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Welcome to Breeding Zone. Great first post! Have you thought of finding a dominant bottom? They're rare, but they exist. You'd find them primarily in the S/M community. They'd tie you up, dominate you, edge you, and then ride you until you blow your load wherever they want. Otherwise, I'd say cover up your dick with a jockstrap so guys don't get distracted by it and then find a way to take dick. OR become an oral bottom. OR become an S/M bottom. There are plenty of forms of sex that don't involve fucking.

My mom always had a grand piano in the house that she loved to play. She tried to teach me, but it never went very well. Now if piano lessons had been more like this video, I think I would have been more interested...

Show us pics of your tats!

A lot of guys try blogging and then get cold feet or get tired of it.

But didn't you worry about all the legal implications when you hooked up with older guys (especially your math teacher)?

I signed up and tried it briefly. There aren't any users on it. I think in NYC they just had 4 registered members or something (just checked and they're up to 11). And it was a lot more difficult to navigate than BBRT. IMHO - it needs work and isn't worth the bother until it improves (both in interface and activity). Having talked to Pig Master and watched his progress over the years, hookup sites are not easy to get off the ground. They use an incredible amount of bandwidth and their load on servers is incredible. I think Pig Master said he has something like a dozen servers dedicated to BarebackRT. Most people who start hookup sites aren't prepared for that amount of work and expense. The message at the bottom of BBBreeders that his site is costing him a whopping $340/mo is sorta funny to me - that's nothing - and I wonder whether he has what will take to really do the site well. Not that I want to see him fail - I'm just skeptical. I won't be promoting it until it shows more promise. In the meantime BarebackRT is where it's at for bareback hookups...

Actually, I've been rethinking the whole full sleeve idea. I've got hairy forearms (see pic below) and I think it would be weird to have a tattoo under the hair. I like tattoos under furry chest hair, and maybe even going into pubic hair, but not hair on a forearm. And looking at guys with tattoos they just don't put tattoos in hairy areas (except maybe the chest). Thoughts on tattoos in hairy areas? Sometimes, but not this time, right?

I've got access to an abandoned building (in Harlem) and want to shoot some porn in it - real grungy sorta stuff where bottoms are used, pissed on and bred by tops. Bottoms will probably walk away covered in dirt and piss with cum dripping from their ass (it'll be fun and memorable). I like contrast, so if you're a cute twink bottom it would be cool to work with you and see you get 'abused' and 'dirty'. But all types are welcome. So I'm looking for bottoms and tops (especially grungy/rough looking tops). Hoods/masks are OK - you don't have to reveal your identity, but you do need to show ID and sign a model release. If you and a particular fuck buddy/boyfriend want to be videotaped - that would be cool. I'd actually prefer not to be the one fucking (means there will be two of us doing camera work). [if you have photo/video experience and want to do camera work, let me know - no pay though - it would just be for the fun of it.] In terms of pay - it depends. I don't pay hooded bottoms anything (a supply and demand thing). If you show your face and/or if you're a top there can be some pay. How much you're paid depends in part on how marketable you are (how good you are for your type, and how marketable that type is - even chubs are marketable). Clearly, this is not big money and I don't pay travel expenses. If you're interested, contact me here or via email (rawtop@yahoo.com). I'll need clear photos of you including face and body shots. [bTW, I don't do serosorting for neg bottoms - so this is an "assume everyone is poz" sorta scenario where the guys may or may not be poz.] ]

