a connection that goes beyond physcal feel or appearance, with several of the guys, i did not even see them because i was on my stomach. But i have literally had to bite my mattress to keep from blurting "i love you" to a few guys. 

There was one anonymous guy who was a regular FB that i fell pretty hard for, again, never saw Him but i loved Him. He stopped breeding me after i became poz. i told Him and he thanked me for telling Him, but it ended after that. i still miss Him, not just the breeding, but Him.  

Another Top picked me up at a gay resort and we spent the weekend together. He was a Dom of the 'coach' variety. He was very affectionate and affirming, in a sort of degrading way. He was really insightful and skilled and He regressed me to being His "good boy."  Was a total mind fuck for me, a first and have yet to ever experience that again, it was very real. my emotional response to Him was adoration, fell really hard for Him, and i think He liked me too, but rejected me after finding out i'm poz. 

[BritishCumdump]

6 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

Not necessarily at a sauna, but i have had this happen a (comparatively) few times with anonymous hook ups. i've had thousands of those, and the guys i have "fallen" for i could probably count on 2 hands, so there is something unique and special about it, though i cannot exactly say what? It's more/different than sex or lust, i've had enough of that to know the difference. For me, it has been an energy, a connection that goes beyond physcal feel or appearance, with several of the guys, i did not even see them because i was on my stomach. But i have literally had to bite my mattress to keep from blurting "i love you" to a few guys. 

There was one anonymous guy who was a regular FB that i fell pretty hard for, again, never saw Him but i loved Him. He stopped breeding me after i became poz. i told Him and he thanked me for telling Him, but it ended after that. i still miss Him, not just the breeding, but Him.  

Another Top picked me up at a gay resort and we spent the weekend together. He was a Dom of the 'coach' variety. He was very affectionate and affirming, in a sort of degrading way. He was really insightful and skilled and He regressed me to being His "good boy."  Was a total mind fuck for me, a first and have yet to ever experience that again, it was very real. my emotional response to Him was adoration, fell really hard for Him, and i think He liked me too, but rejected me after finding out i'm poz. 

That's so sad that they rejected you after finding out you were poz. At least here there's plenty of guys that'll put you at the head of the queue because of your status. It's good that you had those hot encounters and connections though, hopefully there'll be many more to come! 

[120DaysofSodom]

7 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

That sounds really nice, was it just like a connection you felt at the sauna or was he just so attractive that you knew you wanted to know him outside of that environment? Was he a good fuck?

The sex was great, and I loved his twinky feet and body. We were just really into each other and it was passionate. He came back to my AirBNB after the bath closed and the conversation was good too. I liked that he was studious and it was all the more interesting when we found out that we had both been in many dozens of porn films. I took him the next day to dinner, and then got him a ticket to an orchestra I already had planned to go to later that evening. Afterwards, he took me for Absinthe, and then we went clubbing. Hung out over several days, and we were both cool with the other one having as much fun as they wanted at the baths because our thing was what it was and there was no kind of commitment. Thats why I enjoy traveling by myself. I always meet somebody that I have more than just a one-night stand with but still remains just a fling.

[tallslenderguy]

23 minutes ago, BritishCumdump said:

That's so sad that they rejected you after finding out you were poz. At least here there's plenty of guys that'll put you at the head of the queue because of your status. It's good that you had those hot encounters and connections though, hopefully there'll be many more to come! 

The guy at the gay resort was the one who rejected me after learning i was poz. Gotta admit, it did sting because He got hold of a piece of my heart.  He had type one diabetes and His comment to me was: "i don't need another disease to deal with."  He was really a nice guy, not mean at all, i think He just blurted without thinking first. i actually think He was disappointed because i think the connection went both ways, that He really liked me too. i think it was part ignorance too, so many still do not grasp that HIV undetectable and on meds is one of the 'safer' guys to be with if one is concerned about not getting HIV.  my jaw dropped (internally) and i said nothing, it would have been pathetic of me to do so, to try and explain why i was worth having, i don't think he even connected that he had just reduced me to a disease.  But though it stung, it wasn't debilitating for me. my sense of self worth doesn't depend on him or anyone else.  As a bottom with a fair amount of sub, i love the connection i can have with a Top, and they can wield a lot of power with me, but i only want someone who wants me, and that was not the case here.  Thanks for your sweet thoughts.