getting past the 'second hole'

[FF69]

hello fist fans,

I'm stretching my hole quite wide now but still having problems with getting into the sigmoid colon. applying loads of lube, poppers, time and porn for inspiration but to no avail. any tips?

[FallenLad]

You need to work on straightening the colon. Try getting some narrow, flexible toys that are long enough to gently curve round.

Once you can manage that you can use slightly wider and more solid toys to open up your 2nd hole.

[PG1961Canada]

Good advice @FallenLad... I typically start with something a little more narrower first.....(similar to second dildo on the right) and take some time to focus on gripping and releasing in a controlled manner... feels great, and my mind knows it is taking control of the hole(s).   I take the time to ride a little and grip/loose etc while going deeper.  I work slowly through the second hole and also enjoy that assplay.  Once I am loose and juicy, I move on to the bigger and longer ones... by this point, you are still stretching wider and going deeper, but also feel great and are enjoying the ass play.  It's a great feeling when you feel the head of a giant dildo sliding up into the next level.... 

Great question @ffeccome.... you are wise to start slow and don't do any damage.  It gets easier with practice.

[AlwaysOpen]

Hey man- I recently purchased a replacement dildo for my Dick Rambone that had gotten too firm over time from the lubes and use. It is called Armadildo, and here in the US it is available on Amazon, as well as in many sex shops.  Tho really, Amazon is so easy, and who knows, you might be one of the very lucky ones who has a smokin hot delivery person who will offer to help you break the new toy in LOL.

Anyway- this is the Amazon pathway to get to the dildo section  - 

Health & Household

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Sexual Wellness

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Adult Toys & Games

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Sex Toys

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Dildos

The beauty of the armadildo is the head of the cock is sloped, which makes coaxing your 2nd ring a lot easier. For me, the 2nd ring was always a tough spot when using the Rambone, with the armadildo I went right thru it within a week of playing,and getting all the way to the base ( and pushing the 3rd ring ) came within another week- no stress, no tearing, and no soreness the next morning. Another thing you might try to help , I have an electric massager with various switchable attachments. I recently realized one was pretty much a suction cup just like the end of a few of my toys- so I put the suction cup against the dildo suction, worked the dildo up as far as I could get comfortable, and then switched the vibrator on and used the bed and my foot to brace it so it couldn't vibrate out, only in. About 10 minutes in I turned the vibrator off to give everything a rest, then back on 5 mins later, and before I realized it, I had vibrated all 18 insertable inches up my hole. And I could feel the vibrating top of the toy near my left hip bone when I ran my fingers around the area. 

[B1gThank5]

Look at square peg, Mr.Hanley and bad dragon…. Their way better with the platinum silicon then pvc

[Shotsfired]

I have the same problem and the narrower softer toys don't help

[Guest]

the thing you need to remember, that a lot of guy's don't realise, is that after about five inches into your hole your pipe bends drastically to the left, a lot of guy's keep pushing inward toward the same direction not realising that once they hit that 'wall' they need to push to the left and apply pressure sideways from there on in (until you have learned relax your pelvic floor and straighten your colon out a bit)

[damsonffpig]

On 6/15/2023 at 10:19 AM, Nay80 said:

the thing you need to remember, that a lot of guy's don't realise, is that after about five inches into your hole your pipe bends drastically to the left, a lot of guy's keep pushing inward toward the same direction not realising that once they hit that 'wall' they need to push to the left and apply pressure sideways from there on in (until you have learned relax your pelvic floor and straighten your colon out a bit)

Yes very well said, this is so important and part of the journey.  I actually find the best way of opening then getting past the second hole is through carefully fisting and finding the correct channel first, which often appears hidden.  For me the toys come once your properly open