Tops - How Hard Is It To Find “Good Pussy”?

[ErosWired]

There have been two or three times when Tops have enjoyed using me and been particularly complimentary of my ass. I mean, lots of Tops give compliments of some sort or other, but these particular guys stand out with me because they all said the same thing:

”That is good pussy. Good pussy is hard to find.”

I have to wonder how hard it can actually be. As we all know, there’s a sea of ass out here for Tops to choose from. Pickings ain’t slim. How uncommon is it actually to find an ass that you would classify as “good pussy” versus unremarkable, average, or even ‘bad’? What percentage of the men you fuck reward you with that level of pleasure?

 I recognize, by the way, that ‘good’ anything is a subjective measure, but since the guys I’m referring to all used the same phrase in essentially the identical context, I assume there is some common sensibility surrounding what may constitute “good pussy”.

[KylerIsTrash]

There have been a couple tops that have stood out for me as well. There was one night I had a top saying “bro this ass is better than pussy. You have no idea bro. I’ve fucked a lot of ass and a lot of pussy and this ass is the greatest.” I was blindfolded in the sling that night but I could tell this guy kept coming back to fuck and breed.
I prefer not to refer to my ass as a pussy but I kept my mouth shut since it’s not my place to correct a top and I could tell this dude was way into it. His complements were good advertising in the dark room. 
Another complement that stands out is a top that was pounding me when another guy walks up to the sling and says “you know this guy lets any nasty dick use him” and the top responds “I don’t fuckin care this ass feels too good” as he proceeded to nut. 
Maybe these tops say the same thing to every btm but there are instances that stand out as exceptional from my point of view and they often involve the word pussy *cringe*

[Ieatcumholes]

As a top, I can say that "good pussy" can be unexpectedly good. I've hooked up with this guy who in some ways is most definitely my "type" (as if I only have one) but in other ways definitely isn't. Yet his pussy is some of the best I've ever had the pleasure of sliding into, fucking and breeding! I would've expected his pussy to be average at best. And I have to admit (although not to him) that his pussy is some of the best I've ever had.

For me, bad pussy falls into the following categories:

• the guy is off to my fucking rhythm, thereby throwing me off my fucking game
• I understand that the pussy isn't the natural role for that part of the body, so I don't trip if "accidents happen"...., but someone who obviously hasn't taken the time to prepare for getting fucked is bad pussy
• if fucking you seems like "work," then you're bad pussy
• If I don't cum from/when fucking you, then you're bad pussy

Average pussy means I got off, but had to work a little harder at it than I might've liked (like thinking about fucking another guy while I was fucking you). Average pussy is kept around for those times when good pussy isn't available.

Good pussy is a pleasure to slide into, fuck and breed. And I want to do it repeatedly (as in on multiple occasions)! So, from my perspective, you should be happy/proud to have been called "good pussy" by 2 or 3 tops!

Edited March 3, 2022 by Ieatcumholes
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[hntnhole]

Well, I never use that particular term* - I call it Hole.  And, I use that phrase (that is good Hole) fairly regularly, but not commonly.  That would be in the context of visually exciting, (ie, symmetrically in tune with the rest of the body, and nicely hairy), tight enough to clamp down on my Cock, experienced enough to milk it, experienced enough to know when to let me do the work instead, and already been used when I happen along.  A wet Hole is already half-way there to "good", as far as I'm concerned, since that indicates an already dedicated love of taking loads off raw Cocks.

*to me, using a feminine term for a man's body is simply not appropriate.  

[LetsPOZBreed]

Not that I ever call it "pussy" (either mine or someone else's), but what has made guys stand out for me in the past is this.  Any bottom that can make *me* (an admitted vers bttm) want to repeatedly top him has got to have something good going on...

- Agreed with @Ieatcumholes on the rhythm part.  If your "pussy" is moving at a different speed to my thrusting, I quickly lose interest.  You should be following *my* lead...not dictating yours.  This also goes for bottoms who attempt to reposition me to something where I'm not able to thrust as comfortably and deeply as I want.  

- I don't really like bossy bottoms either.  It's one thing if you tell me what you like before playing, but ordering me around is the quickest way of getting me to pull out and leave.  

- Be legitimately responsive to my actions.  If you're too quiet when I'm fucking you, then I think you're not enjoying me; also this when a bottom does "fake moaning" that you see in professional porn.  

