bttmboy4daddy Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 (edited) Just wondering if anyone else gets off on fucking or (getting fucked by) guys that you don't consider attractive ("trolls" for example). I don't mean being into silver daddies or chubs (meaning you are into them but most other guys aren't), I mean being into pity fucks or enjoying being sexually used by someone you have no attraction to. I like daddies and even some silver daddies, but don't like guys once they go from "daddy" to "old man". I have one older guy (says he is 65 but I think he is like 75 or even 80) that I let use me like a low-class whore. He has wrinkles and his body is kind of saggy, he has that "old person" smell to him and his house, and has to use viagra to stay hard. We initially just chatted online, he wasn't expecting sex, just wanted to talk, and was still surprised I responded because he gets ignored by pretty much everyone under 60. He told me he gets laid maybe once a year (and before meeting me, hadn't fucked anyone under 50 in close to a decade). I felt bad for him and decided to give him a pity blowjob. It made me feel like a total slut to be sucking off this nasty old troll; I wasn't attracted to him at all (quite the opposite) but the sleaze factor drove me crazy. A few days later I hooked up with him again. This time I let him do whatever he wanted to me (and then some): spank me, rough fuck me (bareback of course), switch back and forth between fucking my ass and having me suck his cock, tongue his balls while he slapped his cock on my face, let him piss in my mouth, etc. Total slut for him. I know I'm the only guy he's gotten to fuck like that in years and that turned me on. (I think I was the first bottom to ever let him go ass to mouth, because his cock started twitching like crazy and dripping precum like a faucet, and he got this blissful/shocked look on his face and he started saying "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh that's a good boy, oh fuck" over and over like he was praying.) I had told him before we even got naked, that he was free to cum wherever he wanted (in my ass, in my mouth, give me a facial, whatever). He was fucking me doggy style when he shot his load up my ass, panting and nearly collapsing on top of me immediately after. After he pulled out I cleaned off his slimy cock with my mouth. He had the thickest, nastiest tasting cum I've ever encountered, but I still sucked his cock clean and swallowed it all. It was one of the sleaziest fucks I've ever had, and while the guy turned me off, being a slut for a nasty old troll like that made my piggy/cum-whore side very happy. I still let him use me as his cock slut once in a while, and sometimes blow and give pity fucks to other old trolls. Anyone else into this sort of thing? Edited September 13, 2011 by Hotload84 1
Hotload84 Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 Can't say that I have, Bttmboy4daddy. I'm a bit too shallow. I've gotta find the guy a sexual turn-on, or I won't play with him. I've even found that if I intellectually know a guy is hot, but if I also know he has a nasty personality, I don't even register his sexual quotient: my brain focuses exclusively on his unattractive personality, and so don't want to have anything to do with him.
bobbie Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 Hotload84, you are not kidding...you ARE shallow...LOL
kinkymannoslo Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 Having sex with someone I find unattractive can be very hot.
Hotload84 Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 Hotload84, you are not kidding...you ARE shallow...LOL Yup, I am Bobbie. And believe me, it's not like I'm an Adonis who can afford to be choosy. Guess I'd rather go without than try to expand my expertise level. I worked a few years for a drop-dead gorgeous guy, but I despised his a__hole attitude towards me, and I quickly discovered I couldn't see past those personality traits that I despised, notwithstanding his flawless build and face. The irony is his boss, his father, is a man I greatly admire, and who I would choose as a father, had I the option.
duncan_idaho Posted September 13, 2011 Report Posted September 13, 2011 (edited) I can't say I ever get off on the sleaziness of the situation, but I did have a pity fuck buddy a while ago; actually I ended things just this morning. It started off as online conversation. After a while I told him that I was exclusive with someone (not my current boyfriend) and fuck he sent about ten messages basically saying, "Nobody loves me. I'm so alone and kind of shit." I was trolling on Grindr the following morning. Unfortunately he found me again even though he lived about twenty miles away. Being caught in a lie I told him straight-up that his passive-aggressive behavior was a really big turn off. He got mad at me, but I was freaking horny and dropped by for a quick fuck. Not hot at all, with a tiny dick with absolutely no knowledge on how to fuck. Cut to last night he was all "How come you don't talk to me anymore?" I told him truthfully that my life is shitty right now and that I just want to be left alone. He kept pestering me to come over but I snapped and called him on his passive-aggressive shit. He said that I didn't care about him. I replied "You where just a pity fuck. I don't think I could be friends with someone who is as needy and passive aggressive as you, and this time I actually am exclusive to someone." He gave me the bird (via text) and said not to talk to him again. Thank god he's out of my life. Edited September 14, 2011 by Hotload84
LBRaw Posted September 14, 2011 Report Posted September 14, 2011 It's a big part of the sleaze factor for me. Getting fucked by a troll (overweight, scrawny, very old, looks/smells like crap...) The only thing going for them is that they've got a cock, are horny and want to fuck a hole... specifically my hole. Of the times that I'm actually paying attention, maybe a third of the anon guys that are fucking me would qualify for the reject column. Combination turn-off from the visual and turn-on from the sex. They want to fuck so what the hell.... I know I've taken dirty cock and seed so a matching body....
