Long Term relationships with a cocksucker

[Eagerindayton]

I'm curious if other tops have long term relationships with their cocksuckers. I'm not talking dating, I'm talking about using their services on a regular basis. I have used the exceptional services of my cocksucker for about 36 years. I know it's this long because I was feeding him before I met my husband of 34 years. My husband is not a fan of sex - but that never stopped me from an active sex life. I feed my cocksucker at least weekly. There have been some periods where it has been more frequent than that. This guy is awesome. It's just feeding with some breeding.  The best sex I've ever had has been with him.

Edited February 2 by Eagerindayton
Spelling

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

36 years! Wow! I hope your cocksucker will be able to read your post Sir. It would be such an honor for the cocksucker. I’m a regular cocksucker to many men but they come and go… no pun intended 🤣 I have been servicing a great man for about 10 years now. That’s the longest for me. Just love it how the cum dumps are still kind of anonymous. He doesn’t know anything about me and I don’t know anything about him. He just releases himself down my throat. I’m still thankful for every load.

[Eagerindayton]

Good boy. That's exactly the way it should be. No serious discussions. I appreciate the way that cocksuckers instinctively know their place. You are there to serve, pleasure and gratefully accept the man's feeding and breeding. Keep up the good work.

[Ozpig]

I have been sucking off this “straight” guy since COVID lockdowns, and nothing has changed since 2022. He is well hung, has a partner, she doesn’t suck or swallow. At least twice a week I get a text to see if he can come over. If I’m free I always say yes as I know he needs to drain his balls down my throat. Beautiful cock, but he has never touched me, sits on the lounge watching straight porn while I just suck him off and swallow his loads. I clean him up good and proper with my mouth, gets up pulls his pants up, taps my face and says “thanks” and leaves. His cock my job simple as

[bcbip]

3-7 years, all they were younger than me

[Letmeworshipit]

Although where I live now is a little remote for regulars, I know there are guys who would love to have a clean-cut attractive mature guy to reply on for oral service. When I lived in SoCal for many years, I had 3-4 guys (each of them had terrific dicks, btw) I saw regularly after my relationship ended. It was a call, email or text and I always asked for a little planning. Not one of those 5 a.m. "Can I stop by on way way to work to get drained" kinda guys. Much prefer those guys who might want to chill with a beer or glass of wine and get sucked off or to meet up at an AVS/Theater to service them in the theater or booth.

[faglory]

i really appreciate this kind of rleationship, a Man that juet wants to get blown and unload, friendly but not too involved - i serve my puprose there

unf nobody on a weekly basis. longest abt 5 y

[BruxoCub]

On 2/1/2025 at 10:13 PM, Eagerindayton said:

I'm curious if other tops have long term relationships with their cocksuckers. I'm not talking dating, I'm talking about using their services on a regular basis. I have used the exceptional services of my cocksucker for about 36 years. I know it's this long because I was feeding him before I met my husband of 34 years. My husband is not a fan of sex - but that never stopped me from an active sex life. I feed my cocksucker at least weekly. There have been some periods where it has been more frequent than that. This guy is awesome. It's just feeding with some breeding.  The best sex I've ever had has been with him.

I need a cock daddy like you.

I'm married and my husband loves me servicing him, but I want a LTR side cock.

[vers46]

I had a relationship with a guy over 30yrs ago. It lasted a couple of years but after it ended we remained friends and we still meet up about once a month when he needs a release. He will message me and he comes over.  We kiss initially and then he pushes me down and i know that is my signal to get to work. Even now, he still delivers a healthy load, but as soon as he has cum, he zips up and leaves. We never do any more than this and he never reciprocates.

[Letmeworshipit]

Some of the best relationships that last for years are two sides who get together. Often one is/was a top, but he got used to getting serviced as needed by his partner and figured out it was often less hassle. My first partner was one of those guys. His passion for getting head grown exponentially during out 6 years together as we experimented with both quick and nasty blo'n goes and extended sessions often segueing into oral cock worship, my supposed specialty. When a true oral top connects with a true cocksucker/cock lover, it's often a sexual spark that lasts forever. As another poster said, I also kept having sex with my ex after we broke up. It was the one thing that lasted through the ups and downs of the relationship.

[sub4oralcum]

On 10/31/2025 at 9:03 PM, faglory said:

i really appreciate this kind of relationship, a Man that just wants to get blown and unload, friendly but not too involved - I serve my puprose there

Friendliness is ok, but optional. I also like verbally abusive tops as well as those who don't talk at all, just cum and leave. 

On 11/4/2025 at 10:18 PM, Letmeworshipit said:

When a true oral top connects with a true cocksucker/cock lover, it's often a sexual spark that lasts forever. 

What a great dynamic this is. Love being in this arrangement with a BBC top who uses my mouth and throat 2-3 times a month. He always has "somewhere to be" after blowing his load in my mouth. 

On 11/4/2025 at 12:13 PM, vers46 said:

when he needs a release. He will message me and he comes over...

but as soon as he has cum, he zips up and leaves. We never do any more than this and he never reciprocates.

My encounters with my long term BBC friend of 10+ years have evolved to this level. We are rarely in each other's presence for over 10 minutes, and his big, fat cock is in my mouth for 9 of those minutes. Sometimes, when he's really pent-up, it's only 5.

[Letmeworshipit]

I'm a bit on the fence here I guess. On one hand, I enjoy a no-nonsense, transactional approach to oral sex when the time is right. But I have ended many of them over the years because they made me feel unvalued (?) somehow. My fav regulars are guys who become buddies and friends. The kind who will come over for a cup of coffee/tea, beer or glass of wine and chill for a bit. They understand that teasing a little with their bulge can be a hot lead-up and enjoy the intimacy of sitting, chilling and letting me totally goon out on their cock and cum. But he always finishes his beverage and gives me a big hug before leaving. That, to me, is a great friendship with benefits.

[faglory]

12 hours ago, sub4oralcum said:

Friendliness is ok, but optional. I also like verbally abusive tops as well as those who don't talk at all, just cum and leave. 

being used for sucking/unloading is also just great