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1 hour ago, btmdad said:

When I am contacted by a top that wants a short notice fuck,  how do I get prepped in a short time?  I have a shower douche and a bulb douche but I can't always seem to get totally clean on short notice.  Any tips?

Try and have your tops get in the habit of giving you a 24 to 36 hour advance notice. I mostly fuck my few regular bottoms who are usually pre-cleaned and ready to take me long and deep. For instance, I will start contacting my weekend bottoms on Thursday evening to see if they're available.

But short notice fucks are a recipe for mess and an embarrassing situation.

On 11/6/2023 at 7:55 PM, RawNYTop said:

Fair Theatre is still fun. It's been smelling pretty rank over the years, but it still gets a crowd going on weekends.

Fair is the best place if you like mature blue collar ethnic guys mixed in with trans. Thursday, Friday and Sundays are the days I prefer. Saturdays are way too busy with guys/trans booth hogging the entire day. The straight porn theater has so much dark room potential. I wish I could remodel that space similar to Glorious Health, Blowbuddies, Slammer with glory hole booths and a suck ramp.

1 hour ago, JimInWisc said:

Indeed on balance I think Biden has done a good job given conditions on the ground when he started.   For most of us the years 82 - 85 are more challenging.  As a result whomever is VP has a good chance of becoming President.  It might be healthy if the WH starts showcasing Harris as well if Dem's proceed with an incumbent only candidate. 

Further, I think a second (and even a third) candidate allows for healthy discussion within the party; which I think would prove more attractive to undecided voters.   

Kamala Harris seems like a good candidate for the D's 👍 She's a black woman and likeable. So much so I've noticed there are now three pronunciations of her first name. 🤣

Biden deporting venezolano migrants.

[think before following links] https://www.washingtonpost.com/immigration/2023/10/25/border-venezuelans-migrants-deportation-flights/

.01% of the 1%

I did the maths.

That's still ALOT of horny men.

Wow! We're there now. Drone cruising. 

The younger generation is a bit more comical when cruising as they are socially awkward and lack interpersonal skills to begin with.

On average, my type changes every five years or so I have noticed. And its usually a 180 turn to a TOTALLY different scene, different looks, build and different background. The age range changes since I've always been into daddies, but now I am a daddy. 🤣 I now deal more with married guys where as my younger self always wrote-off married men.

On 10/22/2023 at 12:01 AM, BritishCumdump said:

 

What do you think, too slack? 

 

Your hole is no where near being loose. Might be another issue with the fellow who could not get an erection.

Also it matters MORE how loose (or tight) the second hole is.

On 10/22/2023 at 3:58 AM, Grschwanz said:

florida is becomg more red. its scary. School teachers are not even allowed to have pictures of their partner if they are gay .

add to that,  homes are no longer insurable. That means your investment in  property will eventually become worthless. Get out of Florida while there is still time.  

gina Thomas and Trump are not joking when they say they are going to arrest people and send them to gitmo. trump could easily come back as so many people, including Democrats,  are falsely accusing Biden of becoming too old

Which 'blue state' should those folks fleeing Florida run to?

• Delete a4a, bbrt, manhunt profiles (they've basically become xxx pic and amateur porn sharing sites)
• Pay for Grindr Xtra or Unlimited and use filters (photos 👉 has face pics)
• Use social media (FB & Twitter) if you are in a medium to large city to search for locally organized sex parties
• Log off - go out to the cruise park, ABS, bath or gym

8 hours ago, Teeslad70 said:

I've always fancied girls, a man doesn't make me look back over my shoulder in the same way it does with an attractive woman.

However I had my first taste of cock young, and the act, not the man, still has a huge draw for me.

I prefer straight cocksuckers. 👍

On 9/3/2023 at 1:16 AM, ErosWired said:

In this case the OP is specifically asking why a Top cares what a cumdump looks like, rather than simply what a bottom looks like. I think the question carries the inference that he’s asking about situations in which Tops are approaching men for anonymous sex, and bottoms are acting as cumdumps, providing ease of access without strings, hassle or drama.

Your reply is, of course, correct as far as it goes - it certainly explains why some Tops post criteria. But it doesn’t really answer the question of why a Top looking for an anonymous cumdump would care about a face or features he’s unlikely to see.

My answer would be that arousal is in the mind, and the Top fucking an unseen, anonymous body in a darkened room isn’t actually fucking that body at all - he’s fucking a body that he has created in his mind and imagination. Some men, however, don’t have as much imagination, and want to have some idea what they’re working with for something to build their arousal fantasy around.

