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Watching WWF wresting as a kid. Hulk Hogan but especially Jimmy 'Superfly' Snuka gave me raging hard-ons.

Then at age 15 I discovered cruisy toilets at the department stores. One had a glory hole.

Could you tell us your age? That would help add some context to this being your first bathhouse experience.

Myself, I went to my first bathhouse at 19 years old in Harlem, New York. I remember my age because I would also go to the clubs of early 90s NYC but was not old enough to legally drink. I would wear my underage wristband to the bathhouse and take it off when I got inside.

On 11/1/2022 at 5:30 PM, Btmfag said:

Are swollen lips a turn on or a problem? 

Definitely a huge turn on. Swollen ass lips means a bottom is experienced and can take the entire length of my dick with no problem.

The best feeling is when those swollen lips touch my ball sack and 'milk' the base of my shaft.

Standard bottoms can't do all that and just bottom out.

For some strange reason, I can never find a co-worker sexually attractive. I work in the financial-tech industry and usually the guys are below average looks with anti-social smug personalities leading boring bland lives with ugly wives and their kids in the suburbs. Out gay guys are a no-no. I hope the closeted ones don't find me on Grindr.

There is just WAY too much to unpack in this thread which has nothing to do with treating the infection.

On 11/7/2022 at 5:58 PM, Muscledadbod said:

If you are traveling to LGA, there is the Fair Theatre close by where you can spend the day giving and getting loads.

Agreed. If you are coming into LGA then the Faire Theater is just down 92nd Street. You can bus, Uber or cab there very easily. Its 5 to 7 minutes away. Cost is $15. They have small lockers available if you need to store a backpack.

They open around 10 AM and close at midnight weekdays, 3 AM on weekends. McDs and BK within walking distance if you get hungry.

I'll pass on any cocksucker involving my dick in any kind of force, pressure, or teeth being applied to this work of art.

BBC - be careful with it. ☑️😊

I've seen lots of gay amateur porn where the guy getting sucked is on his phone. Usually younger guys as it may be socially acceptable now.

11 hours ago, KindaBasic said:

Never heard of it. Is it a bathhouse or some party

The Faire in an old-fashioned (think 1970s - 1980s) porno theater in Astoria, Queens, NYC.

Very multi-cultural, ethnic crowd with guys from all over the tri-state. It also attracts lots of trans and men who like them.

Multiple theaters, play areas and booths with a very social theater lobby seating area for random chit chat.

I'm always amazed in 2022 America when I am approached by a non-black man who claims they've never been with a black guy before, always fantasized and now want to try. Be it online or in-person cruising.

Most times I think these individuals are just trolling me for a specific reaction on my part - my excitement of being their first (which I am NOT interested in) 😝

Don't care who owns Twitter or their politics. I'm not leaving unless they take down the porno.

11 hours ago, Slinglizard said:

I still can’t get vaccinated in my area, but looking at the data, the numbers seem to be plummeting.

Is that really the case, or am I just trying to fool myself?

Media (legacy mainstream and social) lost interest in it. I searched #monkeypox on Twitter yesterday and its just memes now.

7 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

How do we know this? Because, boys and girls, the text reads...

Literally, that means any topic involving boys and girls. Which would mean that federal funds could not be used for any materials that discuss anyone of any gender (including het-cis-male and het-cis-female) with reference to their gender in any context in which it is relevant.

Hell, just close the schools now.

Why would the bolded items need to be discussed with a child under 10 years of age? Genuinely curious. Seems pedo to me but I could be wrong.

I'm including the complete text below for more context:

(1) SEXUALLY-ORIENTED MATERIAL.—The term ‘‘sexually-oriented material’’ means any depiction, description, or simulation of sexual activity, any lewd or lascivious depiction or description of human genitals, or any topic involving gender identity, gender dysphoria, transgenderism, sexual orientation, or related subjects.

Sometimes getting tested just makes you feel like your doing the right thing.

So you can go do it again. ☑️👍🏾

On 10/17/2022 at 5:56 AM, Gimmiethatload said:

A4A is still my go to for getting consistent dick. It's come through for me time and time again..... literally just finished getting fucked and loaded up by a hot daddy I met on there not too long ago. 

After that growlr seems to do the trick if no one on A4A is biting. Grindr definitely has too many flakes, I look on there to pass the time maybe flirt with some guys....but I don't get my hopes up or give it too much energy 

I find a4a now has filled the Craigslist void for married guys who have no place but are looking for action.

