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I'm enjoying the pushback from gay males regarding gay male spaces.

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

 

The transman is nothing like this. He is coming into a men’s place as the male he is. No issue. Now, I think there is some validity to the point raised above, that a transman who is pre-transition, or who has opted to forego surgery, probably does have some obligation to disclose the nature of the difference in genitalia to prospective partners in this context, as the exclusive nature of the venue gives rise to an expectation of consistency; it is best to avoid surprises.

 

Trans men are men not males.

1 hour ago, hntnhole said:

 

The only answer I can come up with is, transwomen simply don't (and never will) have those male items, and would have to use strap-on's or dildos to fuck other guys.  I know there are dildos with a Cock on both ends so two bottoms can get fucked at the same time, usually in group scenes, and in a "training" scene.   

 

I'm sure you mean trans men.

Why allow trans men when many gay bathhouses still ban trans women and cis women? 🤔

Both Slammers (LA & FLL) have dark rooms. Also some gay resort hotels like the Parliament House in Augusta, GA have dark rooms. I've seen footage on YuTbe of dark rooms in public bathrooms. Let's not forget porno theaters where some had whole basements that were dark rooms.

4 hours ago, FTMChaser said:

I'm a transman and I avoid bathhouse and saunas for the fact that gay men are more often than not very phallocentric. They just don't seem very inclusive in that regard.

Straight men tend to be move vaginally focused and rarely phallocentric....though I have fucked a few straight men who love phallus (dick).

13 hours ago, Movietheaterslut2 said:

Trans men are men. 

Trans men are men! 👍

(but I'm allergic to pussy cats) 😀

On 11/29/2023 at 1:27 AM, Traviscraymer said:

I’ve been to bears and love it!  They also have several other parties.  One called Manhole is on my to do list.  Love to spend sometime getting pointers on hole stretching. 

Has anyone been to the Manhole party? Is it hardcore fist only or is there regular (dick) fucking also?

11 minutes ago, Chubbytransguy said:

How do you feel about transgender men in places like bathhouses and male-only swinger’s clubs?

male-only swinger’s clubs?

I'm fine with trans nights. We have that here at some NYC sex parties. It gives me the option to avoid that night as someone who is not attracted to the trans scene. But otherwise those who enjoy it can go and its usually the busiest night here in NYC from what I have heard. 

14 hours ago, BBBxCumDumpster said:

Do you really see guys with "walkers, canes, wheel chairs" there?

Yes. There is an older (late 70s) white man that comes in with a wheelchair. He gets a room on the main floor. He is usually escorted in and out by a younger early 30s latin guy. I think he's his caretaker. 

Sometimes the walkers and wheelchairs are left in the corridors.

Yes, its weird.

But I see that you are in NY also where our one bathhouse is ESC.

If you're going there, I say have at it. There will be others there using walkers, canes, wheel chairs and various mobility devices. I'm just not sure how you would manage the two rather steep flights of stairs.

11 hours ago, Tx8in said:

That unique smell is one of the best parts of servicing BBC. It drives me nuts as soon as I get a whiff and taste, 

Like cum, its an acquired taste (smell). Bonus if the black brotha smells like cocoa butter as well. 👍🤣

Love when these posts in the 'LGBT Politics' forums somehow turn into anti-Christian, anti-Trump, anti-critical thinking. 👍😀

/s

Tap foot for BJ

32 minutes ago, stef85hki said:

There are other potential sub-forums within Mexico in addition to Mexico City and PV, like Cancun, Mérida, Acapulco, Los Cabos, etc..

Agreed. 👍 I was trying to highlight the gay cities first.

On 11/10/2023 at 11:24 AM, stef85hki said:

@rawTOP could you help us editing it?

Ideally it would be great to have Mexico under Regional Hookup Forums with Mexico City and Puerto Vallarta as separate sub-forums.

That's East New York which is NOT a place I am going late at night when I'm not familiar with the area. I have safety and security concerns when it comes to apartment sex parties in sketchy neighborhoods.