There’s also that percentage of Tops who prefer missionary position - those Tops may want a preview because they’re going to have to look at that face while they’re fucking the body, and they want it to be at least tolerable.

Personally, I don’t know why they would want to see what I look like; I send them an ass pic, and thus they see me at my best.

Back to the OP's original question. 

I think these two paragraphs sums it up perfectly 👍

14 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

Silicone lube is compatible with latex and doesn't degrade it. Read the label...

Lawks! We need better sex education!!

Brings back memories of guys in the 90s using condoms with Vaseline as lube.

(Oh shit, the condom broke!)

This is why gays LOVE dark rooms. Its the attraction to body parts and not the guy.

I am weird in that I need to be physically attracted to a bottom in order to become aroused and maintain an erection. I have a specific type(s).

Most bottoms consider this a turn-off and prefer tops who are attracted only to the body parts which explains why my Grindr message box fills up daily with similar ass pics.

20 hours ago, fuckholedc said:

Where is Slammer LA are they?  Thanks!

They are to the left (front) as you enter the main suck ramp glory hole maze. In the play room area. The lighting does not make it totally dark so the holes don't function as being anonymous reverse glory holes.

I have not been since pre-Covid so the set-up might have changed.

On 9/3/2023 at 1:16 AM, ErosWired said:

 

There’s also that percentage of Tops who prefer missionary position - those Tops may want a preview because they’re going to have to look at that face while they’re fucking the body, and they want it to be at least tolerable.

 

Spot on! 👍

2 hours ago, teralex said:

Seems like the states has more fun saunas, unfortunately I travel around Canada more often but I'll have to make a trip out at some point.

They don't.

To reiterate, its because some tops have a 'type' seeing that missionary and knowing how to ride the dick are what separates cum-dump-ass-up-doggy-style passive bottoms from professional power bottoms. There's a difference.

The trick is knowing which type of bottom you are.

12 hours ago, DirtyIndyDad40 said:

Visiting NYC this weekend. 

53 top vers Dom dad bear type and bttm vers Twink son (24) visiting Times Sq Hotel this Thurs - Monday, looking for fun places to go give and take loads. Def going to the Cumunion event on 38th Sunday evening. What else is must see / do in the raw fucking scene in NYC? TIA for your answers!

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9 hours ago, teralex said:

Anyone know of any bathhouses with reverse glory holes? The type where it's your ass sticking through the hole rather than someone else's dick. I've also heard them referred to as Czech or ass glory holes. I've seen steamworks Seattle has it on their website but does anyone know of anywhere else?

Slammer in LA has some. Also gay sex clubs in Mexico City feature them.

What is I'll take a toothless gum job for 200 dollars please Alex? 🤣

On 7/27/2023 at 12:39 AM, Hot2fuck said:

I’m thinking of traveling to South/Central America Mid October to Mid December, looking for the sleaziest cities and locations I can be a cumdump.

Salvador de Bahia is on my radar...but coming upon good info is difficult.

51 minutes ago, blackrobe said:

I'd be considering all of these places, but I don't speak Spanish. It feels disrespectful to go and live in a place where you don't speak the language passably well. At the same time, there's a lot to like about places like Ecuador and parts of Mexico. Indigenous and transplanted cultures add to the interest there with First Peoples and Afro-Mexicans. Oaxaca seems very interesting at first glance. It makes me wonder how they'd cope with a fair skinned Australian living amongst them. I'm interested in all kinds of men from all cultures, but wonder if I'd be an outlier and not their cup of tea.

Oaxaca is amazing and the men are beautiful. There is not much issue with skin color there unless you make it. I'm very dark-skinned black American as you can see. Zero issues. But yes, not speaking Spanish will be a slight issue.

On 9/14/2023 at 1:11 PM, tallmascbottom said:

Since the Pennsylvania Hotel was suc an institution, I thought I would eventually party there.

Wonder if there are any cumdump spots in the Bronx. Never get to really enjoy that borough’s ample meat.

I always remember the Bronx having fuck parties in one of those basement apartments where the super lives. 🤣They still happen I imagine.

15 minutes ago, meetme said:

I live here for years now.  My work schedule doesn’t give me enough time to enjoy sex and it’s really changed over the years. Lately I like to get myself ready and then say yes to all I can get. It’s getting better at the ESC but it’s uneven. There ought to be situations where men would enjoy using an available bottom in the boroughs, I’m still looking.  I only bareback and never refuse a load

Got it. Thought you might have been just visiting the area for the first time. Since you're local, you already know the situation in NYC. There are not many places left. When Paddles shut down, I stopped going out and now rely on Grindr or established fuck-buddies.