muscledbtm
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LOL... Well, I looked for love and I found it. Now I'm looking for something else. But I think what I'm looking for is more within me - and I don't know what I'll find. 😈
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I related so much to your story. I've lived the life of a serial monogamist and then fell in love and was with my husband for over 20 years. He died almost two years ago and I've slowly been trying to expand my inner-slut. There's been a really nice guy on this site that says he will help educate me. (Just have to find the time ) But I think I i shocked him when I said I've never even been in a 3-way, or a sling. Now he has me thinking about learning how to use T carefully and not only be with multiple guys, but also get DP'd and who knows where I'll land. But you write very well and explained the fear, but also the desire that goes with the exploring. I think I'd be happy if my inductions are just half as hot as yours. Thank you for making me cum tonight thinking about what might be.
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Well said. Lately I've been telling a few friends that it's more difficult to find someone who speaks in full sentences than it is to find a big dick. I'm a widower for a couple years now (married to same guy and never cheated for over 20 years) and I'm finding that I miss most the connection with the guy I'm having sex with. I know that's why I tried T for the first time not that long ago, with a guy who had a big dick, but said he was actually straight and preferred women, but didn't mind a guy's hole. (Not exactly the emotional connection I was hoping for.) And it was ok. But I admit, now I'm wondering what it would be like to have both.
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Been following your replies and you seem very knowledgeable and levelheaded, so I trust your opinion... I don't want to go overboard on pnp and just become a hole lying there, feet up. I like intimate sex: kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc. And I've been lucky to find a couple guys that have let me experiment with T. But I'm finding it difficult to find guys that just want occasional light use. Are there websites to go to or maybe a special way of wording it on social sites that I don't know. It just seems like everyone is either absolutely not or they can't have sex without it. (And I'm in the middle.)
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First, thank you for your kind words - I do like to think of myself as a voice of sanity, or at least moderation in this wonderful but easily overdone scene! Many thanks. Now as to your questions, @muscledbtm, I don't know of any websites for the middle-of-the-roaders, but I do have some suggestions about your wording on the "usual" pnp-friendly sites. How about something along the lines of "looking for sex with enhancements, not enhancements with sex"...? Oh, and if you ever need some hands-on tutoring from a Leather Daddy who can skirt the edge without falling over, and you happen to drive down I-95 into NYC, let me know...
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Thank you. Don't be surprised if I take you up on your offer some day. But also, you mentioned "pnp friendly" sites. Other than this one, I don't know of any. Are they listed in this site and I just haven't looked? Any suggestions would be helpful.
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