[important Note: If you respond to this thread, do not talk in a sexualized way about sex you had as a minor. It's illegal - even if you write fiction.] Those of you who started having sex before you were legal - did you just have sex with other underage guys or did you have sex with older guys as well? I know some young guys are really into daddies - they've got a bit of an issue 'cause the sex that feels "right" to them is illegal to do until they're 18 (or the age of consent in their area). If they have sex with who they want to have sex with it sorta has to be completely anonymous where their age just never comes up and they never see the guy again - like in a park or a public restroom ("tearoom"/"cottaging"). If they have regular, non-anonymous sex then the older guy is risking jail by having sex with them since the bottom could identify him... It sorta puts young guys who are into daddies in the position where they either have to wait or they can only have completely anonymous sex. That's gotta fuck them up sexually - to have their first years of sex only be sex where they're used like a piece of meat by anonymous guys who they never see again. I mean I love bottoms who see themselves as cumholes, but I do worry about some young guys having that as their only viable option for sex - it's just not healthy to start that way. That said, young guys do need some protection from predatory older men. I know the current laws mean well, but they're sorta a blanket approach that's far from perfect (though I don't know what a better solution would be). So if you had sex with guys before you were legal, how did you deal with all the issues surrounding it? Did you just stick with guys your own age?

After going to a sex party this weekend and having a lot of fun, I'm thinking we should have a thread of which sex parties guy think are best. When you reply, please mention the following... Name of the party City / neighborhood Venue: private apartment, sex club, etc. How often it happens How to contact the organizer What types of tops get action (ages, body types) What types of bottoms get action (ages, body types) How many guys attend Is it dominated by bottoms or tops or a good mix? Anything else that's special or unique about the party I separate types of bottoms and types of tops 'cause I noticed at the party I went to the guys who were getting fucked were all pretty lean - the chubby bottoms weren't getting much action at all. On the other hand chubby tops had no problems. And pushing that point - just because a party isn't good for you personally doesn't mean it's not a great party for someone else. Feel free to mention a party with the caveat that it's great for a certain other type of person. If you guys give a lot of quality feedback on this I may sticky it since it'll be a valuable resource for people who are looking for loads/holes. Maybe I'll start a fresh thread every year or every 6 months so the info doesn't become stale.

One of the reasons why I have this forum is 'cause guys often take down their blogs. The reasons vary - sometimes they just don't want to bother keeping it up. Once it's down their sex stories are gone forever. After seeing that happen to a bunch of bloggers I wanted to preserve what's out there. Now, if they really need to lay low for a while I'll be happy to remove them from this site if they ask me (as I did for Matt & Dan). But otherwise I wanted this place to be a place where bareback history is preserved... Even the stuff that's 'deleted' isn't really deleted - I still have a bunch of old Matt & Dan's old blog posts - you just can't see them unless I get a green light from them to show them again. So, let's say you want to find the old posts for a particular blogger - it's pretty easy to pull them up if you know how to do it. First, go back to the main page for the bareback bloggers forum and find the "Search This Forum" option just above and to the right of all the threads. You want to search for some phrase that's unique to that blogger. The best, if you know it, is the prefix I put in the title for their blog posts. So for example if you were looking for stuff from Confessions Of A BB Cunt, you'd want to search for [bB Cunt] since that's the prefix I use for him. But you want it handled like an exact phrase so you don't get posts from other bloggers referring to him. To do that you need to wrap the search phrase in double quotes like this - "[bB Cunt]" - make sense? BTW, I use BB Cunt as an example 'cause he's moved back home to Europe and the party is over for him (so to speak)... He's got a full time job and is back to a fairly normal life - though with him you just know what's he's doing most evenings and weekends... BTW, if you want to see all his old posts - just follow %22"]this link.

Ummm... My last test was neg... You're sorta getting the cart before the horse...

Went to a sex party tonight. Managed to give 3 loads including one to a young Asian twink who was being almost absurdly picky about who fucked him. There was one other guy I really wanted to fuck - adorable - cute face and killer body, but I didn't think I had a 4th fuck in me. Then he said something to me that made me realize I'd fucked him before - he remembered me, but I didn't remember him (totally embarrassing), but then I remembered - he was a guy I hooded and fucked a year and a half ago - I even videotaped it. Luckily I redeemed myself by asking if he was "village cumhole" and he was happy I remembered. Since he was my 4th fuck I was happy to just get hard enough to fuck him for a while. He knew I had cum 3 times and understood when I wasn't able to give him a load. Anyway, here's the video I shot of him before...