Deaner Posted September 14, 2011 Report Posted September 14, 2011 There is something hot about getting fucked by a guy you'd usually not give a second glance. The arousal for me is generally beforehand or afterwards, but during the actual act it can be a bit of a challenge to stay in the mind set that he needs this more than I do. Sometimes, that can be the only thing that gets me through the session. Knowing that I'm providing a service for someone who's been overlooked too many times and probably hasn't had a good fuck in years, if ever. You know the ones when you get them, they're either extremely grateful or so bitter at the world that they take all those frustrations out on the one they can. But there are definite limits. I can overlook age now and then, but not guys who look desperate enough to rape my grandma, or need CPR when we're done. Overweight can be really hot, except the ones who've lost all sense of hygiene. The 'ugly' ones are the best, sometimes they have the nicest bodies and cocks... you just need to avoid direct eye contact (medusa effect, lol). This is awful to say, but I do still have some racial barriers, but don't feel as bad about it when I realize that BBCs are so sought after by other guys that they can pass me by and still have 5 others lined up and waiting. I'm WAY more likely to give a pity fuck when I'm the one that takes pity. The needy ones and self-delusional ones who chase you down as if they don't realize that they have a chance just disturb me. Shit like that makes me feel like *I'M* the pity fuck, and that just ain't hot at all.
Bugchasersimon Posted September 14, 2011 Report Posted September 14, 2011 (edited) I'm going through a phase at the moment of only meeting guys who in the past I would have rejected. I see it as charity and also it's a huge turn on for me. I've got a few guys on the go who look like they fell out the ugly tree hitting each branch. Friends of mine can't understand it but it turns me on so much snogging an ugly guy who's given up trying to look good. Don't know if anyone from the uk saw X Factor at the weekend but there was a very ugly spotty young lad on who couldn't sing but all I could think of was having his raw cock deep in me or my tongue up his ass. Edited September 14, 2011 by Hotload84
Bttm2go Posted September 15, 2011 Report Posted September 15, 2011 I like hot guys. The meaning of a hot guy for me has changed over time. It used to be all about looks. Now it's more about attitude. It's also about a guy that knows how to fuck me, use me, get off on me. Sure I'll bend over for a hot guy, but I'm just as likely to bend over for an ugly guy with attitude because I know he'll fuck me good.
PhoenixGeoff Posted September 15, 2011 Report Posted September 15, 2011 I like hot guys. The meaning of a hot guy for me has changed over time. It used to be all about looks. Now it's more about attitude. It's also about a guy that knows how to fuck me, use me, get off on me. Sure I'll bend over for a hot guy, but I'm just as likely to bend over for an ugly guy with attitude because I know he'll fuck me good. Yeah, I'm much more about attitude these days instead of looks (don't get me wrong...hot looking guys will always turn my head and a hot man with attitude puts me in hog heaven). I'm also lucky because I tend to get into guys who are older (30s, 40s, 50s mostly) and more stocky/bear types, and oftentimes they don't really get as much attention because they don't have those classic gay bodies and looks. I'll admit to having had sex with guys that I'd consider unattractive, normally in a bathhouse setting or something similar. Personally, the way I look at it is as a form of karma. At some point I'm gonna be the unattractive guy that no-one really wants to have sex with. I'm going to need other younger guys to keep me getting laid. So it's a kind of paying it forward. Besides, a lot of older guys really know what they're doing. A lifetime of sex (especially if they were active in the '70s and '80s) will really teach a guy how to have a good time. I've picked up more than one technique that way.
bb1991 Posted September 16, 2011 Report Posted September 16, 2011 I used to enjoy getting fucked by older guys (dont now as in a relationship) I think they used to appreciate fucking you more than guys my own age. They definitely found fucking a teenager a big turn on - and I think the fact that they were turned on so much turned me on even more.
TotalBottom Posted September 16, 2011 Report Posted September 16, 2011 It can be hot in a group situation or in a backroom where everyone can see how much I need to be fucked.
Jimpds Posted October 14, 2011 Report Posted October 14, 2011 65yo , 5'9" , about 130 lbs. , 7 uc & still a virgin. Do i qualify ?
cockmaster Posted October 14, 2011 Report Posted October 14, 2011 i tend to be more aggressive while doing pity fucks - so if i can be a sm top - i'm all for it
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