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Im in Los Angeles. Ive got sex clubs. gay spas. adult video stores. BBRT A4A Manhunt Squirt. Theres so many men into BB here to fuck. I get overwhelmed with the possibilities. I could literally have sex 10 times a day if I wanted. But LA is also a rude place. and its impersonal. and its definitely player town. You wont find many who want more than a one time fuck.

I like it here only because of the weather and the sex otherwise its expensive and stressful and dirty. I was wondering if you guys cared to comment on where you live and if you like where you live. sex? cost of living? free to be you? etc....

any hidden gems of a city somewhere we should all move to?

Peace

Its the same anywhere and everywhere. Gay men are gay men regardless of zip code. But I'm sure there are those who will speculate which city has all bottoms, who has the sexiest guys and which city has more bbreeders on bbrt.

If you don't think gays are more racist, just watch one episode of Tosh.0 on Comedy Central. He's a gay comedian who's whole routine is based on promoting hilarious stereotypes of blacks, latinos, asians and arabs. Funny, yes. But still racist. He gets a 'pass' since he's gay.

Of course you're going to go to Slammer's. Lots of drunk, tweaked, methed-up'd, tina queens running around like zombies. The bbottoms compete for a spot on the bench in the side dark room. Be warned, its about 1 top to 8 bbottoms in there.

Alot of gays are very racist. Good and bad. Its just the nature of gay men being over sexualized and objectified based on appearances and pre-conceived images we have learned from the media including the internet, news, TV, gay porn and other social mediums.

Countless times I've been referred to as BIG BLACK COCK or BBC. Doesn't bother me...I actually expect it now. As gay men, are guys really interested in my hands, feet, smile, brain or heart? NOPE. Adding a racial element just makes the allusion hotter for most.

Gays are far MORE racist, believe it or not. Just my experiences and personal opinion.

I've learned that, since I'm a bareback top, just to assume everyone is poz. Breeding a piece of ass is breeding a piece of ass.

Here here! I second that. I raw fuck all. I don't care if you are NEG, POZ, UNDETECT, MULTIPLIED, DENOMINATOR, SQUARE ROOT or DON'T KNOW.

Unfortunately, there is NO polite way to tell someone online that your simply not interested in what they're offering. Most gay men cannot handle rejection. Furthermore, most will want to receive a detailed explanation as to why they were rejected. i.e too fat, too short, small cock, bad hygiene, ass too flat, wrong race, too fem, etc.

There is no kind and polite way to convey that kind of information in an online setting.

Therefore, IGNORE, then DELETE MESSAGE is what most of us end up doing.

Every city in the world, every sex club, every party, every bathhouse...has more BOTTOMS than tops. Its a basic fact of gay life.

Ft Lauderdale is a nice city for gays, but it has a small gay retirement town kind of feel. Slammers is like their rec room. Its nice to visit, but I would prefer the major gay metros like New York, San Francisco, Atlanta and Los Angeles to make a living.

The absolute WORST on BBRT is Take Loads Anal: Ask Me When the fuck am I suppose to ask you? This IS a barebacking website, right?

Check out Hard Drive, Gallery of Men or the J.O.C parties. All have 'regular' guys as you described. I also heard "Ed and Steve's" parties are good although I haven't been yet.

Wish there was an App with a GPS feature similar to Grindr, Growlr and Scruff for either the iPhone, Droid or Blackberry where a horny top could locate raw bareback bottom holes. It could be called Loadr.

Don't really like to fuck to dance music. Throws my timing off. Both partners need to be in sync with the rhythm for any type of music to work.

Recently, in the past two years, I've (re)discovered the sex party scene in NY. Since the bath house scene in NY is dead along with the fact that bars with backrooms have been long gone from the scene, that leaves me with parties if I am wanting anonymous group sex.

At last count, I've attended at least 7 different party venues given by different hosts.

While I have a favorite or two, I'd like to hear yours...

Wednesday at a weekly NYC sex party. Loaded up this bald-headed tall sexy chocolate black brother man. Nice thick ass. He was already pre-fucked and lubed by the time I found him.

Dark spaces that have horizontal amenities (beds, slings, bunks) work best. Otherwise, the area will generate lots of foot traffic with guys wandering in and out...looky-loos.

bbrt is great for you larger gay metros like LA, SF, NY and Miami. In smaller cities the pickings are slim.

a4a is great for shear volume of cruisers.

craigslist is joke and mostly married men who want 'safe sex'...