I literally just had a guy e-mail me this... It's sorta hot... Not sure if it's true... ---------- Hi: I found your website by mistake about a month ago, and at first I though it was really sick. I´m a 32 yr old latino living in Puerto Rico, i´m a little chubby and only had bare sex one time before in my life with the first guy i fuck about 12 yrs ago. I had 2 relationships in my whole life, my fist was 6 yrs and the current we have been together for 5. I have never had bare sex with any of my two bf, and I can really count with my hands all the guys i have ever had sex. But for some reason i saw your site and i was disgusted, but i keep coming back to watch more, read stories and surf some of the links. I started having wet dreams about being fucked bare, and i was very confuse. Two weeks ago I was walking from my home to the store when i saw this beautiful guy running. He was shirtless, with incredible abs, he was like 6´3, dark skin (not black) brown hair and a tattoo in his arm my guess was he like 45 (but actually was 47). I just could stop watching him run, he pass by me and said hi, but he continue running. I knew such a pretty guy will never look at a guy like me, i have a pretty face but i have to lose some weight. The guy stopped a couple of yards, he was wet in sweat, and i continue walking until i pass near him, and he said hi again and started talking to me. he was looking at me very sexy, and he was wearing those really short runner short, i could see he had a really big package down there, and he was getting hard just by taking to me. He told me he lived near by, and actually he just lived down the block from where I live. We talked until we got in front of his building, and he invited me in, i just couldn't say no. When we got to his apartment he closed the door and started to kiss me and taking my cloth off, he was so hard i i just started to give him a blow job, he was deep throating me, he had a dick bigger and fatter than my boyfriends ( i bet he was like a 9 or 10 incher).then he took me to his sofa took my pants off and started rimming my ass, and then he try to fuck me bare i told him to put a condom and get some lube cause i knew that dick was going to hurt. He just smile, spit in my ass and said "sorry i like it raw and with saliva" and i told him i dont fuck raw, he reply back, well today you are going to, and he started to introduce his big fat raw dick inside my ass. I try to push him away but he was too strong, and the more i beg him to stop and fight, the harder he pounded my ass, he even slap me in the face ( not hard) and spit in face. he took one of his dirty sock and just put it on my mouth. He kept ponding my ass, slapping my ass with his hands harder and harder. I started to cry. His dick felt soo big it hurt soo much. I kept going more than 20 minutes (he had a wall watch i keep looking at the hour). He finally told me r u ready for my load boy, i beg him to cum outside but it was too late, his eyes became white his body was shaking like hell, i could fell now his dick dumping the load, i felt a warm sensation in my ass, but he didnt stop he kept pounding me for a few more minutes until i cum. He took out his dick, i could feel i was really sore, he stick his finger inside me, started rimming me again and i felt my ass was pouring out some cum. i took it in his had and kept saying push it all out boy, and i did. He show me his cum in his had that had been in my ass, i was also bleeding cause it had blood. He just opened my mouth and poured all that cum and blood in my mouth and he stated kissing me. He also took my load and he make me drink it too. He took me to his shower and started kissing me while he washed me, and hugged me. i felt his hard dick once again, I was OMG this is crazy this guy want a second round. He told me to suck his dick there in the shower, and i started to suck him again, this time he didnt cum, he started to pee, i was agin like no, but he kept pushing his dick in my mouth , i just heard swallow boy swallow, and i did i pee in my face my chest my mouth my hair. when he finnish he washed me again kissing my mouth again with the taste of his pee. I look at the watch again and i said fuck my bf must be home already, looked at my cel phone i had 4 miss call. I just told him i need to go, got dressed and there i asked him are you at least negative? cause I am. he started laughing and just told me go home boy. Are you at least gonna answer my question? He came close to me kiss me and told me good bye boy, you are welcome to come back anytime, he opened the door kiss me again and pushed me away. I went home my bf was there, he kissed me and told me you smell strange. I just told him it was hot outhere i need to take a shower. I havent been with that guy again, just saw him once at a gay bar. He was wearing a black shirt that said " always practice safe sex" and he was passing out a small plastic bag with condoms, lube and a little paper that explain how to use a condom. He came to our group of friends and gave us a quick chat about how important is to have safe sex, that you always have to believe that a guy that fuck you is positive especially if he practices risk behavior like barebacking. He kept looking at me and he finish his chat with if you believe you have been in risk get tested. I havent been tested yet. After that i have just barebacked with two other guys ( tourist staying in a hotel and a fly attendant). three load from three random guys in less than two weeks. now sex with my partner is soo boring I´m trying to convince him to go bare, he is thinking about it.

