desertsissyboi Posted May 17, 2011 Report Posted May 17, 2011 all the answers on here are right men that say safe only are scared to let others know they like it bb and they dont want friends to know but if theyd ask friends about it they might be surpriesd at how many of their friends like bb to.
ked239 Posted May 18, 2011 Report Posted May 18, 2011 what people have said is spot on, it's the whole social side... i've had friends spot my gaydar profile in the past, one in particular that checks it out quite a lot lol, but they've never mentioned the fact i only say sometimes to safe sex - do wonder what they make of it
AlwaysOpen Posted May 18, 2011 Report Posted May 18, 2011 Or if you are like me, you work with some bitchy Billy's who have gay porn up on their laptops at work and feel it is their duty to show off other peoples profiles to the straight co worker. I could give a fuck what other people see in my profile, so I have it laid out and open. But some guys might not be in a position to be the basis of the breakroom gossip circle for that afternoon. Seems like it is always the biggest flamers at work are the ones who feel the need to do this. In my work place, there are 2 guys , both out and a little pushy about their gayness; as if they are almost insecure about it. The one made it a mission to talk to everyone about one of my other coworkers who had done porn- going so far as to make a copy of one of the tapes and bringing it in for a female coworker to see. Not sure if they are just judgemental bitches, or if they are just that afraid of their own orientation
stealther Posted May 19, 2011 Report Posted May 19, 2011 my profile says safe only and i iht up anything goes because i love when tops sneak the condom off to go in raw wthout me knowing....
tin Posted May 19, 2011 Report Posted May 19, 2011 all the answers on here are right men that say safe only are scared to let others know they like it bb and they dont want friends to know but if theyd ask friends about it they might be surpriesd at how many of their friends like bb to. Reminds me of the time when I was hanging out with a bunch of friends, and the topic of bath houses came up. Everyone was being all judgemental of them until I was "uhh, I go to them." and pretty much everyone in the group changed their tune and admitted to going now and then also.
powerbottom64 Posted May 19, 2011 Report Posted May 19, 2011 It's the internet honey-don't believe anything! LOL
HotDaddy Posted May 21, 2011 Report Posted May 21, 2011 I hooked up with a porn star who has done many bareback videos as a top and bottom. Given and taken many loads. But his A4A profile says safe only. He fucked me bareback and deposited a good load of cum in my old ass.
Dyonis05 Posted May 22, 2011 Report Posted May 22, 2011 I think that, when we... well I'd rather say... when I write Safe Sex Only, I mean I don't want you to be afraid of any infection that I could have, I'm clean, and if you wrote safe sex only, it means that you think you are to. So if we meet, we can do it without condom, cause I prefer to do it bb, but only if we're both clean.
Achilles765 Posted May 24, 2011 Report Posted May 24, 2011 Definitely I think has alot to do with not wanting friend and everyone to know they do it bare. I have had numerous "safe only" guys fuck me, even after i became poz (which is visible on my profile and i tell them). Some even turn around and lecture me on it being unsafe, AFTER they have cum in me (used to happen when i was neg.. not so much now heh) 1
xxww Posted January 28, 2013 Report Posted January 28, 2013 why lie tho why not just say nothing at all leave it blank most sites let you do that. it piss me off when you see that on someones profile but they place BB thats why no matter what they profile say i ask " How do you play safe or BB? " and most if not all the time i get " safe but i like BB " or " i love it BB " then dont put safe only 1
Guest Posted November 25, 2019 Report Posted November 25, 2019 I have heard something different from tops. They say "safe only" to attract "safe only" bottoms, then convince or force bottoms to take it bare when they meet up. They get a thrill out of getting a bottom to go bare when he doesn't want to.
Barebackbottomno Posted November 25, 2019 Report Posted November 25, 2019 In a nutshell, "Political Correctness". 1
Guest POZitiveBoyZ Posted November 25, 2019 Report Posted November 25, 2019 35 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said: I have heard something different from tops. They say "safe only" to attract "safe only" bottoms, then convince or force bottoms to take it bare when they meet up. They get a thrill out of getting a bottom to go bare when he doesn't want to. Yeah! Because they’re afraid of being rejected by bottoms. Because why? Right! Because they’re totally understand that without bottoms they will have the only one way to get fuck. And this will be theirs right hand LoL 😁 But non of them will not confess of this thing of course. Because they scared to lose control and authority 😏
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