What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for

[Spider54]

8 hours ago, WillyD said:

Dark rooms are hot AF, especially when there's loads of hot men there to breed or be bred.

For sure definitely a hot one!

[Guy4GuyCOS]

My age

[backdoorjimmy]

On 2/3/2026 at 8:32 PM, blackrobe said:

A random guy's arbitrary standards are hardly useful inputs to your worth as a dick-taking, seed-absorbing cumdump.

I hope you soon realized his erotic fixations aren't your problem.

I agree, and today that wouldn't faze me at all. But to 18 year old me, it was crushing. Not long after that, I met my first boyfriend and he completely restored the confidence I lost, and then built it up more. 

[asianbyty]

I turned down a date because the older daddy wanted to feed me laxatives and make me walk down a dark street in a business park wearing a short dress and panties. He wanted to watch me have an "accident" while walking so he could come up from behind me and forcibly "assault" me and use me like a cum dump.

[freshxtop5]

On 2/8/2026 at 1:29 PM, NWUSHorny said:

 

I know I would have, but then again I think I pumped 3 loads into @freshxtop5 at one CumUnion party.

I will return the favor next time. Glad you enjoyed my ass that much. No cock refused for me. 

[Sfmike64]

On 2/7/2026 at 6:23 AM, WillyD said:

Pete and I are both still open to meeting fun American men, and sometimes we play together but needless to say that Pete has also now blocked "Crazy Tom".

 

This is a lesson to EVERYONE. If someone from another country won't meet you via Zoom or FaceTime do not travel to meet them. This is nuts. 

[TaKinGDeePanal]

On 2/7/2026 at 11:23 PM, WillyD said:

After chatting online for a few months and exchanging pics with a supposedly hot guy on BBRT whom I shall call Tom, he flew from America to meet me in Australia in 2008.  As soon as Tom arrived at the airport, I knew he'd used somebody else's photos which he looked nothing like. Tom then said that I wasn't his type, accusing me of wasting his time and misleading him despite my description and photos being accurate and recent. Later he also sent me abusive messages before I blocked him.

 

Tom had also told me that he was HIV positive, but a few weeks ago December 2025 using the same username and fake photos, Tom messaged one of my close friends Pete and his profile now said that he is HIV negative, will only meet HIV negative men and that he doesn't like big cocks. Pete and I both have very big cocks and our profiles are very clear about that with photos and descriptions saying we have huge cocks and are HIV positive. Pete politely declined meeting Tom, but Tom sent several messages saying that Pete will be sorry and will never again have the chance to meet anyone as sexy and exciting as him. Tom's final message to Pete said "Your not my type and your a fake and I wouldn't waste my time with you loser".

 

Pete and I are both still open to meeting fun American men, and sometimes we play together but needless to say that Pete has also now blocked "Crazy Tom".

 

PM'd you.

[will_zeis23]

Said I wasn't the type to do stuff with despite having similar interests and so on only diff was he was average skinny and poz and I was neg and chubby. There more but off the top of my head. 

[Norcalfukkr]

I hit up a bottom one day whe I was backed up with a 10 day load and looking for a warm ass to plant it. This guy was able to host and I was just finishing my work in another town. I had time to kill before needing to drive home. He gave me his address. Was messaging back and forth about how much he was going to enjoy pleasuring my cock and let me breed him good.  I get to his place. It’s an apartment complex. Doesn’t give me the actual apartment number. Says just to walk down and look for people outdoors chatting. He’d be waiting. I walked around awhile trying to find anyone outside and anyone looking like they wanted to get fucked. I should have know better and left. After this wild goose chase I just told him give me the apartment number or I’m leaving. He gave it to me finally. I get to the door. He’s not exactly what I was expecting. Not my type, not matched to the profile. I decided I needed to breed anyway so I walk in and he’s leading me in and we’re about to head upstairs for a quick breeding. He turns around and says to me “I’m not feeling it, sorry, you got to leave.”   I was dumbfounded. I mean I’m the hot one with the big cock, muscular body, huge load.  I shook my head and left. What a fucking waste of my time driving there. I could have given my load to any number of willing bottoms.  I was floored and pissed, like how dare he reject me.  He messaged later to apologize that he’d been attacked in his home doing an anonymous fuck. He was just super nervous.  I told him sorry that happened but that I felt awful being rejected like that with no explanation at the time.  He then got pissy that I made a deal about my rejection.  I ended up blocking him. Found another hot bottom in who took my cock like a champ and let me flood his ass. I came so hard in that hot bottom. Must have been a feeling of rage that made me fuck so intensely. 

