Men who do not let you swallow

[Guest]

For one of my regs it's too intense/sensitive whatever. A while back I showed up with a shot glass with my name on it. It's kept by his bed. When he's ready to shoot that's where it goes and I promptly down it. A good compromise.

[ShootDownMyThroat]

There used to be a young guy in Riverside Park (cruisy NYC park) I’d suck off occasionally, and he insisted I hold my head absolutely still when he came because he was so sensitive. And yeah, occasionally a guy thinks it’s not safe to cum in my mouth…but I can usually talk him into it. Sometime at a glory hole a guy suddenly pulls away and I have to say to him, “Cum in my mouth.”
 

They do it less commonly than they used to, but it still turns me on when guys ask if I swallow or, as they’re about to shoot, say, “Want it?”

[hntnhole]

On 7/12/2023 at 8:59 AM, Sckr4u said:

but rather let it shoot and drip all over the floor

I don't understand that either. The only explanation I can think of is, these guys are watching too much porn, which is a revenue-producing business.  The proof that the Cock actually shot it's load during a porn flick, is when the viewer can actually see the load, and the viewer realizes the scene was genuine. That said, it's understandable that the actors are instructed to let the first jet of Sperm hit the Hole, and fuck it in later, after the rest of the load is pumped up the bottom's gut.  But I have never understood why spraying the load all over the place is supposed to be "hot". 

All I can offer is, asking the Top to fuck his Sperm up your gut, and no where else before he gets down to business.  At least he'll know what you really want.   

[PissGuzzlerLA]

45 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

I don't understand that either. The only explanation I can think of is, these guys are watching too much porn, which is a revenue-producing business.  The proof that the Cock actually shot it's load during a porn flick, is when the viewer can actually see the load, and the viewer realizes the scene was genuine. That said, it's understandable that the actors are instructed to let the first jet of Sperm hit the Hole, and fuck it in later, after the rest of the load is pumped up the bottom's gut.  But I have never understood why spraying the load all over the place is supposed to be "hot". 

All I can offer is, asking the Top to fuck his Sperm up your gut, and no where else before he gets down to business.  At least he'll know what you really want.   

That's what I've always assumed regarding wasted cum loads like that; it's parroting what's commonly seen in porn. But speaking from experience, I know there are a few other possible scenarios, too. As for seemingly wasting it for no reason, I knew one guy that was interested in physically seeing the cum, and specifically how much of it was produced, but he had no interest in taking it in his ass or swallowing it;. That was just his particular fetish. Then there is what seems to be a more common "marking" fetish where a Dom will mark His sub's face, clothes, or possessions with his cum - maybe for a show of dominance, maybe to send a signal his sub has not yet "earned" the right to have His cum inside him - and sometimes that's what the sub has requested. This is a scenario I have personal experience in, as the sub. I've had (with either and sometimes both cum and piss on multiple occasions) my face marked, the inside of my car, my bar clothes, my street clothes, my work clothes, and other possessions marked. It usually depends on what the Dom is in the mood for, what I'm in the mood for, or both. I'm sure there are other scenarios others can cite. I think it demonstrates that just because a behavior isn't something you or I would enjoy or accept, there is likely another subset of people who would really be into it. Fetishes don't have to be common or make sense to the masses for them to qualify as a fetish for someone. It's an interesting world we live in, for sure.

[LetsPOZBreed]

19 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

One of two things.

• Either they are used to dealing with women (who usually don't like sucking and don't want cum in their mouth)
• Or they still believe pulling out is 'safe sex' and guys that swallow are probably not 'clean'.

I've come across the second type before; although, not really since my late teens in the late 90's  I ddin't get it then, and don't get it now; the cum would be going in my mouth and in my insides.  Any risk involved would overwhelmingly be taken by me in performing that act.

[DavidCumSlut]

I was at a bath house the other day,, and a guy I was sucking didn't want to cum in my mouth.  Huge beautiful penis, big sperm filled balls, I so badly wanted his cum.  Turns out however that he wanted to cum in my ass, so I got him hard in my mouth, nearly to cumming, and he merely put it in my asshole and came within maybe twenty seconds.  Then he pulled out and put it in my mouth again, so I did at least get a taste of his very hot,, thick, and salty sperm, which was every bit as delicious as I'd thought.  Plus, cum up my ass.  And as a bonus, he peed in my mouth after, and I got to drink  a lot of his piss.

