My Bad?

[Sfmike64]

9 hours ago, norefusal said:

it's frustrating to me that guys in 2025 still talk like it's 1995. a guy on scruff recently asked me if i played safe. wtf. i responded "im on prep and doxy so fuck raw as it's safe" 

i used to pull out upon request back in 90s, even though i was neg, just because i knew what it was like to panic and spend weeks worrying "what if he was lying" but that was back when hiv was still spreading frequently 

but anyone who spends more than a day on here knows, chasers can't find gifters for love or money. almost everyone is either neg on prep or u=u and in this day and age of free prep and morning after type meds, a grown man not protecting himself and then getting last minute cold feet about being bred is just a drama queen. 

i think black robe is probably right, he may just been rollplaying 

TBH, I would simply tell that person that he was being dumb and block him. I don't wanna fuck anyone that ignorant.

[hntnhole]

On 8/2/2025 at 5:07 PM, blackrobe said:

To create a situation where you can't help but breed him because he left you no time to respond before it was a fait accompli

Interesting hypothesis. 

The question would be though - what would the purpose be?  Merely for the bottom to try to control the scene-in-progress?  Some sort of "Topping from the bottom"?  Asking (telling?) a Top who's been rutting in his hole for x amount of time to pull out when he's on a razor's edge before pumping his load up the hole - or maybe already in process of breeding - seems like a fool's errand to me.    

[ScottishBoy]

On 7/24/2025 at 12:41 PM, Bokkierob said:

Grindr hookup last night. He was a young Bear/Cub. He was cute and fuckin horny. We agreed that I’d fuck him raw and breed his arse. I had been fucking him for 20 minutes - he was a great ride. I was close and I grunted “I’m gunna cum” At that second he said “don’t cum in me” I heard him but my body couldn’t stop. My hips kept thrusting and I shot my load deep inside him. He wasn’t pleased but accepted that he didn’t give me any warning. I’d been up front that I intended to seed him even before I mounted him. To be honest I would have probably still cum in his arse even if he gave me plenty of warning. Am I bad? I just expected a raw fuck and Breeding.

Hahaha nothing wrong with what you did. 

Edited 11 hours ago by ScottishBoy

[blackrobe]

10 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Interesting hypothesis. 

The question would be though - what would the purpose be?  Merely for the bottom to try to control the scene-in-progress?  Some sort of "Topping from the bottom"?  Asking (telling?) a Top who's been rutting in his hole for x amount of time to pull out when he's on a razor's edge before pumping his load up the hole - or maybe already in process of breeding - seems like a fool's errand to me.    

You dramatically underestimate how dark and twisty humans can be. 

A man with a martyr or victim complex can try to create conditions through timing and manipulation to satisfy their need to feel wronged or sexually victimized, or to put the top into a position where he's *technically* in the wrong and giving the bottom power over the top. It could also be a case of a survivor creating a situation to relive abuse, rape, or some kind of non-consensual encounter from their past (very common). In this case a breeding they didn't consent to.