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not only do i somehow appear very straight, i also somehow look like a cop, even though neither is true...

yesterday i ran across a hot man in a restroom hard and ready to be sucked.  hard to let him know i wanted to swallow his cum, not arrest him...

any tips out there?

 

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On 9/16/2025 at 7:07 AM, profwhtforhung said:

not only do i somehow appear very straight, i also somehow look like a cop, even though neither is true...

yesterday i ran across a hot man in a restroom hard and ready to be sucked.  hard to let him know i wanted to swallow his cum, not arrest him...

any tips out there?

 

Take your dick out and drop to your knees? No cop conducting a sting operation would do that. 

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two pieces of advice come to mind: 

1. try to accept that it might not even be about you. cruising areas always have a % of nervous guys who are either newbies or jaded and feel something about you reminds them of the cop who did arrest them in this very spot last year 

2. lean in and work it. if you give off a str8 cop vibe, most gays will be on you like flies on shit. work that porn rollplay angle and they'll be nice to officer friendly before you make them do "hard time" 😈

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I have the same issue, except for the cop part. Go to gay bars and other such locations for physical meetings, and build a network, that's worked for me. If you are looking for something new and spur of the moment, the apps are hit or (mostly) miss. The nice thing about that apps when something does click is that the guys I've met have been very interested in keeping contact, so the network builds.

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