Are we a rare breed?

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On 10/25/2023 at 3:17 PM, NWUSHorny said:

smaller conservative Midwestern cities with almost no openly gay population

I agree with that observation.  Given that we gay men are everywhere, and given residing where the opportunities for businesses that offer more "open" opportunities (i.e. backrooms, baths, fuckjoints), it stands to reason that without more opportunities, guys in the kind of smaller towns need to take advantage of what does exist.  For any number of reasons, some guys stay put in their smaller towns, and some guys ditch for the big city as soon as possible.  

I suppose it all boils down to what's most important to each individual guy, and that's totally ok.