[NordicBtm]

1 hour ago, Norcalfukkr said:

I hit up a bottom one day whe I was backed up with a 10 day load and looking for a warm ass to plant it. This guy was able to host and I was just finishing my work in another town. I had time to kill before needing to drive home. He gave me his address. Was messaging back and forth about how much he was going to enjoy pleasuring my cock and let me breed him good.  I get to his place. It’s an apartment complex. Doesn’t give me the actual apartment number. Says just to walk down and look for people outdoors chatting. He’d be waiting. I walked around awhile trying to find anyone outside and anyone looking like they wanted to get fucked. I should have know better and left. After this wild goose chase I just told him give me the apartment number or I’m leaving. He gave it to me finally. I get to the door. He’s not exactly what I was expecting. Not my type, not matched to the profile. I decided I needed to breed anyway so I walk in and he’s leading me in and we’re about to head upstairs for a quick breeding. He turns around and says to me “I’m not feeling it, sorry, you got to leave.”   I was dumbfounded. I mean I’m the hot one with the big cock, muscular body, huge load.  I shook my head and left. What a fucking waste of my time driving there. I could have given my load to any number of willing bottoms.  I was floored and pissed, like how dare he reject me.  He messaged later to apologize that he’d been attacked in his home doing an anonymous fuck. He was just super nervous.  I told him sorry that happened but that I felt awful being rejected like that with no explanation at the time.  He then got pissy that I made a deal about my rejection.  I ended up blocking him. Found another hot bottom in who took my cock like a champ and let me flood his ass. I came so hard in that hot bottom. Must have been a feeling of rage that made me fuck so intensely. 

Now I can understand that bottoms situation but he should definitely NOT be leading guys to his home that way to then knowingly flake out and make up a lame excuse. Glad that you found a reliable slut to dump into!

[Spider54]

13 hours ago, Norcalfukkr said:

I hit up a bottom one day whe I was backed up with a 10 day load and looking for a warm ass to plant it. This guy was able to host and I was just finishing my work in another town. I had time to kill before needing to drive home. He gave me his address. Was messaging back and forth about how much he was going to enjoy pleasuring my cock and let me breed him good.  I get to his place. It’s an apartment complex. Doesn’t give me the actual apartment number. Says just to walk down and look for people outdoors chatting. He’d be waiting. I walked around awhile trying to find anyone outside and anyone looking like they wanted to get fucked. I should have know better and left. After this wild goose chase I just told him give me the apartment number or I’m leaving. He gave it to me finally. I get to the door. He’s not exactly what I was expecting. Not my type, not matched to the profile. I decided I needed to breed anyway so I walk in and he’s leading me in and we’re about to head upstairs for a quick breeding. He turns around and says to me “I’m not feeling it, sorry, you got to leave.”   I was dumbfounded. I mean I’m the hot one with the big cock, muscular body, huge load.  I shook my head and left. What a fucking waste of my time driving there. I could have given my load to any number of willing bottoms.  I was floored and pissed, like how dare he reject me.  He messaged later to apologize that he’d been attacked in his home doing an anonymous fuck. He was just super nervous.  I told him sorry that happened but that I felt awful being rejected like that with no explanation at the time.  He then got pissy that I made a deal about my rejection.  I ended up blocking him. Found another hot bottom in who took my cock like a champ and let me flood his ass. I came so hard in that hot bottom. Must have been a feeling of rage that made me fuck so intensely. 

I feel like he should have just been more up front with his situation and should have told you instead of leading you on a goose chase that’s not cool but atleast you found a hole to use. 

[Iker80]

Mostly I'm talking a bit before meeting, want to feel if a guy is genuine before spending time. Many guys just want to have fun, but some just want to play games around attention seeking or being controlling.

[blackholeson]

I was in a rare mood to top so I hit another bottom one day.

I've been attempting more versatility lately because 1) there are too many bottoms in my area, 2) topping requires much less preparation and 3) most guys make the assumption anyway. 

Guy told me he wanted experienced tops only...for a quick "no loads refused" pump & dump.

I've had no complaints when I (successfully) top, and usually I just do for them what I enjoy from tops myself.

Anyway, his response helped me better understand all of the "no greedy/selfish bottoms" stuff I've been seeing on profiles a lot lately 😅

[blackrobe]

2 hours ago, blackholeson said:

I was in a rare mood to top so I hit another bottom one day.

I've been attempting more versatility lately because 1) there are too many bottoms in my area, 2) topping requires much less preparation and 3) most guys make the assumption anyway. 

Guy told me he wanted experienced tops only...for a quick "no loads refused" pump & dump.

I've had no complaints when I (successfully) top, and usually I just do for them what I enjoy from tops myself.

Anyway, his response helped me better understand all of the "no greedy/selfish bottoms" stuff I've been seeing on profiles a lot lately 😅

Sigh. I'm sorry you didn't find a bottom brother who was simply grateful to be getting a man's dick inside him.

Being a good bottom means meeting guys where they are.  Also, "experience" is a weird filter because the only way to credibly see whether a guy is a good fuck, is to fuck. 

BTW, that is a hot ass you have there. I'd love watching you taking dick.

[extremsub337]

A guy comes over to fuck me.  We go to our playroom.  I get up on our fuck bench and suddenly he says he cant fuck a lib like me.  I had no idea what he was talking about, politics had never been part of our discussion.  But there was a copy of the American Prospect Magazine (its a pretty progressive magazine) laying on a table near by.  

He put his pants back on, says he hates fucking libs and leaves.  I have no idea why politics has any relation to fucking.  But it seems it did for him.