Problem with Grindr is that you have to leave your local area to get GOOD hits.

Otherwise the first four rows are the same guys you've never been interested in.

On 10/16/2022 at 11:52 PM, BootmanLA said:

I wonder, though (since I haven't traveled abroad enough to know) whether that's something culturally inherited in the US/western countries because of white attitudes towards black people? In other words, do Asians in Asia have the same issues with black men as Asians in the U.S.? And is it equally distributed across Asia? Or do, say, Japanese display this more (or less) than Indians, or Malaysians, or Vietnamese?

As far as Latins from Central and South America go: given that the source of most of their black population (and those with significant black ancestry) is, like the U.S., from slavery, I can understand that the cultural dynamic might be similar. In some South American places, I know, the highest spots on the social order belong to the small number of people who are of almost entirely European descent, and as the percentage of native and/or black ancestry increases, one's social status not infrequently declines - especially in places which had huge slave populations, like Brazil.

So I guess what I'm wondering is - would you find the same bias against blacks among, say, Spaniards in Spain as opposed to Americans of Latin American descent, or among Indians in Bombay compared with, say, Vietnamese descendants in California. 

As a black American, I have never experienced racism from gays in Mexico, Central or South America. 

Now I HAVE received negative energy in bars and bathhouses in Latin America for being perceived as an English-speaking foreigner.

Many seem disappointed I'm not Colombian, Panamanian, Cuban or Dominican.

For them its cultural difference. And I agree with them.

3 hours ago, LuvRawNkc said:

I love this topic and I'm glad to have found it on here even though nobody has responded for quite some time period I consider myself a bottom. And I also consider myself a total b**** and a f*****. But having said that I also love to wear panties. My wife has gotten into calling me a Sissy and loves it when I wear panties and when I'm in chastit's what I'm interested. I personally love being more fim even though I don't look at. I love to suck cock dressed up as a woman or wearing panties I love it when a man pulls my panties down and fuck me. Or when hes Fucking my wife or having me suck his cock and I'm wearing panties. But I've also found that most gay men while they love to have sex with the bottom do not want the bottom to be looking like a woman

Masculine cocksuckers in panties are HOT!

I understand now there is a big trend with gay men to wear women's lingerie and act out certain scenes by means of female pronouns and name-calling.

For a bath house in a major North American city its not very good. I haven't been in years but I can't imagine it improving. Its better to play in FLL since its at least three venues to choose from not including the gay hotels.

Has anyone read the article or are we just suppose to react to the Don't Say Gay headline (which is intentionally misleading)?

On 10/15/2022 at 6:27 AM, miticax said:

So my dilema as a bottom is when preparing your hole - loosen it up, but plugs, dildos, vibrators, how much all of these are too much?

Like if I play with my hole it will loosen up, that's fine if you get a big cock, but otherwise or even so, ur hole will not be tight for the likeing of the top.

So how you take all this?

Also if you prepare for bathhouse, with lots of fucking, then how it changes the preparation?

I prefer what I call 'professional bottoms' - meaning they are prepared to get fucked.

I like hole pre-loosened, clean and lightly lubricated.

Tight holes require too much work. And there is a 50/50 chance the bottom won't be able to handle me.

14 minutes ago, DarkroomTaker said:

Such as ? Genuinly interested topblk.

Using more than a bar of soap. Specifically product & tools such as body scrubs, loofah, pumice (for feet), wash cloth, toenail clippers, shaving certain areas, nail brush, floss, etc.

One issue I notice is a lot of men do not know how to bathe correctly for their skin type/hair texture.

Men's hygiene sometimes requires more than a bar of soap rubbed briskly around the dick, balls and armpits. 🤣

On 10/14/2022 at 4:16 PM, BootmanLA said:

 

But yes, there are also some white guys who don't want to have sex with a black guy, even if they'll have sex with another white guy (and maybe a Latino guy, an Asian man, an Arab man, an Inuit man, or a First Nations man). And yeah, that's racism of a much worse kind, because it's targeting one race or ethnicity (or sometimes, a few races or ethnicities) for exclusion. 

Also some black guys that don't want to have sex with a white guy. 😱

Does anyone know if asspig is still active? I can't log into my old account, can't reset my password and can create a new account. I'm probably banned for some reason.