Why Lie

[topblkmale]

On 10/6/2024 at 6:49 PM, BlackDude said:

Because lying has been an acceptable practice in the gay community. 

 

Bottom: "You clean?"

Top: "Yes!"

Bottom: "Me too"

 

Edited October 8 by topblkmale

[PupBoiRapeSlut]

6 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

Bottom: "You clean?"

Top: "Yes!"

Bottom: "Me too"

 

Sometimes you want to believe even the most obvious lies in order to get off

For example even if you looked super wasting but said you were clean I’d “believe” it to take your bbc

[anonCUMtainer]

5 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

 

Bottom: "You clean?"

Top: "Yes!"

Bottom: "Me too"

 

This illustrates perfectly my frustration with the lack of personal responsibility.

Today, I got the results of last week's STI testing. I was given chlamydia. It has ruined my day.

Why lie? I guess it's easier than taking personal responsibility for ones self and ones decisions. While my day is ruined, my life is not. I know the risks to receiving any man who desires to mount me and while I do NOT like nor enjoy the consequences, I certainly do not fetishize them, nor desire them, nor do I want to share them. I deal with them. In what I hope is an adult and responsible way.

For me, bareback is more fun without the bugs and the diseases.

[Poz50something]

2 hours ago, anonCUMtainer said:

. I deal with them. In what I hope is an adult and responsible way.

For me, bareback is more fun without the bugs and the diseases.

PREP and DOXYPrep, plus Valtrex is available. It's also incumbent to get the various vaccinations so you don't come down with Hep A, Hep B, HPV, Monkeypox, and quite honestly, it's much more fun feeling relaxed during sex. 

[Phallarchist]

20 hours ago, anonCUMtainer said:

I was given chlamydia. It has ruined my day.

Why lie?

Why so you assume that the man knew he had it? Chlamydia often has no symptoms.

[anonCUMtainer]

2 hours ago, Phallarchist said:

Why so you assume that the man knew he had it? Chlamydia often has no symptoms.

Noted. I don't disagree with you. In hindsight, when I posted that I was still emotional from just learning the news and disappointed at the results.

I would however say that having "no symptoms" is no reason not to get tested as often as one perhaps should.

[Phallarchist]

22 hours ago, anonCUMtainer said:

I would however say that having "no symptoms" is no reason not to get tested as often as one perhaps should.

Sure, but even if he tested regularly, he could pick it up at noon and give it to you the same evening. I don't see how this sort of thing is at all avoidable with random sex.

[anonCUMtainer]

53 minutes ago, Phallarchist said:

Sure, but even if he tested regularly, he could pick it up at noon and give it to you the same evening. I don't see how this sort of thing is at all avoidable with random sex.

The real world is what it is. The real world has its pros and cons. The real can be pleasure and sincere pain.

I do not want to discourage anyone reading these posts from getting tested regularly if they engage in regular / frequent bareback sex. My personal preference is to get tested regularly so that I have peace of mind that if (because as you point out its UNavoidable) I do get an STI that once I find out, I can make informed choices and help notify previous partners, get treatment quickly, and choose to abstain from sex for the prescribed period and "take one for the team" because yeah it sucks but I don't want anyone else to have to go through this AND I don't want to get it back.

The last thing I want is for readers, in general, to walk away thinking that going through the embarrassment and agony of subjecting yourself to the STI testing is just not worth it, cause i "have no symptoms" and  just generally brushing off getting tested because "why bother" it sounds unavoidable.

Please be good to yourself!! I love you guys.

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

On 10/6/2024 at 4:13 PM, KindaBasic said:

I think guys like that are working on the hope you will be too horny to turn them away. What gets me is that they are also the same guys who act like you’re the jerk when you reject them. 

This is common in my area. Bottoms claim to be tops to lure you in, when you meet they get pissy when you refuse to fuck them.

[KindaBasic]

4 hours ago, YourNoLimitsBottom said:

This is common in my area. Bottoms claim to be tops to lure you in, when you meet they get pissy when you refuse to fuck them.

That drives me crazy. You go to all that work prepping to bottom, only for that to happen. Last guy who did was incredulous when I got up to dress and leave.