- Inside of a hole, my cock tends to be a bit of an intense squirter; much more than when I'm just jerking off.  Also, I tend to stop at the point of the first shot so that my bottom can feel me throbbing.  The best bottoms are the ones that genuinely respond to this and instinctively pull me in closer.  It's the kind of thing that makes me feel "wanted", even if it's an anon session.

I guess it's a bit of a personal preference, but I love it when my bottoms show a genuine interest in *me*.  I'm not asking anyone to fall in love, but just let me know in some way that you're actually enjoying what I'm doing and that I'm not just another random cock in your hole.  It's the kind of practice that I use when I bottom - really show my tops how much I want them fucking me - that keeps them coming back for more.  

[hntnhole]

Well said, all the way around.  I've never cared for "pushy" bottoms either.  There's a time for any mention of preferences/favorites, etc, but it definitely is not in the middle of the Breeding.  

[fskn]

34 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

[...] already been used when I happen along.  A wet Hole is already half-way there to "good", as far as I'm concerned, since that indicates an already dedicated love of taking loads off raw Cocks.

Indeed. Empirical evidence!

[Guest]

11 hours ago, Ieatcumholes said:

As a top, I can say that "good pussy" can be unexpectedly good. I've hooked up with this guy who in some ways is most definitely my "type" (as if I only have one) but in other ways definitely isn't. Yet his pussy is some of the best I've ever had the pleasure of sliding into, fucking and breeding! I would've expected his pussy to be average at best. And I have to admit (although not to him) that his pussy is some of the best I've ever had.

For me, bad pussy falls into the following categories:

• the guy is off to my fucking rhythm, thereby throwing me off my fucking game
• I understand that the pussy isn't the natural role for that part of the body, so I don't trip if "accidents happen"...., but someone who obviously hasn't taken the time to prepare for getting fucked is bad pussy
• if fucking you seems like "work," then you're bad pussy
• If I don't cum from/when fucking you, then you're bad pussy

Average pussy means I got off, but had to work a little harder at it than I might've liked (like thinking about fucking another guy while I was fucking you). Average pussy is kept around for those times when good pussy isn't available.

Good pussy is a pleasure to slide into, fuck and breed. And I want to do it repeatedly (as in on multiple occasions)! So, from my perspective, you should be happy/proud to have been called "good pussy" by 2 or 3 tops!

I have been called "good pussy" by most of the guys who have bred me. A couple months ago, a top trained me how to use my pussy muscles to thrill guys who breed me. I started using dildos of different sizes, beginning with one that was 6.5 inches. After being well-lubricated, I slowly inserted the dildo, held it in place, then contracted my pussy muscles then relaxed the muscles. I soon found it comfortable to hold the dildo in for several minutes, contracting and relaxing my pussy muscles. I gradually was able to take a dildo 8 inches long and 3 inches thick. The sensation of inserting this dildo, holding it in place, then sliding it in and out was over the top. In one practice session I shot a huge load. The top who trained me came over to find out how I had been doing. He stripped me naked, lubricated my pussy with his precum, then slid his cock all the way in. While his cock rested in my pussy, I contracted and simultaneously relaxed my pussy muscles. Within a few minutes, he moaned as he released a load in my pussy. He didn't have to thrust his hips back and forth before shooting his load. With the training that I had, I was able to make him cum just by contracting and relaxing my pussy muscles. Now, I can't help asking how many bottoms can do this? I'll bet you can't wait to experience that......

[LetsPOZBreed]

Also, the best bottoms I've fucked don't necessarily fit the chiseled Adonis-type (with maybe a couple exceptions here and there).  Sexually, I like guys of differing qualities (legal age, race, body type, etc.) as it's more about the attitude than the physical side - within reason of course.  The best bottoms are the ones who don't go around wearing this distinction on their sleeve.  Personally, if I read in a guy's profile about him being the best [insert sexual act here]; my own experience tells me that I'll be disappointed.  

The best bottoms are the guys who are able to peak my curiosity - somehow telling me they are a good bottom without them actually saying they are a good bottom.  Sounds counterintutive, but hopefully that made sense...

Edited March 3, 2022 by LetsPOZBreed
Emphasis on specific words.

