how to get to join an orgy

[muscmtl]

On 4/29/2023 at 9:33 AM, ErosWired said:

This reminds me of a time at camp when I was bent over a picnic table taking loads. Everything was going fine until a muscled twentysomething arrived and bent over the other end of the table. After that, every Top who arrived on the scene went for that hole, and even stood in line for it, even though my hole was open and ready at the other end of the table.

 I wasn’t salty about it; of course they went for him, he fit the model of what gay men are taught is attractive. Besides, I was getting fucked plenty, I didn’t need to have it all. So I just stayed there and had fun watching his face as he was cunted. But, I have to admit that it stung a little to be 100% rejected as soon as muscle-boy hit the scene. I guarantee my ass was every bit as good as his and probably better skilled for experience, but those Tops never gave me a chance to prove it.

Try a 500 guys orgy, where only the muscle boys (or huge dicks) in the middle are fuking, and all the non hot guys are forced to jerk off at a distance.

[SIReast]

On 4/9/2023 at 6:10 PM, Read1 said:

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good to know that fukdto has reopened... good reason to visit TO for the parties. 

[barefucker44]

8 hours ago, SIReast said:

good to know that fukdto has reopened... good reason to visit TO for the parties. 

Love to go sometime

[coastalbender]

On 4/30/2023 at 10:42 AM, muscmtl said:

Try a 500 guys orgy, where only the muscle boys (or huge dicks) in the middle are fuking, and all the non hot guys are forced to jerk off at a distance.

 

Well, I'd be trying to be friendly and offer myself for their amusement. They could keep watching the show while getting a blowjob.

[hntnhole]

On 4/30/2023 at 12:40 PM, SIReast said:

Bring your cocks and asses up to TO!

We might have to MOVE there, given the political situation in the US.  

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 4/29/2023 at 9:33 AM, ErosWired said:

This reminds me of a time at camp when I was bent over a picnic table taking loads. Everything was going fine until a muscled twentysomething arrived and bent over the other end of the table. After that, every Top who arrived on the scene went for that hole, and even stood in line for it, even though my hole was open and ready at the other end of the table.

 I wasn’t salty about it; of course they went for him, he fit the model of what gay men are taught is attractive. Besides, I was getting fucked plenty, I didn’t need to have it all. So I just stayed there and had fun watching his face as he was cunted. But, I have to admit that it stung a little to be 100% rejected as soon as muscle-boy hit the scene. I guarantee my ass was every bit as good as his and probably better skilled for experience, but those Tops never gave me a chance to prove it.

I sympathize with you & agree with you for the most part. But that is how the majority of horny gay men operate. Young, hot, toned, muscled, white, lean, (nice ass & hung are always pluses) ALWAYS wins. To a certain extent, we are all responsible for this behavior because we are hardwired for it. If you are not on the winning end of this equation as the bottom, you have to just accept it & move on. You can't make a square a circle.

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 4/30/2023 at 10:42 AM, muscmtl said:

Try a 500 guys orgy, where only the muscle boys (or huge dicks) in the middle are fuking, and all the non hot guys are forced to jerk off at a distance.

This is typical for the majority of gay men. Youth & looks always win.

[versasslover]

Have been without a good regular orgy for a while now.

But like others said, in the past every regular orgy I frequented was the result of getting invited by a hookup/fuck buddy who knew I’d be into that. They were more or less carefully curated groups of men, always skewing 30+ in age, more older guys. Almost all of us versatile, and no attitude or hangups. Fat, skinny, older, younger, wasn’t an issue. We’re there to swap loads indiscriminately. 
But they’re hard to find. 

[ErosWired]

6 hours ago, TwinkChaserSlut said:

To a certain extent, we are all responsible for this behavior because we are hardwired for it.

I wonder, though, how much we can attribute to ‘hardwiring’, and how much to cultural conditioning. There are studies on sexual attractiveness that demonstrate, for instance, that defined abdominal muscles make a man more sexually attractive because they signal that he is of reproductive age and fitness, whereas a bulging stomach signals unfitness and is a trait also exhibited by young children. So humans have been zeroing in on certain physical characteristics for optimal reproductive partner selection for 50,000 years, and we can consider that hardwiring.

But a standard for what makes a person attractive is not a universal, timeless constant. The modern benchmark of female beauty, with its emphasis on slimness, is a product of its time. If you look back to the turn of the 17th Century, at the works of Reubens, you find that the paragons of womanhood were what people today would call plus-sized. ‘Fleshy’ or ‘ample’ might be other terms. And he wasn’t just depicting common-or-garden women this way - he was painting Venus. Some of the earliest depictions we have of the female shape, in the form of clay effigies, depict a figure with hips/ass hugely out of proportion with the rest of the body. These are likely object of fertility ritual, so big hips for birthing were apparently a premium item.

