What's better, uncaring tops or cruel tops?

[BritishCumdump]

When getting used by a guy which would you prefer, for him to use you without caring about your experience, or for him to be very much aware and almost cruel with what he's doing to you? 

I dunno how to phrase that properly but I get fucked a lot by a lot of different and mostly random guys, the majority don't give a crap about me, and that turns me on massively, like all they think of me as is a warm hole to fuck and shoot their load inside and then they're done with me. But one regular master of mine makes my sensation a focus and it borders on cruelty and I find it incredibly hot too. Like he's worked out all my erogenous areas and pinpointed my prostate so whenever he fucks me he'll hold me down and get me in the position that best allows him to hit my spot with every thrust, driving me crazy but prolonging it so he doesn't cum. I'm always in chastity so it's really intense and even if I orgasm and cum in my cage he'll keep going just to enjoy how overwhelming it is for me. When he eventually lets himself shoot inside me he'll move onto fisting me and rubbing my spot intensely with his hand until I'm begging him to stop and it feels so intense, like carrying on wanking long after you've cum. 

He really enjoys seeing me moan and writhe and admittedly I find it hot but a lot to handle. I guess though if I call myself a full cumdump sub I need to appreciate that the guys using me have control over my body and get to use me however they want regardless of how intense it might be for me. 

Should I try to get used to the intensity of being used this way?

[yoursinmine]

Uncaring during sex for me. Men should be able to fuck exactly how they want in order to maximize pleasure. A warm hole and no ability to say no. It just so happens it's exactly what I want too

[vers46]

Ultimately It's for the Top to decide how he fucks me, but I used to have regular Top who got to know me well and learnt how  to push my limits. I thoroughly enjoyed both the pain and the pleasure and he would edge me for ages with me begging to be allowed to cum. He also used to wank me to orgasm and then have pleasure in fucking me post orgasm. It takes time and energy to build up a relationship like this. It was good while it lasted! To answer your original question, I prefer a Top to be cruel, but be aware of what he is doing and how far he can push. Despite the fantasy, we all quite rightly have limits and if the Top completely ignores your limits, you won't being going back for a re-match!

[KinkyCumBucket]

I’m a bit on the submissive pleasing side. About a month ago I was fucked for the first time in like 8 months and when he was fucking me it was cruel. He grabbed my hair and pounded my throat with his cock and I even threw up my dinner all over him. He didn’t hesitate or stop. He just called me a good slut and continued. He fucked my ass so hard is cause 2 hemorrhoids and he tore me. Was I in pain the entire time? Fuck yes I was but I was also in cum bucket heaven because he dropped 4 loads in my ass and popped a plug in my ass. Told me to wait until morning before pulling it out.