I got totally flipped. From married to a chance encounter giving a guy a ride home from a bar. I never considered myself gay or bi, but as I was forced into a situation by an absolute behemoth of a man I felt submissive urges awakening that I never knew were even there. I felt shame and guilt for weeks. The more I thought about it, though, as time passed on - I have never been so sexually charged as I was when I was submitting. We had exchanged numbers due to having mutual interests and a rapport at the bar prior to the "business", and after a month of questioning my sexual identity and reliving the night's events while jacking off, I texted him and asked if he wanted to grab a beer. I ended up willing bending over him hours later and never looked back.