Does it matter if the bottom cums?

[RobertBottomSlut]

It was a breakthrough for me when I could get milked three or four times a night and never lose interest in taking cock. So I say, let the bottoms jizz all over. 

[ktopper]

I find it hot when the bottom cums. But I don't worry too much about it either way. Some bottoms don't want to cum yet because they are looking for more dick from other partners. That's OK with me because I really like to slide into a sloppy hole with several loads already in him. Some guys JO after I'm finished and I enjoy watching them, or even helping them. Some really hot bottoms I will orally bring to completion but that is rare and requires me to be really turned on by him. If the bottom cums too early it usually kills the mood for him, but there are exceptions. I hooked up with a guy one time in a motel room and he had me lie on my back and then almost immediately came on my cock and balls. He smeared his cum around my cock and then straddled me cowgirl style, using his cum as lube. Didn't take me long to get off in him.

I suppose the bottom line for me is MY pleasure. Most bottoms understand that very well.

[Close2MyBro]

If it doesn't matter to the top if the bottom cums, then the bottom shouldn't worry about if he cums or not. The top is in control in this situation.

[ChicagoObject]

i have never had the desire to cum when the top is present even before being caged.... i was also so invested in his pleasure and release and wanting him to feel content and satisfied that my cumming unnaturally changed the focus to my desires when i believe it is all about him and being used for his selfish needs.

[sluttyjimmy]

As a bottom, I do not feel any need to get off and my exclusive focus is always on keeping the top satisfied and how to best get him off.  I prefer tops who do not give a rat’s ass about me getting off because the focus is all about them.

On rare occasion, I have gotten off when the top cums, because the scenario is so hot, it puts me over the edge unexpectedly.  I have also had tops literally fuck the cum out of me without me touching myself, which is also unplanned and unexpected.

Otherwise, getting myself off only happens after I have taken care of the top.  When I can say with confidence “my job here is done,” and the top is fully drained and has moved on, then I can get myself off alone, in the privacy of whatever space I occupy in the moment:  That could be in my home, my used room at the bathhouse or in a glory hole booth that still smells of sex and the top having used me to get off.

[Cnt]

My personal opinion is that I don’t care about cumming when I bottom. I actually prefer not to. I get pleasure from being bred and filled with as much cum as possible. If I cum hands-free (happened a few times) that’s fine. But my cock is just there to bounce around while the top fucks me.

[TT2025]

Doesn't matter that much to me if I cum. I'm here for my top so if he cums its job well done.

One FB was really interested in me cumming, so I came almost every time with him. Actually we usually came at the same time (he in me and I on me) - his favourite position was missionary and he seemed to love to watch me shooting my load while he was pumping his in my ass.

It was fun and created deep sense of bond between us.

[boy16783465]

I never really prefer to cum when getting fucked. The experience of giving up my hole and body to the Top is enough pleasure for me. 

[hntnhole]

The "default" position seems to be that bottoms can and should decide for themselves, unless some other outcum has been agreed upon prior. 

For my own preferences, I'd rather the bottom do whatever most reinforces, advances, deepens his own journey into the depths of sexual fulfillment.  

[PigFaggot2904]

When I'm a cumdump, it’s all about the breeders’ cocks and my hole getting filled with semen.  I even have a cock cage I wear so I couldn’t touch my dick even if I wanted to while getting fucked. Conversely, when I’m doing the breeding, it’s only about my dick & me cumming.  

[TampaCajun23]

Well I very rarely cum. If I do it’s because a top has given me a anal and/or prostate orgasm. My first real gay relationship taught me that I am just here to please men and trained in chasity. I haven’t gotten hard in an extremely long time. Which I am perfectly ok with

[Ozpig]

On 1/13/2025 at 5:02 PM, yoursinmine said:

An online friend of mine told me the other day that his man forces him to make himself cum as quickly as possible either on his partner's cock or on his own face. Then his man fucks him.

Like me, after orgasm, he's almost completely uninterested in cock.  The idea of it being completely about top pleasure is so hot. 

He’s right my partner used to make wank off so he or other tops could use my cum as lube.