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Whenever I’m bottoming in missionary position, my legs tend to get tired after a while. I’m typically arching my butt upward to give the top good access to my hole.

How do other bottoms deal with this? Tips, pointers, techniques appreciated. I should note that I’m a taller guy, longer legs.

I’ve tried crossing my legs around the top’s back, drawing him in. This kinda works, sometimes.

Also tried putting my legs straight against the front of his shoulders, so he can lean in to thrust while pushing my legs back naturally. This generally tends to work.

Last resort is to lay back with my feet or knees up, and just hold my legs in place using my arms. This gets tiring after a while.

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I sometimes clip my wrist and ankle cuffs together for it since it can be relaxing if you let them stretch or you can work your biceps pulling your legs back.

My favorite missionary position is obviously lying in a sling.

After that, I do like getting folded in half the way you describe with feet over shoulders so I can hold onto the top as he goes deeper.

Otherwise, make sure you have a pillow under your ass, since it makes it easier to hold yourself in position.

We should all be in better shape, but there aren’t that many guys who can fold their legs behind their arms. I usually practice with a bungee cord from the headboard since a lot is your flexibility.

I do think doggy is the easiest and I’ve run into (a lot of) guys who just want to go 10 hours in that position which gets dull if you are doing it on a couch instead of a bed where you can stretch out more into the yoga position.

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If I’m going for a long time in missionary my legs will get tired and I will usually have the top let me rest my legs on his shoulders. I like switching between doggie, riding, and missionary.

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Of course my legs get tired.  It’s very unnatural to hold your body in that position for a long time.
 

Having said that, I loved to get fucked missionary. Playing my legs open and putting my ass on display. Offering up to my buddy or all the guys in the room.

But after a while, I need to change positions. Whether I flip and am on top or whether I find another position to offer my ass. To me, the best accessory for a long-term missionary session is my sling.

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5 hours ago, foryouruse said:

I sometimes clip my wrist and ankle cuffs together for it since it can be relaxing if you let them stretch or you can work your biceps pulling your legs back.

Didn’t even think about cuffs, but sounds like they could work really well! Great idea.

5 hours ago, foryouruse said:

Otherwise, make sure you have a pillow under your ass, since it makes it easier to hold yourself in position.

Excellent advice.

A sling would also be ideal.

4 hours ago, Falls727 said:

I like switching between doggie, riding, and missionary.

Switch it up. Good strategy.

I tend to prefer missionary overall … it’s hitting at different angles, compared to doggy style or riding. And eye contact during missionary can be super sexy. But practically speaking, it makes sense to change positions and let certain muscles recover for a bit.

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Missionary for too long, my legs start to seize up. Can be quite painful. Prefer doggy as more relaxed

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I work my muscle group at the gym. Run, weights, use the machines that build inner and out thigh muscle strength. Good stretching after, hot tub and sauna.  Building those muscle groups, I can fuck missionary for hours and use my strength to grip His cock and milk Him good, pulling Him in deep. 

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Missionary is my favorite. I love to watch my tops face as he fucks me.  I either wrap my legs around him or he pushes ky legs back over my head or he lets my ankles sit on his shoulders.   I’m there for him so I try to adjust. My legs are usually sore after but I am focused elsewhere during.

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20 minutes ago, Norcalfukkr said:

I work my muscle group at the gym. Run, weights, use the machines that build inner and out thigh muscle strength. Good stretching after, hot tub and sauna.  Building those muscle groups, I can fuck missionary for hours and use my strength to grip His cock and milk Him good, pulling Him in deep. 

Geez, you are probably the guy we all wish we were built like. I have never done enough stretching so I was really surprised when the guy I’ve been seeing got on the bed and folded me in half. But I guess if you are built like a football player and weigh a hundred pounds more than the bottom, it is a lot easier. I love slings, but it was worth the stretch since I find it is also the position guys can go deepest on me. And yes, I’m willing to go 10 hours in that position with a top ready to go for it.

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Missionary, I just wrap my legs around his back when they get tired.  That said, any position naturally evolves if the length of our fuck extends into hours.

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Not unless I try to keep them in the same position for a long period of time. I'm one of those guys that keeps moving to change the angle and find the spot that gives a new sensation, but once in awhile I will find one that is great enough to try to stay in it for awhile and it will happen. I also have a rule that it isn't a truly great fuck unless you fucked in at least 5 different positions, so I rarely give or take an entire fuck in the missionary position.

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I love missionary. Get to kiss and look him in the eyes as well as smell his musky pits.  I try and rest my legs on a guys shoulders.  I prefer guys to cum after ten minutes or so - best part is that felling of his dick pulsing as he shots his load.

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2 hours ago, NicNorth said:

I love missionary. Get to kiss and look him in the eyes as well as smell his musky pits.  I try and rest my legs on a guys shoulders.  I prefer guys to cum after ten minutes or so - best part is that felling of his dick pulsing as he shots his load.

Yes, I love that aspect of eye contact and kissing in missionary too!

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