[hntnhole]

Thanks for the interesting response, PissGuzzlerLA.  

20 hours ago, PissGuzzlerLA said:

I knew one guy that was interested in physically seeing the cum, and specifically how much of it was produced, but he had no interest in taking it in his ass or swallowing it;. That was just his particular fetish.

Well, as you say, to each his own, right?  The above can just as easily be accomplished lying on his bed, on his back, and jacking out a load.  The load can be studied and measured, and whatever else a guy might want to do.  To me, the point of fucking guys is to Breed them (assuming that's what they're in the darkrooms for).  

 

20 hours ago, PissGuzzlerLA said:

Then there is what seems to be a more common "marking"

Or, put another way, "connecting", "bonding" with another man, however fleetingly.  Sometimes when I'm getting close, I bend over and whisper into the bottom's ear "now I'm going to make you one of my boys".  That connection/bonding is limited only by the participants awareness of the importance we place on spreading our Seed as widely as possible.  It can be a deeply-felt connection, even in the darkrooms.  

Fetishes are a deep and most interesting attribute to consider.  Different things can mean so much to so many, and only an open mind by all guys involved can receive the benefit of understanding.  It's really cool !!!  Thanks for the interesting response.

[PissGuzzlerLA]

13 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Thanks for the interesting response, PissGuzzlerLA.  

Well, as you say, to each his own, right?  The above can just as easily be accomplished lying on his bed, on his back, and jacking out a load.  The load can be studied and measured, and whatever else a guy might want to do.  To me, the point of fucking guys is to Breed them (assuming that's what they're in the darkrooms for).  

 

Or, put another way, "connecting", "bonding" with another man, however fleetingly.  Sometimes when I'm getting close, I bend over and whisper into the bottom's ear "now I'm going to make you one of my boys".  That connection/bonding is limited only by the participants awareness of the importance we place on spreading our Seed as widely as possible.  It can be a deeply-felt connection, even in the darkrooms.  

Fetishes are a deep and most interesting attribute to consider.  Different things can mean so much to so many, and only an open mind by all guys involved can receive the benefit of understanding.  It's really cool !!!  Thanks for the interesting response.

"Well, as you say, to each his own, right?  The above can just as easily be accomplished lying on his bed, on his back, and jacking out a load.  The load can be studied and measured, and whatever else a guy might want to do.  To me, the point of fucking guys is to Breed them (assuming that's what they're in the darkrooms for). "

Well, you know what they say... Location, location, location.  😉

 

[Fprefect570]

I had one Craigslist hookup that let me suck him off for a while but when he started to get close he pushed me away and told me to play with myself. I started jerking my dick and fingering my hole while he watched and blew his load on his belly. I went to clean him off and he again pushed me away. It was a very bizarre encounter. 

[Holeforu]

One guy I sucked understall did not let me swallow. Instead, he jerked it off—some semen on the toilet and some on the floor. I asked him to not clean it up, and scoop the cum put them in my mouth after he left. 

[partying.hard]

I never have encountered this. But I look at this way. If I’m sucking his dick, I am in control of what’s going on down there. Not that I ever turn down the opportunity to swallow, but it’s my choice. At least that’s how I see it. I can swallow it, I can spit, or I can let him pull out and blast his load wherever he wants. but not that the last to ever happen with me. He can watch my eyes roll back in my head and see a grin on my face as I am tasting and swallowing his load. 

[topblkmale]

One STRONG possibility that is being overlooked is that some guys who like to get sucked don't get checked for STI's and therefore don't know if they're 'clean'.

 

Therefore they pull-out before shooting their load due to their own uncertainty. Many of these types of guys are the same ones who see cocksuckers who swallow as being risky and unsafe.

[eager4cum]

I can understand that there are guys out there that may prefer to pull out and cum on their face, chest or cock so that they can have some cum play. BUT, pulling out of a nice warm, wet sucking mouth to let it land on the floor? I do not understand that, sorry. 

[Kimberley]

I had this once, i was sucking a guy in my hallway and once he started cumming he pulled his dick out of my mouth, i taked his dick in my mouth again and he pulled out again and all the cum was dripped on the floor and then he left. i didn't understand why and was confused. licked the cum of the floor anyway..

Edited August 3, 2023 by Kimberley

[Piggyybttmm]

That's weird. I've yet to find a man that wouldn't want you to swallow him. Most men expect you to swallow their load at the end and probably would never hook up with you again if you didn't. 

Hopefully I never meet a man like that