How To Encourage Top To Stay In & Load You @ Sauna

[VersGuyAnon]

I'm thinking mainly at the sauna/bathhouse, but it could also apply to sex clubs and any other group situations. 

It's frustrating when you're bent over and a top is going for it, only for him to then stop and walk away. I know chances of being filled with cum improve towards closing time, when guys are ready to empty their balls, but at other times what do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and keep fucking, until they empty their balls up inside you?

Sometimes I reach behind and hold onto one of their legs, to make it clear I want them to stay in and go for it. Sometimes I'll clench my hole, hoping it is something they like and giving the hint I want to milk their cock. Other times, which I tend to do more often, is reach underneath and play with their balls, to help them get closer to shooting their load. 

Bottoms - Do you have any tips? What do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and unload?

Tops - Is there something that bottoms do that make you think they are the one deserving your load?   

Edited 5 hours ago by VersGuyAnon

[fuckholedc]

Cum in my ass.

Never really fails (failed one time in Germany though - because that guy wanted to fuck me safely so he pulled out).  But otherwise doesn't really fail.

 

[1hornyjohn]

2 hours ago, VersGuyAnon said:

I'm thinking mainly at the sauna/bathhouse, but it could also apply to sex clubs and any other group situations. 

It's frustrating when you're bent over and a top is going for it, only for him to then stop and walk away. I know chances of being filled with cum improve towards closing time, when guys are ready to empty their balls, but at other times what do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and keep fucking, until they empty their balls up inside you?

Sometimes I reach behind and hold onto one of their legs, to make it clear I want them to stay in and go for it. Sometimes I'll clench my hole, hoping it is something they like and giving the hint I want to milk their cock. Other times, which I tend to do more often, is reach underneath and play with their balls, to help them get closer to shooting their load. 

Bottoms - Do you have any tips? What do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and unload?

Tops - Is there something that bottoms do that make you think they are the one deserving your load?   

As a bottom, so much depends on whether, if the top cums, he then loses his sex drive. After all bottoms can move onto another top but a top who has cum might just want to call it a night.

I just hope that a top will unload in me and, if he does,  I tell him how I appreciate taking his load.

If he doesn't and moves on I tell him that I hope he'll return and finish off inside me later on.