How common is fisting?

[FelchingPisser]

43 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

Would you say you have a taste for breeding loose holes? I sometimes see Tops object to loose holes as feeling like “throwing a hot dog down a hallway”, and I would imagine that being a hazard of post-fisting breeding. The former fisting Top I mentioned above asks that I not open myself up with larger toys prior to his using me for this reason.

A hole that takes a fist is more often than not, not a loose hole.  The men I play with have trained themselves to know how to relax the hole and how to tighten it back up.  Kegel exercises!!  Of course, there are man who don't--and I tend to play with them once and not again.  One of my primary men has one of the tightest holes when we start the fucking, but can go to the largest rosebud after our two hours or so of play.  (And he has so much control of his ass, that he can actually fuck my mouth with his rosebud.)  

Edited June 16, 2023 by FelchingPisser
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[MuscledHorse]

On 6/15/2023 at 8:32 AM, Gingerguy said:

I always liked fisting. From when I started watching porn, a couple of years later I found out that I loved watching fisting. I always had hard time to find fisting though (regardless of position). In my country, in a dating app (sex oriented), I would use fisting as a filter but very few results returned. These people were hard to reach bcz they always wanted someone experienced or they were not my type (but still very few people).

I'm curious, it it gaining/losing popularity? From those who practice it, do you notice any changes in your gut? Does it feel better than fucking? how long does an ideal session last for you? How deep you like it? I've seen some porn with deep fisting and loved it, I wanna fist deep someone to the furthest of his gut possible. I also suspect that despite it's "hardcore" label it has a deep emotional impact, is this true? What about prolapse? Is it a thing that goes with fisting? (personally i like it)

Using my annul attendance at the Pig Week event in Fort Lauderdale, which is ten days of sex parties, as a yardstick, I have found fisting has increased--a lot. Just i the last 5 years I have gone from a fist or two a day to more fists than cocks in me on a daily basis. At the event's big Wednesday night party just between the 2021 and 2022 events, I saw a marked increase. At that party, I spent a good deal of the night on a low stage on my back, legs up and spread, poppers flowing, while the dance music and light show filled the air as the throng of guys gathered around all of us in that position ( I was not alone on that stage) and used us. I was fisted almost exclusively in 2022 compared to the previous year when it was about half cock half fist. More and more I encounter guys that want to fist me, even if they are breeding me, though some it comes from their reaction to feeling my hole and discovering it's a loose gash; some have just jerked off inside me--best of both worlds, plus I get bred.

For me, an ideal session lasts as long as I can go, which can be a pretty long time since i go to a lot of multi-day events, including the 3 times a year Fist Fest in Augusta, GA. Yes there have been changes in my gut, but that's because i fill my hole nearly everyday with my big toys as I train to stretch out more and more and take it deeper and deeper (goal is full arm but only about halfway there with mall to medium hand guys). One of those physical changes besides being so stretched out constantly my anus is a gash instead of a little hole is that I have started to prolapse. For us pig bottoms, getting a prolapse is an "achievement unlocked" type of event. I am working on lengthening mine. Many fisters don't go that far and don't stuff themselves nearly everyday so hey do retain better control when it comes to tightening up. AS for me, I want to be one of the side show freak fist pigs with a footlong prolapse and the ability to take a full arm like it's a 5 inch penis and the ability to take two hands to mid forearm (Currently I can just take 2 to the wrist) with the ease of a single fist. I can get a hand in me in under 60 seconds, which I'm really proud of.

Yes it has an emotional impact. Having a guy's hand (and arm) in your guts as as intimate as it gets. When a guy is buried in my hole and leans over to kiss me deep, while I feel his hands working my fuck guts is a huge emotional and physical high for me. We are so connected at that point.  To head off the next question, do I worry about incontinence? I don't care about it. I already have to sleep on a towel at multi-day events and I stay pretty gaped at them and for several day after. I am sure that some of my fisting idols who have very long prolapses or the ability to easily take a full arm or even three (yes, three) hands in their hole have to wear diapers part of the time or are like me and hose out everyday. The Pleasure (and bragging right on size nd depth skills) makes the ruin totally worth it.

[slaveboi]

I think its getting more popular. I list it as a fetish on all my apps and I bet 1/2 the guys that hit me up ask about it

[UKFFBBBtm]

On 6/20/2023 at 5:06 PM, slaveboi said:

I think its getting more popular. I list it as a fetish on all my apps and I bet 1/2 the guys that hit me up ask about it

Very much this.

No end of guys reaching out saying they're a fisting virgin and want to meet up to be fisted for the 1st time, almost all not realising its a long journey and can't expect to be fisted on the first meet.

I blame porn and making it seem that 2 guys can meet up and be fisted no issues 

[Moody4Fists885]

To be honest, fisting is hot for me. I am very into being fucked and stretched out from behind, so to me, I just feel a lot of pleasure when a guy stretches me out. It feels great. I don’t really know where I can find a good site to hookup or anything to find someone that is interested in the US, though.

Edited August 9, 2023 by Moody4Fists885
Made a slight phrasing error. Just a typo.

[FelchingPisser]

23 minutes ago, Moody4Fists885 said:

To be honest, fisting is hot for me. I am very into being fucked and stretched out from behind, so to me, I just feel a lot of pleasure when a guy stretches me out. It feels great. I don’t really know where I can find a good site to hookup or anything to find someone that is interested in the US, though.

Asspig.com is the Fisting site you need.

[Moody4Fists885]

Just now, FelchingPisser said:

Asspig.com is the Fisting site you need.

Thank you. Much appreciated.

