Tips for Seducing a Str8, Married Neighbor

[atlfukbud]

Hubby and are 100% out and OPEN, but live in a urban neighborhood in NE ATL that is largely made up of straight, young families. Our next door neighbors are a prime example. The Dad of 2 awesome young children and a sexy ass wife is incredibly sexy — he is about 40 years old and works out constantly. He  always engages me in conversations when we are both working in the yard, etc., too. I THINK he has even discretely watched me have sex in my pool and back patio from his 2nd floor deck, but generally comes across as shy. Regardless, I would love to be his secret bottom slut any time he needs a side piece — but without risking the ‘neighborhsip’ or freaking him out. Has anyone done this successfully? Any, tips for opening things up with him without scaring him off? Thanks!!!

[NastyRigPig]

I’d rather have a good neighbor than another notch in my bedpost truth be told. 

[atlfukbud]

Of course, but then there’s have your cake and eat it too, right — I don’t think our current relationship will wane as long as there is good communication. 

[Tempusfuget]

Most men, especially married men who have young children, will be agreeable to BJs which could open the door to other activities such as fingering. Start slow or you could very well spook him. 

I have personally done this over the course of a few years when i was living at home and my parents had a hot, mid-30s divorced dad of 3. Never more than oral but I was ok with it. I thought I could've taken further when he tried the poppers I was using but no joy. The dude eventually found a dumb blonde that took my daily BJs from me.😔

[norefusal]

On 12/6/2025 at 12:04 AM, NastyRigPig said:

I’d rather have a good neighbor than another notch in my bedpost truth be told

this

my only advice to the OP is to keep doing what your doing. if you leave the blinds up and the lights on while getting pounded and he watches so be it. that might be kink enough. wait for him to decide he wants to potentially blow up his whole life for a meaningless fuck. but be prepared to live w front row seats to all the ugly drama if this blows up his home life. you're literally considering shitting where you eat and maybe you wanna keep this as a wank fantasy, where it probably belongs. 

[hntnhole]

On 12/5/2025 at 11:15 PM, atlfukbud said:

I THINK he has even discretely watched me have sex in my pool

My question would be, are you able to draw a line between your fantasies and reality?  On a scale of whatever, how "sure' are you that he's even been watching you?  If it's over 50%, then maybe he actually "is" available on some limited basis.  Has he caught you checking out his cock/ass?  

On the other hand, (being 100% honest with yourself) is there any measurable percentage to this scenario that you might have manufactured or enhanced in your more lewd imaginary moments?  It might be instructive to mention something - anything - about that 2nd-floor deck, and watch his reaction very carefully.  Or, you could compliment him on how attractive is wife is, and watch his reaction.  Frankly, I don't think it's too far a reach to say that any neighbor would watch you having sex in your pool.  Who wouldn't ???  It happens around here all the time.  How long did he watch for?  Could you see if he got a hardon?   

When considering all of the above, it's just a plain old fact that people move to other areas, usually for work or whatever.  If that happened, would you be disappointed with yourself for not making yourself "available" as discretely as possible?  

There's plenty of sexual action everywhere; it might be more accepted or less so in your area, but it happens everywhere.  

[RubberAustria]

English is not my native language. But I would give him a glas of beer/ wine the next time you meet him in the garden. And offer him help WHATEVER he needs. So he has the chance to just say ‚thanks‘ or grab your as and dump a load. Hopefully the next time you offer him beer/ wine and poppers and your 2 willing holes.