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NWUSHorny, I'm so sorry it's come to this state of affairs in your area.  I wonder how it happened .... 

What, exactly, defines "a Spa" in your area?  Sounds kinda like what we called the baths/tubs. (I mean, where guys went to actually fuck) ... is there any difference ?

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29 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

NWUSHorny, I'm so sorry it's come to this state of affairs in your area.  I wonder how it happened .... 

What, exactly, defines "a Spa" in your area?  Sounds kinda like what we called the baths/tubs. (I mean, where guys went to actually fuck) ... is there any difference ?

The emphasis is on guys giving each other spa type treatments, there are always massage tables and guys looking to give/receive massages, they frequently also include guys that come to do manicures and pedicures, sometimes a barber, and less often body shaving. Omen [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.omenpdx.org/events/11949 is the name of the group that hosts them, and it is not a sex centric organization. I see from there website, that they are no longer the host of the events at Steam and a quick check of the Steam website now call the  events "Radical Rub Down". The Wednesday night event at Hawks actually contains a warning:

"Sensual/Sexual Intent: Sensual things may happen at this public event. It's still a naked gathering but it's at a bath house. There may be both social and sexual activities in the areas of the venue. The consensual sexual activities may happen in all areas of the location, but mainly in the room areas/play areas. Boners OK and allowed in all area and it's ok to play with yours or others with consent."

From past experience a lot of attendees are not ok with sexual activities and have no problem letting other patrons know their preference for no sexual activities.

Spa night at a bathhouse in PDX is explicitly not a sexual themed event.

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Well.   Thanks for that explanation.  

Apparently, at least there is some measure of allowance in certain joints, at certain times, for guys to actually fuck.  I can understand the position of management of these places;  business is business, and they need to provide space for whatever their customers need (within the usuals, of course).  

I just hope that whatever's in the water out there doesn't migrate to the water here ....... 

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45 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

Apparently, at least there is some measure of allowance in certain joints, at certain times, for guys to actually fuck.  I can understand the position of management of these places;  business is business, and they need to provide space for whatever their customers need (within the usuals, of course).  

The bathhouse staff have never brought it up as an issue with me, but I have little doubt they had complaints about me at times. Yes I do talk to the guys on the bathhouse staff, sometimes even when we aren't fucking 😜 

I have mostly made a point to stay away on those nights. I just wish they would have the same courtesy for more explicitly themed events.

In yet another irony the Eagle PDX appears to be hosting a monthly night for Omen members to come hang out naked. I'm told having sex in Portland gay bars is legal at the discretion of the establishment, and the Eagle does allow it, the problem is no one dares to take advantage of it even when they aren't hosting one of these events.

I'm headed out for 9 days in Palm Springs tomorrow morning, and will hopefully be in a better frame of mind by tomorrow night.

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