Ever had a random hookup turn romantic?

[Tiboer]

Way back in college, I stayed in NYC for a summer as an intern.  I went to one of those “all male cinemas” that used to exist.  I hit it off with a gorgeous guy—green eyes, jet black hair on light skin, tight body and thick cock.  When we were done and about to go, he came up to me and said “I want to see you again.”  That started a romantic summer together.  He was the first guy to ever kiss me in public.  It was amazing and scary because people weren’t so open to gays showing public affection back then.  Sadly, at the end of the summer he decided to return to Costa Rica (He was undocumented and living with his parents and siblings in a little apartment.  He felt he had no future in the US so decided to return.). Now, decades later, I still think of him time to time.  He made me a mixtape of love songs before he left.  I still have it in a box in my closet.  I wonder what happened to him—I hope he’s safe and in a loving relationship.

[chiilfuck]

Hello,

To answer the question…..of course!!!!  Most of my long-time friends are ones I have met while out “tramping,” with whom I have had special and unexplainable connections in those environments.    In those instances, meeting in sex clubs/bath houses/ bookstores has  eventually  led to dating (though mostly briefly 😊), followed by breaking-up, followed then by becoming platonic true and long term friends.  (Over 30 years now with a few).  I think that “special connection”  is a sign of something different than what is often found with random encounters.  Yes, the random encounters are great, but when there is that indescribable additional vibe/feeling/connection, it means something that can lead to a friendship…..or something more!

 

chiilfuck

[BBBxCumDumpster]

Years ago, I met a very sexy guy, a professional dancer at a bathhouse in Fort Lauderdale   He was handdome witj piercing green eyes and a whopper of a dick. He fucked me some good and that was that

A week or two later, I wad back in NYC,  at the now closed Westside club, another bathhouse.   And thete he was.  We chatted briefly and then went at it like pigs in heat.  We exchanged numbers and began a torrid affair that spannef two of  my long term relationships.   He actually lived in Massachusetts, but was in NYC often and I'd visit him in Mass. He cooked for me, took me on his boat, and treated me like a prince.  Though I look back now and recognize the signs, I didn't realize until too late that he was an alcoholic. We lost touch and years later he found me on Facebook.  We met again but by then he was sober--and mean and bitter. Life hadn't been good for him. Needless to say,  I moved on.  Those last;few encounters somehow clouded over all the good times, the romance and mind blowing sex. Kind of makes me sad when I think of him.

[hntnhole]

That was (almost) how I met my better half ... I was fucking a guy right next to him (he was sucking a Cock off) ... we were literally shoulder-to-shoulder, and I leaned over and kissed him when the Cock he was sucking unloaded in his mouth.  That was enough to make me pump mine into that bottom.  

Complete happenstance.  

[onlyraw]

Well back in the day (as in late 70s / early 80’s ….. I think that’s how most of us met

i have good friends who met at a party… went to the hotel and tricked…. And they have been together ever since (and that was about 45 or so years ago) … and my neighbors down the street (together over 30 years) met at a bar 

and for me I met almost all of my bfs at a bar …. Or the dirty movie theater (I really miss that place)

I met my last bf on bbrt (or maybe recon … I can’t remember) I was in London on vacation for a few days … he came to my hotel room … sex was AMAZING…. But at one point I asked him what time he needed to leave to catch the train home … and he s like “well, would it be ok if I spent the night?” … I answered him by rolling him over and giving him a really hard fuck

next morning he asks “so, ah, how long are you in town for?”  Was only there one more night… and he spent it in my bed

we started texting - then skypeing - then he came over to visit….for a week…. Awhile later we met in Paris for a week - each time the sex was amazing… as was the personal connection 

Ok - so I am not with any of them anymore… different reasons for each one (some lasted a few weeks - a few months- a couple for a few years)…. But I am a firm believer in sex being the first date …. Best way to see if you actually can connect 

I have been on a few “first dates” before sex …. They were all terrible and didn’t lead to anything