What hookup sites do you pay for?

[chasingseedinaus]

Bbrt, nkp, squirt, sniffies, scruff if I can be bothered to renew it

[NLbear]

None at the moment. But I saw gay.com mentioned. Years and years ago that was my go-to site every day. Good hookups there. I now and then take a month subscription to Romeo when I travel in Europe but nothing really happens there.

[ccmmss]

Squirt.

[VersAlwaysLooking]

On 6/25/2025 at 9:16 AM, meetme said:

I’ve always paid for BBRT.  It gets the most important question off the table. What bigger waste of time is there than persuading a stranger to NOT wear a rubber?  If you don’t want to pump your semen deep in my unprotected ass for your own pleasure, why are we even talking?

That was the draw a long time ago.    The PrEP revolution has flipped the situation.    When I hookup (frequently) bareback is assumed and I don't ask.  It's now incumbent upon the guy that wants a condom to see if it's ok - and they know that and do ask, in the US anyway.   Can be a bit different in other countries.  BBRT has been dead for close to a decade and I not only do not pay for it, I actually deleted my account.   This business does not deserve our support.   It's still the same technology from its launch in the 2000s (no app, no new features) and they're charging premium prices matching modern apps.  Guys have left and there is no network effect at this point.   

Apps I currently pay for:

Sniffles:  Best in my opinion.   Good tech, lots of guys, ability for DL guys to jump on real quick anonymous and free for a DL fuck with a profile that later vanishes.    Has network effect with lots of events that are well attended.   Much more reasonable pricing than Grindr.   

Grindr:   They make me mad but I pay for it because it's unusable if you don't pay.   Still a good source for guys.   

More recently, I've been using Telegram too (free).    There are city based private groups where you can just blast what you want to the group and get DM responses. 

Apps I canceled:

Scruff:  Basically another Grindr with the same guys but less of them.  

Squirt:  I never actually had a real life hookup.   Tech is bad too - email based rather than DM.   

More recently, I've been using Telegram.    There are city based private groups where you can just blast what you want to the group and get DM responses.