How To Encourage Top To Stay In & Load You @ Sauna

[VersGuyAnon]

I'm thinking mainly at the sauna/bathhouse, but it could also apply to sex clubs and any other group situations. 

It's frustrating when you're bent over and a top is going for it, only for him to then stop and walk away. I know chances of being filled with cum improve towards closing time, when guys are ready to empty their balls, but at other times what do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and keep fucking, until they empty their balls up inside you?

Sometimes I reach behind and hold onto one of their legs, to make it clear I want them to stay in and go for it. Sometimes I'll clench my hole, hoping it is something they like and giving the hint I want to milk their cock. Other times, which I tend to do more often, is reach underneath and play with their balls, to help them get closer to shooting their load. 

Bottoms - Do you have any tips? What do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and unload?

Tops - Is there something that bottoms do that make you think they are the one deserving your load?   

Edited June 19 by VersGuyAnon

[fuckholedc]

Cum in my ass.

Never really fails (failed one time in Germany though - because that guy wanted to fuck me safely so he pulled out).  But otherwise doesn't really fail.

 

[1hornyjohn]

2 hours ago, VersGuyAnon said:

I'm thinking mainly at the sauna/bathhouse, but it could also apply to sex clubs and any other group situations. 

It's frustrating when you're bent over and a top is going for it, only for him to then stop and walk away. I know chances of being filled with cum improve towards closing time, when guys are ready to empty their balls, but at other times what do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and keep fucking, until they empty their balls up inside you?

Sometimes I reach behind and hold onto one of their legs, to make it clear I want them to stay in and go for it. Sometimes I'll clench my hole, hoping it is something they like and giving the hint I want to milk their cock. Other times, which I tend to do more often, is reach underneath and play with their balls, to help them get closer to shooting their load. 

Bottoms - Do you have any tips? What do you find helps encourage tops to stay in and unload?

Tops - Is there something that bottoms do that make you think they are the one deserving your load?   

As a bottom, so much depends on whether, if the top cums, he then loses his sex drive. After all bottoms can move onto another top but a top who has cum might just want to call it a night.

I just hope that a top will unload in me and, if he does,  I tell him how I appreciate taking his load.

If he doesn't and moves on I tell him that I hope he'll return and finish off inside me later on.

 

[GuelphGuy72]

Once the top has a nice rhythm going I will start moaning cum inside me.

[VersGuyAnon]

Interesting results so far. To be honest, not what I expected. I thought more would have said to play with the guy's balls. I'm back there tomorrow, so whatever the two leading results are that's what I'll go with to test them out. 

[Pozguyinchi]

A man’s natural instinct in to breed so I usually don’t have to say anything at all.  Sort of funny story…. Yesterday I was getting bred at the video store and there was a guy in the next booth talking to us under the wall where there is an opening. The first thing he said was can I watch. My top said no. They a few minutes later the guy said can I come in. My top thought I said… you can cum in me. Of course he did and when he was finished he said to me…. I was going to cum in you anyway you didn’t have to give me the go ahead. lol I said ..I didn’t say that it was the guy from the next booth. Lol

[NWUSHorny]

All of the above, and/or anything else that seems to turn them on.

[VersGuyAnon]

23 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

A man’s natural instinct in to breed so I usually don’t have to say anything at all.  Sort of funny story…. Yesterday I was getting bred at the video store and there was a guy in the next booth talking to us under the wall where there is an opening. The first thing he said was can I watch. My top said no. They a few minutes later the guy said can I come in. My top thought I said… you can cum in me. Of course he did and when he was finished he said to me…. I was going to cum in you anyway you didn’t have to give me the go ahead. lol I said ..I didn’t say that it was the guy from the next booth. Lol

Warm day today and I know I'm horny as fuck, so hopefully a lot of others will be in the same mood when I get to the sauna. I'll listen out for others wanting to cum into a cubicle to watch me being fucked, if I'm in one :-). 

[yunghungtop]

On 6/19/2025 at 6:01 PM, GuelphGuy72 said:

Once the top has a nice rhythm going I will start moaning cum inside me.

Yeah this is how you do it.

Don’t get greedy and ask for it on my 3rd thrust. Once I’m in there and we are FUCKIN, then you can ask for my cum. And you’ll get it. 

[VersGuyAnon]

On Sunday I held off a bit, before asking for loads. What did help was that in the darkroom I was being fucked by a guy who asked others next to us if they wanted to have a go. It was so fucking horny. I was held down a couple of times during the afternoon (with my agreement) and a couple of guys took turns fucking and loading me. The best though was my last load (see relevant section here), where the guy fucking me actually asked if I wanted him to load me, so I didn't even have to beg for it!