[iamwhatiam84]

Had a "straight guy" once who shared a Xanax and some beers with me.   A couple hours later and he's barefucking me doggy style behind some abandoned house while telling me how much better my hole felt than his girl's pussy.  Was definitely a turn on.  Of course, I made sure to clench my hole nice and tight around his cock as he pumped a load in it.  I wonder if after going back to his girlfriend and subsequent fucks with her after that, how often he though of my hole while he was fucking her

[occumhungry]

Criteria for good hole:

1) Has to be clean; nothing kills my boner more than the smell of sex shit. When mixed with lube, it really turns me off.

2) Its loose enough to penetrate without much effort, but controlled enough so the bottom tightens at the right times.

3) Cum, cum, cum. The more cum in the hole, the better it feels. That's when I really start being verbal about how good a hole is.

4) Just enough cushion for pushin. I hate fucking hard and hitting into a bony ass. But if its too big, I don't get in deep enough.

[ErosWired]

23 hours ago, Ieatcumholes said:

(like thinking about fucking another guy while I was fucking you).

Never a good sign.

 

Several here have pointed out that they don’t refer to it as “pussy”, and it’s not my term of choice either, but “good pussy” just happens to be the phrase that keeps being applied in my encounters for some reason.

11 hours ago, hotpussyboy said:

I was able to make him cum just by contracting and relaxing my pussy muscles. Now, I can't help asking how many bottoms can do this? I'll bet you can't wait to experience that......

More of us than you imagine. Internal muscle work is a basic skill for any bottom who aspires to a level of quality service. The real skill lies in knowing when to apply it for best effect, and being able to fine-tune the pressure and tempo. Full-on milking is certainly doable, but sometimes a little control and finesse is what’s called for. Very often I’ll help a Top get over the edge with just a v-e-r-y light application of pressure, just a quick touch, to provide a tiny bit of resistance to his glans as it slides. It’s not so much a superpower as it is a craft, something that a bottom masters more and more completely with time and experience - if he’s at all serious about service.

[ErosWired]

22 minutes ago, occumhungry said:

3) Cum, cum, cum. The more cum in the hole, the better it feels. That's when I really start being verbal about how good a hole is.

But that isn’t really a feature of the ass itself, it’s a circumstance. Would you say that an otherwise mediocre hole would become a good hole if it had cum in it? Or that a hole that in every other respect would be considered excellent wouldn’t be if it weren’t pre-loaded? If I understand you correctly, you’re saying that no pussy is really good unless it’s been pre-fucked by someone else. Which, if that’s your personal criteria, no problem - it just doesn’t seem like an evaluation of the merits of the hole itself. It’s sort of like saying that a steak can’t be a good steak unless it has enough steak sauce on it.

[hntnhole]

5 hours ago, ErosWired said:

More of us than you imagine. Internal muscle work is a basic skill for any bottom who aspires to a level of quality service. The real skill lies in knowing when to apply it for best effect, and being able to fine-tune the pressure and tempo. Full-on milking is certainly doable, but sometimes a little control and finesse is what’s called for. Very often I’ll help a Top get over the edge with just a v-e-r-y light application of pressure, just a quick touch, to provide a tiny bit of resistance to his glans as it slides. It’s not so much a superpower as it is a craft, something that a bottom masters more and more completely with time and experience - if he’s at all serious about service.

I think "milking" a Cock is only something that comes with experience, muscle training, and dedication.  A man that knows how to use is Hole to suck off a Cock is truly a treasure to Breed with.  It's not merely a skill, it's an art to be celebrated and respected.  I might just add (from experience) that the more a bottom goes on about his milking abilities, the less likely he is to actually possess them.  A bottom that can doesn't need to run his mouth about it - the Top knows right away that he's rutting in First Class Hole.  Not that I know from experience, but I'd bet a pot-full that EW has more talent in his little toe than a bar-full of talkers.

[fskn]

8 hours ago, hntnhole said:

the more a bottom goes on about his milking abilities, the less likely he is to actually possess them.  A bottom that can doesn't need to run his mouth about it - the Top knows right away that he's rutting in First Class Hole.

This is a good observation — and it also applies to the other traits that people might boast about in the text of their online profiles. Show me, don't tell me!

Now, here's another question: Have people observed any correlation between "good pussy", "First Class Hole" (love your subtle yet substantial choice to capitalize, @hntnhole), etc. and a bottom's relationship status?