How old were you when you started touching yourself? And at what age did you know you liked men?

[Bbgoodstuff]

I've got a pretty even amount of female and male friends, most of them are straight. Seems like everyone I know didn't start jerking off or touching themselves until they were like 10+ years old — or so they say...

I've been touching myself for almost as long as I can remember. Definitely on the regular at age 4-5 onwards. I've gotten asked so many times at what age did I realize I was gay? And I'm just thinking to myself 'my whole life lol'.

I knew cause when I'd touch myself I'd always think about the men in my life — father, brothers, cousins, uncles, other kids dads, my mom's boyfriends, daycare teacher, ect...

My friends seem to have had wildly milder sexual awakenings at an older age than I did, and I've always wondered what others had to say about it.

Edited 20 hours ago by Bbgoodstuff

[Willing]

32 minutes ago, Bbgoodstuff said:

I've got a pretty even amount of female and male friends, most of them are straight. Seems like everyone I know didn't start jerking off or touching themselves until they were like 10+ years old — or so they say...

I've been touching myself for almost as long as I can remember. Definitely on the regular at age 4-5 onwards. I've gotten asked so many times at what age did I realize I was gay? And I'm just thinking to myself 'my whole life lol'.

I knew cause when I'd touch myself I'd always think about the men in my life — father, brothers, cousins, uncles, other kids dads, my mom's boyfriends, daycare teacher, ect...

My friends seem to have had wildly milder sexual awakenings at an older age than I did, and I've always wondered what others had to say about it.

I was fed by my 13 year old friend when I was 8 after church on Sundays. 

[bareback-flipflop]

I started everything a bit late. I don’t remember when I touched myself first time, but I had phantasies from around age 10. I identified myself as straight if it makes sense talking about identification in this age. Don’t forget it happened in the eighties behind the iron curtain. I really like some kind of boys (like prince Yubi from the series Benji) but I always thought that I was jealous of their appearance. (I was a fat guy and I wasn’t a so-called macho boyish look. 
I started to jerk off around 13. Although I liked good looking and sexy guys to watch, I also liked actresses like Kim Basinger (whose picture hung on my wall).

I tried to have girlfriends and I was in love with my girl classmate. It’s needless to say she didn’t want anything from me. 
 

I was already 18 when I finally realised that I was gay. It was still the early nineties, so I started to look for girls. I lost my virginity before my 19th birthday, with which I was among the firsts. This was with a girl of course. Until 22 I had sex with girls and just 3 months before my 22nd birthday I had sex with a boy. Since then I had been hunting for guys and girls parallel but a year and a half later I accepted my sexuality in hundred percent. Since then I had never met girls for sex anymore. 

Not much later I realised that I needed not only sex but emotional relationships too. I found a boyfriend quite soon and we started to have sex intensely. After a year we opened and we had threesomes and less often foursomes. After two years I met my first love. We were together for almost 17 years. Deep emotions, strong bonds and bad sex. Close to the end of the relationship I started my (almost) only bareback life (at 41-42). 
 

I started FF at 48 and in the same time I also started chmsex. 

[Rillion]

I first realized I was different in the fifth grade when some of my guy friends started to develop crushes on our female classmates. My thought was "that's the way I feel about my friends". So I started pretending I had a crush on a girl so they wouldn't know.

I think I started touching myself around the 6th grade. 

[NYBBGUY58]

Touching myself? Age 6/7 when I discovered dry orgasms (with the help of a cousin who was a year older than I). I always felt that I was different; this was the 60s in the Midwest, so not really hospitable for a gay kid. I knew I preferred boys, and first heard of Christine Jorgensen (the trans pioneer) when I was 11-ish and thought I'd probably have to go to Denmark for the surgery. I had no framework for being gay at the time, though I was regularly called "fairy," "fem," and "faggot" - the three Fs. I first applied the term "gay" to myself at age 14, while at Disney World (of all places) with my parents, no less. We were getting a sailing lesson (don't ask) on one of the lakes (possibly an artificial lake) and I found myself looking at the instructor, a hunky, dark-haired man. I wondered if he were thinking about me...and it all came together. I was seriously upset for a while, my parents didn't know what to do with me. I accepted it gradually, though that was just my first baby steps towards living as an "out" gay man.

