I understand what you mean about the life you are living seems like fantasy to many. 

I have the top version of that...

I always worry that the number of men I plunder at a sex party (and then write up for the blog) sounds like I am inflating the figures.  It's actually the opposite.  I fuck way more holes--usually not memorable enough to talk about.

Preach!  I've often had similar thoughts (though not so eloquently organized).  My reality and your reality can be very different.  It doesn't take long to figure out who the tourists are and who are the kindred souls!

1 hour ago, phukhole said:

I've often had similar thoughts (though not so eloquently organized).  My reality and your reality can be very different.  It doesn't take long to figure out who the tourists are and who are the kindred souls!

*sigh* But you said in two sentences basically what took me 13 paragraphs...

2 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

I fuck way more holes--usually not memorable enough to talk about.

Oh snap.

Right?!?!? I LOL'ed when I read "...usually not memorable enough to talk about.".   He has too!  I've been lucky enough to be at MAL and IML when he was and he racks up quite the numbers (and on film sometimes too!)   Yes, @FelchingPisserwe're talking about you.  Hope your ears are burning!  ❤️❤️❤️ 

Yes, my ears felt it--but it's the better kind of "burning sensation" to have...

damn ... i am spending my afternoon reading your blog. what a treat

EW: "Would each group flourish, enabled to grow through purity of purpose? Or would the groups falter, each needing something that the other provides?"

Most likely they would, since the fantasists depend on the doers-of-the-deeds to fuel their imaginations.  It's regrettable, but it's understandable that some guys just don't hav the balls to do what they know they need to do.  Thus, one of my earlier posts regarding Behavior.  The fantasies are fine, but nothing counts until on actually adjusts one's behavior and gets out there.  

EW: "The result is that the second group gets its satisfaction at the expense of the first."

Not necessarily.  As you point out, the fantasies (or realizations) do begin at some point in each of our lives, and some are honest enough to not only hear the Call, but follow their hearts and minds and go do it.  I don't see how other men's fantasies take place at the expense of those who do act upon discovering/realizing their truth.  There is one obvious exception though - and that is when the dreamers actually reach out to the doers, make a phony plan to meet, with no intention of follow-through.  Those dishonest guys are, in my book, cowards - able only to fantasize about who and what they are, but ill-equipped to actually do it.  Their orgasms are hollow indeed, as they sit in their rooms pretending to be what they fear.  I very much doubt that any man dismisses you as one of these phonies.  If there are one or two, they denigrate themselves to the Community they are trying to affect.  There is not one whiff of insincerity in your posts.  

EW: "I’m actually going to try to publish an explicit written account of my experiences, but I’ll have no choice but to change the names of people and places to protect the... well, to protect the complicit. And that will do nothing but give it more of the flavor of fantasy".

I realize that this post was written almost 3 years ago, long before I found this site.  If you already have published this work, I would love to purchase several copies, one for myself, and the rest as gifts to certain men I know who wrestle with the above-referenced dilemma.  In the event you have yet to publish, I would offer that it is entirely unreasonable and impossible to contact so many men, most of which you may not even know their names.  Of course you must alter any actual names or contact information without specific permission in advance.  

EW: "It makes me want to climb onto the roof of the bathhouse and shout to all the world - “I HAVE BEEN FUCKED BY MORE MEN IN MORE WAYS IN MORE PLACES THAN YOU COULD POSSIBLY BELIEVE AND I WANT TO DO EVERY BIT OF IT AGAIN TOMORROW AFTER A GANGBANG TONIGHT - I LOVE COCK AND CUM AND I GIVE SWEET, SWEET ASS, I’M A SLUTTY CUMDUMP SLUT AND I’M NOT ASHAMED OF IT ONE FUCKING BIT!”

I've written it all before ... you already know what I think about the above.  Are there any more posts regarding reporting from Cloud Cuckoo Land?  I haven't yet found all your previous posts ...

It really is all about servicing Cock/Hole/Sperm

Excellent post that I am just discovering, unfortunately I am not much of a "fantasist" or writer. I will admit to enjoying reading what some of the fantasists have written at times, and because I enjoy it have made a few aborted attempts to write some myself. Unfortunately I quickly run out of ideas on what to write and unless I am reliving an actual exceptional sexual experience I have had feel like I am just rehashing/plagiarising someone else's work. While I very much enjoy the sex I do have, and I will concede that it is considerable when I'm not complaining about how seldom I get laid, most of it isn't that exceptional at least to me.