I'm going to start something today I've seen on other forums - birthday shout outs... Today is bimnhk9er's birthday. Not sure of his age, but back in May he posted over in the bug chaser's forum that he's looking for loads. So if you're in New Hampshire, why not give him a birthday gift today?

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At least in urban areas it seems pretty much all women are gay friendly. I know "fag hag" means women who like to hang out with gay guys - but it seems that's pretty much all women these days. So does fag hag have any meaning now?

Here's another pic that shows his tat from the front. Is that a naked woman?

@AdventurousButSane - I'm wiped and about to walk the dogs and go to bed. I'll look more closely at what you suggested tomorrow, but I just wanted to say you already have private photo albums. When you mark someone as your friend it gives them access to all your private albums. There's also a calendar section which is a great place to list your play parties. I don't know that they're linked on your profile though. What other hookup sites would you like to see profile name fields for? I refuse to do Manhunt - they're still on my shit list - money given to them winds up in the hands of Republicans who work against the civil rights of the gay community. I'll respond more tomorrow. Thanks for your suggestions...

Well, I trolled through my pics of porn stars with tattoos and finally came up with a tattoo style I think will look good on me - the "sleeve" Bo Dean has (see below)... There were ones that I saw that looked good on some guys, but weren't for me - I didn't want to do tribal, I didn't want to do the colorful figurative stuff (that often involves red flames), I didn't want to celtic, I didn't want to do one of those blocky south pacific ones either. Bo's sleeve is is a nice compromise - I'm not sure what sort of label you'd put on it. It has complexity and depth without going overboard. I think in another pic you can see he's got a naked lady in there - not sure I'd want that exactly - lol - but I'm a Sagatarian so I could see incorporating a centaur with a bow and arrow. I've always thought the archery metaphor was appropriate for a breeder top. But it has to be really subtle - a man-horse archer could be really tacky if it's done wrong. So some figurative elements, but also a fair amount of pattern... I think I'd also sorta reserve a spot under my arm near my arm pit for a biohazard symbol in the event I test poz at some point in the future. I'm also thinking of having the name of my lover who died incorporated somehow... That's the nice part of Bo's sort of design - I can do all of those things and it's still a cohesive tattoo... My boyfriend thinks that tattoo will cost me $5,000 to $10,000. Does anyone know for sure? Like me, my bf has no tattoos and so he's just pulling a number out of his ass. I found something online that said full sleeve tattoos take about 20 hours at $150/hr - so that's a lower number, but I know I'm going to be picky and want a good tattoo artist, so I could see double that amount... And any idea who in New York can do that sort of work? I need an original design plus execution. Montréal would be good too - I could see going up there a 2-3 times until it's done and it's sorta a tattoo-friendly city with lots of under-employed creative types...

I don't think we could achieve quite the level of integration you're thinking about in the near term. PigMaster and I need to have a talk about what's feasible, then figure out what of that is desirable. Either way, you'll definitely be able to perceive the boundary between the sites. What we're talking about is one site's ability to have links with auto login to the other site, and maybe the ability to pull and display a little data from the other site. I don't see the two sites being blended into an indistinguishable whole any time soon (if ever).