That pornography has grossly skewed our modern view of the ideal male body is beyond argument. The fact that many men think an 8” cock is average, or even common, is proof. If porn studios had from the beginning used performers whose bodies reflected the reality of men’s actual bodies in the population, I guarantee there would be a much different landscape for fucking than there is today.

[muscmtl]

9 hours ago, TwinkChaserSlut said:

This is typical for the majority of gay men. Youth & looks always win.

Not always

[FunCheerSlut]

On 5/2/2023 at 5:48 AM, versasslover said:

Have been without a good regular orgy for a while now.

But like others said, in the past every regular orgy I frequented was the result of getting invited by a hookup/fuck buddy who knew I’d be into that. They were more or less carefully curated groups of men, always skewing 30+ in age, more older guys. Almost all of us versatile, and no attitude or hangups. Fat, skinny, older, younger, wasn’t an issue. We’re there to swap loads indiscriminately. 
But they’re hard to find. 

Can I please get an AMEN, everyone...seriously.

Perhaps what I am reading into this is that there used to be in a time in a less social media driven world, where men were mature enough and self-actualized enough to realize that in order to have an orgy that superficial artificial bull-shit could never even enter the equation. That most participants were just eager versatile sexual enthusiasts who were ready prepared and willing to sample the buffet of men known as a sex orgy (without question, without judgment).

Sadly, I find that in our "modern" world of social media influencers and tik-tok that vanity is at an all-time high. Men have too many apps and too many buckets and tags and filters (and labels and categories) available to use to try and realize the 'hype' of getting that unicorn stud to show up to pound their hole when they are horny and available.

It's all smoke and mirrors for fucks sake. It almost never actually happens that way because I am reading several posts of how horrible and frustrating it actually is. So, perhaps until we all get over ourselves this isn't going to improve.

xoxo hugs n kisses to you all, please be kind to one another!!

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 5/2/2023 at 10:03 AM, ErosWired said:

I wonder, though, how much we can attribute to ‘hardwiring’, and how much to cultural conditioning. There are studies on sexual attractiveness that demonstrate, for instance, that defined abdominal muscles make a man more sexually attractive because they signal that he is of reproductive age and fitness, whereas a bulging stomach signals unfitness and is a trait also exhibited by young children. So humans have been zeroing in on certain physical characteristics for optimal reproductive partner selection for 50,000 years, and we can consider that hardwiring.

But a standard for what makes a person attractive is not a universal, timeless constant. The modern benchmark of female beauty, with its emphasis on slimness, is a product of its time. If you look back to the turn of the 17th Century, at the works of Reubens, you find that the paragons of womanhood were what people today would call plus-sized. ‘Fleshy’ or ‘ample’ might be other terms. And he wasn’t just depicting common-or-garden women this way - he was painting Venus. Some of the earliest depictions we have of the female shape, in the form of clay effigies, depict a figure with hips/ass hugely out of proportion with the rest of the body. These are likely object of fertility ritual, so big hips for birthing were apparently a premium item.

That pornography has grossly skewed our modern view of the ideal male body is beyond argument. The fact that many men think an 8” cock is average, or even common, is proof. If porn studios had from the beginning used performers whose bodies reflected the reality of men’s actual bodies in the population, I guarantee there would be a much different landscape for fucking than there is today.

You make very good points dude. 😀

[versasslover]

On 5/3/2023 at 3:55 PM, FunCheerSlut said:

Can I please get an AMEN, everyone...seriously.

Perhaps what I am reading into this is that there used to be in a time in a less social media driven world, where men were mature enough and self-actualized enough to realize that in order to have an orgy that superficial artificial bull-shit could never even enter the equation. That most participants were just eager versatile sexual enthusiasts who were ready prepared and willing to sample the buffet of men known as a sex orgy (without question, without judgment).

Sadly, I find that in our "modern" world of social media influencers and tik-tok that vanity is at an all-time high. Men have too many apps and too many buckets and tags and filters (and labels and categories) available to use to try and realize the 'hype' of getting that unicorn stud to show up to pound their hole when they are horny and available.

It's all smoke and mirrors for fucks sake. It almost never actually happens that way because I am reading several posts of how horrible and frustrating it actually is. So, perhaps until we all get over ourselves this isn't going to improve.

xoxo hugs n kisses to you all, please be kind to one another!!

You’re right, they are from a different time, but I hope not. Would love to find a group like that again. 

Maybe apps and social media are making it too easy to look for that next best thing and just move on to the next chat to look for that perfect fuck. I know some guys that while on the way to a hookup are still looking for a better option and sometimes ditch the first one.

[120DaysofSodom]

On 4/6/2023 at 11:54 AM, Latinotop31 said:

Does anyone know of a place for orgies? I'm new to the subject.

bathhouses and cruise bars. if the shits going down right out in public play areas, usually its an invitation to everybody else wandering through to join in. otherwise people tend to sink off into a cabin room when wanting to keep their activity limited to selective participants invited into it.