1 hour ago, brnbk said:

LMgay💏AO, MagaSmarmy he is indeed!

The irony of it all is that there is now a Trump, again — yet he is brown in color and younger than 40!

Who would want to build a wall with Canada? the debate threw up another of Vivek's crazy statement; the guy is truly nuts. 

magaSmarmy – young and brown Trump. a menace

 

I'm not sure what brown has do do with anything since both Obama and Kamala are brownies.

1 hour ago, hntnhole said:

Allow me to disagree. 

While there may be "previews of coming attractions" in '28, we have other issues to deal with currently, and those are predominant now.  I think the guy from Ohio will disappear as fast as he initially appeared. 

What makes you think you know the demographics of television news consumption?  If you make silly statements, be prepared to back them up with facts.  Real ones.  

It's not a fact. It's observation.

Legacy media will be gone and irrelevant come 2032 election. Social media will be in a steep decline as well since its 100% 'woke' and far-left. New media will dominate later this decade.

9 hours ago, BlackDude said:

How are these people “tax cheats” when their was no requirement for them to report? 

What boggles my mind is people think it’s okay for us to spend resources to suppress hard working citizens and businesses while at the same time use more resources uplift non-citizens. US Tax payers are not obligated to ensure the economic prosperity if unlawful migrants or foreign countries. 
 

And in 2024, I think Dems will find out most of us believe the same. 

Vote blue. 🤣

This is the 2028 RNC pre-show. Vivek will be the only one relevant in 2028 as he is new media. No one under 50 years old watches FOX, MSNBC or CNN.

Which part of Brooklyn are you referring to? Park Slope, Bed-Stuy, Crown Heights, East NY, Williamsburg? Brooklyn is big and diverse so men on the 'DL' could mean something different depending on the demographic in question.

16 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I thought Tops like this were a myth.

Such a thing has been extremely rare among Tops in my experience. The sequence usually goes: Horny impulse > need for ass > find closest/soonest available > if not available in immediate future, masturbate | or | make plans for fuck within 2-24 hours, decide “fuck it”, masturbate, and forget all about it.

I really don’t think most Tops plan their sexual outlets; I think for most it’s reactionary, and to be fair, for some the frequency would turn the planning and coordination into a full-time job.

Add to this the dandruff-like flakiness of so many bottoms that make attempts at planning a waste of time, and I think on balance expecting Tops to start getting orderly about rutting is a pretty big ask.

The best I’ve been able to do with a very select number of men who have been consistent regulars over time is to make it clear to them that washing out my intestines for them is time-consuming, laborious and unpleasant, and that they have to adjust their expectations.

Nope, its not a myth. The thing is I mainly fuck regulars so I'd much rather wait til my bottoms are cleaned out to receive me rather than unplanned fucks where things are messy. Add to the fact that I'm an old-fashioned top in that I value a bottoms time it takes to clean out. I let them tell me when they're ready to get dicked down. I like one-on-one 45 minutes to an hour of breeding. That level or fucking requires pre-planning.

I've had bad experiences with wanna-be cump-dump bottoms who would drive around my neighborhood to meet guys on Grindr. Then want to show up at my place with a dirty hole or already having taken many local loads. I'm not into mystery hole so I stick to scheduled regular bottoms.

7 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

Because it requires ZERO EFFORT. He hit me up out of the blue and then just bailed. 
 

Use your words Shelby.

That's the norm and appears socially acceptable for gay dating apps. 

But its NOT ghosting if you don't even know their REAL first name and/or phone number.

1 hour ago, btmdad said:

When I am contacted by a top that wants a short notice fuck,  how do I get prepped in a short time?  I have a shower douche and a bulb douche but I can't always seem to get totally clean on short notice.  Any tips?

Try and have your tops get in the habit of giving you a 24 to 36 hour advance notice. I mostly fuck my few regular bottoms who are usually pre-cleaned and ready to take me long and deep. For instance, I will start contacting my weekend bottoms on Thursday evening to see if they're available.

But short notice fucks are a recipe for mess and an embarrassing situation.