How do you get 'lips' on your asshole

[sub4oralcum]

22 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

1 Then why did you use an ugly right wing trope about gay men playing with their asses being forced to use diapers, against another gay man? If you didn't KNOW that's a right wing trope about gay men then you are VERY sheltered. 

2  Have you ever met a gay man who liked to bottom during anal sex who was forced to wear a diaper? 

3  This should be a safe place to talk about sex in all its infinite varieties not for making snide comments and judgements. We get way too much of that elsewhere in the world.

1 - I wasn't "using" a right wing trope "against" a gay man. You may have perceived it that way, but that doesn't make it true. I may not be the most knowledgeable person about things gay men endure from others but I'm by no means VERY sheltered. 

2 - I  wasn't addressing a situation where a man was just receiving anal sex. I was asking about a picture showing a VERY open hole. Like I said in the post, I was sincerely asking the man about the possible consequences of that. 

3 - I agree that it should be a safe place to talk about this stuff, which makes me wonder why someone I wasn't even talking to came at me so hard over what I intended as a legitimate question. I wasn't being snide, and only YOU were judgmental. Maybe you should have stayed out of it and let the intended man answer for himself.

[partying.hard]

13 hours ago, sub4oralcum said:

1 - I wasn't "using" a right wing trope "against" a gay man. You may have perceived it that way, but that doesn't make it true. I may not be the most knowledgeable person about things gay men endure from others but I'm by no means VERY sheltered. 

2 - I  wasn't addressing a situation where a man was just receiving anal sex. I was asking about a picture showing a VERY open hole. Like I said in the post, I was sincerely asking the man about the possible consequences of that. 

3 - I agree that it should be a safe place to talk about this stuff, which makes me wonder why someone I wasn't even talking to came at me so hard over what I intended as a legitimate question. I wasn't being snide, and only YOU were judgmental. Maybe you should have stayed out of it and let the intended man answer for himself.

I see nothing wrong with the post that caused you so much grief.

I interpreted your question the way it was intended. Obviously and sadly, others did not.

[ffabbian]

21 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

I see nothing wrong with the post that caused you so much grief.

I interpreted your question the way it was intended. Obviously and sadly, others did not.

The question was for me and I did state in a previous post that I wasn't offended. I do hope that @sub4oralcum  does not feel  bullied  and bad about his question. 

[sub4oralcum]

1 hour ago, ffabbian said:

The question was for me and I did state in a previous post that I wasn't offended. I do hope that @sub4oralcum  does not feel  bullied  and bad about his question. 

I'm past being bullied by anyone. I just thought my question was taken the wrong way and I don't like it when that happens. I don't intend to be offensive so I try to clear that stuff up.