When sucking cock, would you rather take charge or get face fucked?

[Newholeforyou]

I love feeling a strong grip in my hair and a man forcing his cock down my airways 

[btmneg4poztops]

Both, depends what mood I'm in

[plisken]

I love if or when he takes charge, but I try to read him, so I can give him the most pleasure

[Bibttmmiami]

I like to start off in control, but have them take over after a bit and face fuck me. 

[jd13]

On 3/12/2025 at 10:32 PM, YourNoLimitsBottom said:

He tells me to lay on the bed and that is my cue to hang my head over the edge. He does all the work, I just have to suck.

Fuck, man. I can deep throat on my knees or take a good rough skullfuck, but I've NEVER been able to master this position, which is next level for me. If you have any tips or words of advice that can help me, I'd be so grateful x

[Bokkierob]

As a feeder I enjoy both. I love deep fucking a guy’s face and cumming down his throat but I absolutely love getting naked and sitting on my couch, head back and legs wide open and telling my cocksucker to go down on me.  My boy Drew is a tallented cocksucker and rims my arse, licks my sweaty balls and worships my cock when he’s kneeling between my thighs. When I shoot my load he loves to grip my balls and work on my helmet with his mouth and tongue so my sperm fills his mouth. I enjoy hearing him swallowing down my seed. Fuck I’m gunna make him blow me tonight.

[jd13]

On 3/12/2025 at 10:32 PM, YourNoLimitsBottom said:

He tells me to lay on the bed and that is my cue to hang my head over the edge. He does all the work, I just have to suck.

I responded to this already above, but I have a thrilling update!

At the sauna yesterday I managed to do this for a guy for the first time. Hanged my head off the edge of the mat/fuck bench and let him plough my throat. He fucked harder and harder until he shot his load right into my throat. Tears were streaming down my face. I was so fucking happy I achieved this! 😄 

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

8 hours ago, jd13 said:

I responded to this already above, but I have a thrilling update!

At the sauna yesterday I managed to do this for a guy for the first time. Hanged my head off the edge of the mat/fuck bench and let him plough my throat. He fucked harder and harder until he shot his load right into my throat. Tears were streaming down my face. I was so fucking happy I achieved this! 😄 

Wow! I can imagine being fucking happy about your achievements! Well done! Any tips, now you're mastering this technique?

[jd13]

59 minutes ago, CumdumpAmsterdam said:

Wow! I can imagine being fucking happy about your achievements! Well done! Any tips, now you're mastering this technique?

Thanks, I am very fucking happy about it. I wanted to try, to puysh myself a bit but genuinely didn't think I'd manage it. That I did, enough for him to shoot down my throat... well, give me a fucking medal 🤣 Pin it to my naked chest, cos I'm a bit of a masochist and would enjoy the pain! 🤣

Anyway, yes, maybe I might have a bit of advice on what I learned. First, maybe read my account in the 'Your Last Load' section. Link here. The relevant section is 'Mark'...

...I would say, that if you have already learned to deep throat and take a decent skullfuck on your knees, you may find that this skill is already within range. The biggest issues are disorientation and breathing.

Disorientation: instead of being upright and on your knees sucking cock, you are basically lying with your head upside down. His balls are going to slap you in the face and his legs, from your perspective, are heading skywards. Its weird, but I just shut my eyes and eased myself into my steady determination to do this.

Breathing: For a lot of the time it's going to be difficult to breathe. If you catch your breath when you can, it's ok. But if you're the kind of cocksucker that moderates your gag reflex through regular breathing, this is going to be a tough one. I like breath control, I love being choked during sex, so being unable to breathe at times wasn't uncomfortable in itself for me. But being unable to breathe to moderate any rising gag reflex was a bit of a problem.

To help, at one point I grabbed his hand and put it on my throat. He respinded by pressing down hard as he fucked my throat. This became a familiar sensation for me, having a hand round my throat... I realise that not everyone will find it so comforting as they aren't into being choked. But there it is for me! 🤣

Finally gagging: it will happen, and you have much, MUCH less control than even a regular on your knees skullfuck or deep throat. There is literally no control at all. But as ever I put myself in a state where I accepted it, I didn't mind if I gagged, and I leaned into it when it happened instead of recoiling.

