Sexual Trends

[BBBxCumDumpster]

When I was coming of age in New York in the 80's sexual habits were different. I'm speaking from my many many experiences and from porn then and now.  For one thing, you didn't hear sub or submisssive or top or bottom often.  You were French active ( you suck) and Greek passive (you got fucked.) Now those expressions are antiquated. But bottoms aren't just bottoms: now, many are submissive, implying they want aggressive tops. 

And speaking  of tops, they generally didn't hold your head and fuck your throat or gag or choke you.   That seems much more prevalent in the last  25 years or so.  I experience it nearly every time I bottom. In contemporary porn it's almost the norm.  And ass- eating wasn't the norm either.  Now, in RL and porn, nobody gets fucked without being eaten out. I remember one time getting my add eaten in the 80's. I'm not complaining about trend but noticing the way we have sex now is different than it used to be.  At least in my experience.  Does anyone else remember differently?

[partying.hard]

I’m 47, soon to be 48.  My coming out was in the late 1990s. (or as my nephew recently put it, “during the last century!”)

I remember a few guys presenting a rosebud during fisting parties. And I remember panicking when I saw a guy with a pronounced but relatively small prolapse. But my God, you look around on Twitter and I see hundreds of prolapses every day.

[Olderkinkybiguy]

I was Junior in high school when word got around I had a BF. He was a sophomore at the same school. We ere both relatively inexperienced, so nothing too crazy happened sexually. After high school, I made up for lost time while in college. Back than, I was focused on breeding ass. It wasn’t until later I learned about all the other aspects to “kinky” sex. I now prefer the wilder things. 

[partying.hard]

3 minutes ago, Olderkinkybiguy said:

I was Junior in high school when word got around I had a BF. He was a sophomore at the same school. We ere both relatively inexperienced, so nothing too crazy happened sexually. After high school, I made up for lost time while in college. Back than, I was focused on breeding ass. It wasn’t until later I learned about all the other aspects to “kinky” sex. I now prefer the wilder things. 

I was extremely promiscuous back then period sucking and fucking at 12 and 13. I rimmed ass for the first time at 15 and knew I was addicted to having my tongue up a butt hole. Into piss by 17. I knew before I graduated high school that vanilla was boring.

[Olderkinkybiguy]

1 minute ago, partying.hard said:

I was extremely promiscuous back then period sucking and fucking at 12 and 13. I rimmed ass for the first time at 15 and knew I was addicted to having my tongue up a butt hole. Into piss by 17. I knew before I graduated high school that vanilla was boring.

Wish you would have been my first BF back than, my teens would have been less awkward and much more enjoyable. But like I mentioned, I quickly advanced in college. 

[DallasPozzible]

3 hours ago, partying.hard said:

I’m 47, soon to be 48.  My coming out was in the late 1990s. (or as my nephew recently put it, “during the last century!”)

I remember a few guys presenting a rosebud during fisting parties. And I remember panicking when I saw a guy with a pronounced but relatively small prolapse. But my God, you look around on Twitter and I see hundreds of prolapses every day.

I’m 72. Came out in ‘72. First saw someone getting fisted when I went to Mineshaft in NYC in ‘81. I was fascinated, but I didn’t notice or learn about prolapse until sometime after 2005. I had a hemhorrhoidectomy in ‘85. ( My smokin’ hot uncle did the surgery so I love saying he’s the first man who got a fist up my ass.) But in the 80’s and 90’s when I was at height of my sexual adventuring, every time someone tried eating my ass, I thought I was having hemorrhoids pop out. So I clenched up so much that no one could get in. When I finally learned about prolapses, that changed. I don’t fist a lot, but I LOVE it. Sad about those missed years. 

[NWUSHorny]

I started hooking up with guys in college in the late 1980's, and while it was almost exclusively safe sex back then, at least for me I was able to find a lot more ready to fuck piggish hookups. Some of that is geographical, where I live now has been a land of committed sides since long before that term existed, but I do think guys everywhere have become more reluctant to drop trou and fuck with a stranger. I was lucky enough to live places where there was and still seems to be quite a bit of fucking until 2007 and have continued to work all over North America since.