[Daddieaz]

I have been getting more interested in getting fisted, I’ve taken four fingers but always chickened out taking it further. I just recently joined asspig and have been getting a lot of attention from many fisters,(I’m new meat 💪😁) so much so that I’m meeting up next week with a FFtop to give a try. I am so turned on but still a little nervous.

[Daddieaz]

To follow up with my comment from before, I went to the bathhouse yesterday and while I was bent over in my room sucking a cock I felt someone’s fingers probing my asshole. I didn’t turn around to see who it was as I love anon sex the guy started adding in more fingers so I took some long hits on my poppers and decided to go with it thinking this might be the time to get fisted. I was so turned and it felt great as he kept adding in more fingers and really stretching me out and I kept sniffing on more poppers. Needless to say he never got his whole hand in me but he told me afterwards that he got four fingers spread out in my ass, I asked him if he was on Asspigs.com and he said yes. I loved how my asshole felt and I’m looking forward to taking a whole hand soon.

[kinkysuBB]

I think the key is to find one or two regular buddies who are into it, and fist with them, rather than constantly trying to find new guys. Especially as a bottom. A lot of tops are turned on by the idea of fisting but don’t know how to do it, and they can inflict some serious damage if they don’t know what they’re doing. I’ve been on the receiving end of this and it wasn’t pleasant. Thankfully nothing requiring hospital, but the place looked like Jack the Ripper had been in attendance.

Obviously we all have to learn, but the way to do that is for someone to teach you. This goes for tops and bottoms. Ideally two people to teach actually, an experienced top or bottom, the newbie top or bottom, and an experienced third person guiding the newbie. Newbies should also read up about fisting. Study the theory. I’m not joking about this.

As for bottoms not wanting dick after trying fisting, this seems to hold true for some people, but it’s definitely not true for me. A fist and a dick feel totally different for me, physically and psychologically, and both are amazing. A guy wanking off in my hole is also amazing, and different again. 

Edited August 25, 2023 by subBottomKink

[BBforever]

One of my regular fuck buddies caught me off guard during our last fuck. I was head down ass up for him when he started fingering my hole nothing different about that. Next thing I feel his whole hand slide inside me past his wrist. He has always wanted to fist me, he got so turned on after he pulled his fist out of me he pounded the fuck out of me till he blew his load balls deep inside me.

[badjujuboy]

27 minutes ago, subBottomKink said:

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Obviously we all have to learn, but the way to do that is for someone to teach you. This goes for tops and bottoms. Ideally two people to teach actually, an experienced top or bottom, the newbie top or bottom, and an experienced third person guiding the newbie. Newbies should also read up about fisting. Study the theory. I’m not joking about this.

As for bottoms not wanting dick after trying fisting, this seems to hold true for some people, but it’s definitely not true for me. A fist and a dick feel totally different for me, physically and psychologically, and both are amazing. A guy wanking off in my hole is also amazing, and different again. 

Def agree! My FFDaddy took his time with me before my first time. He was experienced and also did demos for Tops and bottoms who were interested as well as training sessions. I was able to attend of one these demos when we first met to see what it was all about. I actually asked him as I was nervous and not sure I could take a fist. Afterwards, I had a good talk with the sub about what was happening and my apprehensions. 

Edited August 25, 2023 by badjujuboy

[kinkysuBB]

On 6/16/2023 at 7:49 PM, FelchingPisser said:

A hole that takes a fist is more often than not, not a loose hole.  The men I play with have trained themselves to know how to relax the hole and how to tighten it back up.  

Yep. I’m tight as fuck to start out. And I’ve also taken it elbow deep, and rosebudded (once). It’s about the journey, and that seems to be part of the pleasure for fisting tops. It’s a challenge, and they can and do sit back afterwards and admire their handiwork.

On 6/15/2023 at 9:35 PM, ErosWired said:

How is that different than masturbating? He’s still just fucking his own hand. I’ve totally never understood the appeal of that. The Top gets none of the sensation or satisfaction of the act of breeding that way.

It’s not for you and that’s fine. But think about dildos for a minute. Not everyone is into them either, but there’s a huge market for them, and they come in all sizes and more importantly, all shapes. And there are tops who enjoy fucking a bottom with a dildo, or lots of different dildos. The bottom can feel all sorts of different sensations that aren’t possible with a cock, and the top can enjoy doing different things with them, and seeing the bottom’s reaction. Things he just can’t do with his cock. It doesn’t make it any better or worse than a cock necessarily, it’s just different. Fisting (and indeed fist wanking), on a physical level, can be a bit like that, only the top is using his body. And then there’s the psychological overlay to it all.

It may not be for you, but surely you can appreciate how some guys might enjoy that?

[kinkysuBB]

7 minutes ago, badjujuboy said:

Def agree! My FFDaddy took his time with me before my first time. He was experienced and also did demos for Tops and bottoms who were interested as well as training sessions. I was able to attend of one these demos when we first met to see what it was all about. I actually asked him as I was nervous and not sure I could take a fist. Afterwards, I had a good talk with the sub about what was happening and my apprehensions. 

A million percent this.

And then if you’re a ho like me, you eventually graduate to being the demo bottom 😈 👊🏻 

[pozboy]

On 8/22/2023 at 10:43 PM, Daddieaz said:

I have been getting more interested in getting fisted, I’ve taken four fingers but always chickened out taking it further. I just recently joined asspig and have been getting a lot of attention from many fisters,(I’m new meat 💪😁) so much so that I’m meeting up next week with a FFtop to give a try. I am so turned on but still a little nervous.

get methed might help relax you enough?