At one point, during a particularly bad gagging moment, I opened my eyes, brought my hands round to grab his ass, and plunge his cock to full, deep penetration into my throat and held it there a full 20 seconds, knowing I wouldn't be able to gag while this was happened. When I released, that gag reflex had been hammered down! 😄 

Thats all I think. I can't say I mastered it, but I was surprised how accessible it was for me. I will admit his cock was very deep throatable, long shaft and eight inches. God only knows how I might cope with a girthy cock, or say ten inches and huge. But I am ready, and willing to learn. 

Good luck, hope some of this was helpful! 😄 

[jd13]

Oh yes, one more thing: when he cums, he will shoot it deep into the base of your throat, not the top or your mouth, but he will still be fucking you, as that just feels good for him. And once he stops fucking your throat, he will hold it in there for a while. That cum will probably be unswallowable from the base of your throat so will hover there for up to a minute while he finishes using you.

I managed to hover on the edge of a major gag for that whole minute with this cum just sitting there in a really unusual place. The sensation was odd, but I knew if I tried to swallow I would just choke. So I held it there gently, waited for him to fully finish with me and pull out, then was able to rise it up to the top of the throat to swallow.

A strange sensation, but actually a really satisfying one. But worth noting, as its oddness was unexpected.

 

[PozBearWI]

Generally speaking if the guys cock is long enough it goes directly down, never getting to the back of my tongue (well at least the taste but part).  But it is a pleasure when it pools in my mouth and upper throat.  Kinda bathing my tonsils as it were...  

[Twinktabu]

I like a mix but depends on the mood. I like to take charge most of the time because I like doing my own thing when sucking dick. Its more for me than it is for the guy. Plus I've been told I'm amazing at sucking dick so I usually tell them to let me do my work, all they gotta do is try not to cum so I can eat dick for as long as I can. Best position I think is being in all fours or squated. Either way, dick has to be at face level so I can get a forward-backward motion instead or an up and down motion. It's less taxing and I can get in more comfortable positions.

Now when I do let a guy face fuck me, I want a good face fucking. Sometimes I like on my back over the edge of the bed so the dick has a good clear path through my throat and the guy can grab my head while he pumps. Other times I like being in doggy and have the guy hugging my head close while he desperately pumps mouthfulls into my mouth. Possibly my favorite is me laying down while the guy is on top of me (either over my chest or on all fours) and he starts feeding me his dick and eventually starts fucking my face. Its also the best position to feel balls hit my face as well. I get to grab ass, move his hips, and jerk myself in that position and it makes face fucking more fun for the guy. Instead of only using his hands to face fuck me, he can now use his hips (and hand depending on which position). Also i really enjoy chocking on dick but I never admit to it.

So yeah, I like to take charge unless I feel I can get a good face fucking.

Edited March 20 by Twinktabu

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

On 3/16/2025 at 3:52 AM, jd13 said:

Fuck, man. I can deep throat on my knees or take a good rough skullfuck, but I've NEVER been able to master this position, which is next level for me. If you have any tips or words of advice that can help me, I'd be so grateful x

You beat me to it with your second post. Congratulations! The guy that taught me was patient and took it slow and easy at first, so I was able to relax and work on lining up my throat, work on gag reflex, etc. and practice practice practice certainly made pretty good in my case, but I have to say I love a rough pummeling with saliva, precum, and cum running down my face. Make it messy!

Sounds like you are on your way. Enjoy the rough face-fucks in this position. There don't seem to be a lot of guys that I have ran into that like to do this. But they are a thrill every time, especially if you enjoy feeling submissive to the guy using your throat for his pleasure.

[TT2025]

I prefer to be in charge to suck him, but he can nag me the way he wants it to go. I love to get hold of my FB dick few moments after he is done cumming in my mouth and cuddle his beautiful softening dick.

Anyway how it happens usually depends on his mood.. hey its his cock after all 🙂 

[GuelphGuy72]

While I am a submissive bottom, when I sick cock I like to take charge.