Edited 14 hours ago by NYBBGUY58
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[bipaunk]

First memory ,I touching myself maybe 4-5. I know I liked boys 10.

[Rawonly06]

Hi !

Fingers in my ass, 5-6.

Licked cocks and asses of friends and older cousins 7-8

[Warmnsalty]

I was a late bloomer. When I was 10 my best friend and I would show each other our dicks. Touch each other but neither got hard, just a show and tell kind of thing. I remember looking at playboys and penthouse around that time but not jerking off. I liked that naked bodies. I didn't realize I could make myself cum until I accidently came while rubbbing my self against my bed pillow when I was 13. I felt the now familiar build up and damn I came all over FUCK that changed everything. I started jerking off several times a day always looking at girls. I didn't start thinking about guys until I was 15, wasn't fantisizing about guys at that point but knew I loved porn that showed a guys hard cock with the girl. Knew was gay was but knew I wasn't gay because pussy turned me on so much. But was realizing hard cocks were also a turn on. I didn't have any oral experience with another guy until my mid 20's, have been enjoying being bi every since. 

[RobertBottomSlut]

I have touched myself for as long as I can remember. Starting with my hole long before I discovered the pleasures of the cock. I realized I wanted to be fucked by men around age 8. It really hit home around 12 or so when I traveled on the wrestling team and we would crowd four boys to a room. I’d jerk off dreaming of the other three boys fucking me. I had a hard on all night just from the possibility. 

[sleazebugga]

Had crushes on the teen boys doing Saturday jobs at my dad's business when I was about 7. A (straight) friend showed me how to wank when I was about 9, but only had dry cums until nearly 14. Had a not good experience with an older guy at 17 which freaked me out. Only fully accepted I was gay in my late 20s and luckily met an older guy when I was 30 who got me to fuck him. He became my first fuck buddy. Soon made up for lost time, but regret my virginal 20s!

[Marlin]

I think every boy touches himself. I think the real question is when did they consciously masturbate and achieve orgasm. I didn't start masturbation u til I was 13 and had no idea about orgasm or semen. Rubbing my penis one afternoon led to ejaculation 

[borntosuck]

I started touching myself at age 7 but not gettinghard till I was about nine. I had my own room then and when I got gard at bedtime I'd look for something to put my dick in. I knew I had to do something with it it wouldn't go down. I'd rub it between the pillow and the mattress which felt good but not satisfying. Eventually I found if I tied one end of my pj's cord around my cock and the other end around my cock also I would lay on my front in bed and pull each end if the in turn this pulled my cock from side to side till I got that lovely feeling of an orgasm, a dry one. I didn't cum till I was around 14 with the help of 3 friends.

I didn'tget my first cock till I was 19. but when I look at porn I was attracted to the cocks as much as the pussy. i started sucking cock at glory holes and then getting fucked.  have fucked a couple of men but I prefer being the bottom.

[phillygwm]

Touching myself?  I can't remember a time when I didn't!  Even before I knew what sex was, even before it produced a pleasurable sensation, I just liked diddling with myself.  I always found my cock fascinating.  I didn't know what circumcision was or that anyone looked drastically different than I did (except a couple adults, who were just bigger) but I was cut pretty loose so I liked pulling what was left of my foreskin over my head.   I remember as a small child my grandmother telling me to stop playing with myself.  Maybe 4-5?  It's one of my earlier memories.

Probably around 8-9 I found out about sex.  First orgasm at 10, I believe.  Haven't stopped since 🙂

Edited 3 hours ago by phillygwm

[BlindRawFucker1]

I started playing with my hole around 8 or 9.

 

It felt good pressing my fingers against it, and I liked feeling around inside my ass.

 

Probably started playing with my dick around 10.

 

Then, when I combined them both, that’s when the real fun began.

[MattQueen1]

I started touching myself at twelve. How, I learned about sex at nine. I fantasized about both men and women immediately. I didn't know how it worked with men for another few years.