The Body organized a panel discussion the other day about barebacking. It starts out a little academic, but then there's a lot of good discussion. Here are some of the highlights... I gotta say I'm always disappointed at how few gay guys bareback. A lot of us do, but so many more "should" be... We've got out work cut out for us, I guess... I definitely don't believe the 12 percent figure - at least not in urban areas. In cities 46% sounds more like the real number - maybe a bit lower. What do you guys think is the real number? I totally agree with them on that point! They've managed to make "safe sex" about as uncool and unhip as you could possibly imagine. Their message is still based on fear and much of the data they throw at you hasn't been relevant in over 15 years. That leaves the bareback community in the wonderful position of being the ones who are confidently living an uninhibited, fearless life. They talked about a lot of the reasons why people bareback, but that one stood out. I know someone who pozzed his boyfriend, but haven't really heard about that many guys wanting to be poz to be more connected to their boyfriends. Interesting he said he's seen a fair amount of it.Here's another interesting reason for barebacking... I remember being in a gay men's support group after coming out in college and I was rare in the group because I had not been molested as a kid - nearly all the guys had been molested as kids.But then there's the issue of homophobia. Many times as gay men we have to strike out and make our own lives with no support from family. It can be a tough life and you have to make your own decisions. That leads us to live a more examined life than most straights. We question things - including what we're taught about safe sex. Because our lives are tough I think we value pleasure more than straight people - and we're willing to take risks to enjoy the moment... It is interesting to think all of that may come subconsciously from abuse (physical or emotional) that we have to deal with. I do think relationships can be valuable on many levels. Some people don't understand why I continue to have a largely non-sexual relationship with my boyfriend, but relationships aren't just about sex - in many ways they're about two compatible people being companions - which is why I think sluts should get into relationships with other sluts... It can actually be a good combination... Personally, I think that sorta sums up the major factors for older guys... Interesting the moderator converted when he was older. This point is really important - look at what he's saying... He wants to medicate people who may not need meds personally to protect the people they have sex with. I think this is really dangerous on a policy level. It's one thing if a person wants to do it, but to expect someone to do something which could potentially hurt them in order to protect someone else is a bad idea in my opinion. Not sure I completely agree with that, but I think there's some truth in there somewhere. That is probably at the core of what's wrong with HIV prevention today... But there's even more to it... Bareback porn shows poz guys having great sex lives, looking awesome, etc. Then you know poz friends and you see for most guys it's a bit of a hassle, but it's far from the end of the world, and people do the risk vs. reward calculations in their head and then some decided to live out their fantasies - whether that's laying ass up in a bathhouse and taking loads, or just not saying 'no' to a hot guy who wants to fuck them raw... You can read the entire transcript here - http://www.thebody.com/content/art57151.html?getPage=1 So what are your thoughts on their discussion? I think they had enough different perspectives that they got a lot of things right.

There can be a lot of reasons. Since we can't get at the study it's hard to say what they might be, but the smaller the sample size the more likely there will be outliers - and one study in one city is likely to have a small sample size. However, we can say conclusively that HAART is not the reason - there are a ton of studies showing lower viral levels throughout the body when the person is on ARVs - not zero, but still drastically lower than someone who isn't on meds. And yes, we know lower viral loads = lower transmission. The Swiss Statement is something you should familiarize yourself with if you're wondering about that.

I bred a beefy Asian guy on Friday who looked like a young Samoan warrior - beefy and muscular - INCREDIBLE ass... Flooded his hole with a HUGE 9 day load that just kept pouring out of my dick...

I can't find the Sydney article in Medline, which is odd. The Varghese study was a study of studies, so it aggregated and averaged results found in many studies on the subject of per-incident risk. The Varghese study was also based on an enormous amount of testing that was done in the US. I don't think the Syndey study can have the same statistical certainty that the Varghese study can have. In addition the Varghese study was mostly drawing from pre-ARV research studies, so it should be a worst case scenario and things should be better now.