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what i learned is that there is nothing unique about the experience. its your freshman year in the dorm. its being a 2nd year transfer student in an established class. its your first day at a full time job. its your first ever trip to a gay bar. it takes days just to process that what happened was so wildly different than what you thought would happen. that's neither good nor bad just unexpected.
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What is the best position to get seeded as deep as possible?
norefusal replied to Pampix's topic in General Discussion
i'm sure its different for everyone but i've always gotten my deepest breedings w me on all 4s and the top crouching over me, feet flat on bed, knees bent. -
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exactly! never once in RL have i ever done it in a bed at home w a girl who kept her bra on the whole time, yet if my only knowledge of sex was what they show on TV, i'd think that's how all couples do it 🤣 i always chuckle a bit at porn when the guys starts yelling "i'm gonna breed you! i'm gonna shoot deep in this hole!" and then pulls out and jerks his load out all over bare skin 😂
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did u ever find out? how long did it last? did u take doxy just in case? i've never experienced this but it does seem more like an allergy than an STI but im curious to know if u saw your dr. Maybe the guy previously had a condom on? or lube? did anything taste odd? i dont care for the taste of silicone lube.
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omg, i tried it once for like 30 seconds when i was young. never made that mistake twice! def one of those "what's the point in living if you can't have raw dick" moments 🤣
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variety is the spice of life and i like it all ways, mix it up. but my very first sexual experience was w a boy w a big dick who decided half way thru that i needed to be trained, so maybe just for nostalgia i do prefer a guy to grab my head and force it in all the way just before he unloads.
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why is the timer on? the real answer is a BJ should last as long as it feel good for both guys. period. i know what you're getting at tho. the only time i can suck for hrs on end like some kind of punishment in hell is when i'm spun. sober, luckily im good enough at it that the guy will usually come before im bored or tired. but some guys can't cum for various reasons and if my jaw is acking or my nose starts running too much or i've been deep throating for so long my gag reflex just quits on me it's like ok this was suppose to be a temp job not a fucking career 😜 likewise, i don't enjoy prolonged BJs. i like getting my dick sucked as long as it feels good, but often if it goes on too long it's like my dick gets overstimulated and oversensitive so it's actually starts to hurt making it unlikely that i'll cum. to me, being able to make a guy cum with your mouth in an efficient manner is the true talent.
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King of Hill actor, Jonathan Joss, murdered in homophobic attack.
norefusal replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
not to be all "gun don't kill people" about it but... you are right. leaders fuel the hate. but he's everyone's president and just as i hear his words and think "that's not right. that's stupid. that doesn't even make sense" i refused to let the millions of people who voted for him off the hook. ultimately, the people doing the hate crimes are the ones to blame, twinkie defense be damned -
instincts? - i love the whole idea of it and get turned on by seeing a slut bred in front of a crowd - i love the feel of sloshing around in a wet cunt. i'm as queer as a$3 bill but i do sometimes miss the slip-n-slide feel of a real pussy. this comes closest- a cum filled stretched hole - i'm unaware of any concept of pushing my competitors' babies out of the way. - but my problem is not instinct but ptsd. 😜i gotta get fucking dr fauci's "you're all gonna die!" hysteria out of my mind. it's bizarro world where my brain is going "this is 🔥af!" and my dick is going "danger! danger will robinson! abort mission" the opposite of most sex scenarios where my brain is "this is creepy and totally unwoke" and my dick just hardens more like "fuck yeah! use that stupid bitch" 😜
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i've never gotten and complaints but i know im average because: math. sometimes guys will say something about it being big and i always have to suppress a laugh cause ive been w enough guys to know what a big D looks like and i ain't it. 😜 but in my experience of "can i fuck you or not?" dick size is the least of the issues. most guys are either too tied into uptight ideas of the top being the "man" and the bottom being the "woman" or anal is a step too far, i don't know u like that, or fear of disease (it was soooo much harder to get a guy to bottom for you pre-prep) or "i'll suck dick but i won't get fucked - that's gay!" etc etc
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Attraction vs Fetishism: Racial Preference
norefusal replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
this! i've both slept with and dated men of all races. but here's the rub: i live in usa which per last census is roughly 51%white, 33%latino,11%black, 3%asian and 2%other. you would think that scewers the odds. i have both dated and slept w more white guys than anyone but that's just because there's so many more of them. but, just by chance: i've had several LTRs w asians despite not having very many nsa hook ups w them. but i rarely go on dates w black and latin guys despite having nsa hookups w countless ones. in my experience they tend to be more on the DL, str8 or "str8" etc. and that's not me profiling them, that's just the facts of the stats how they coincidentally worked out for me. i know several who are out and date, just not me 😜 considering how many of my recent hook ups verbalize how they're into me being a thick-bottomed daddy, you could argue i'm the one being fetishized lol but i'm not complaining. being stereotyped is also getting me laid on the reg, so.... -
sex is 50% selfish and 50% empathy. i havnt worn a rubber since the last century but thats not a flex. for the first 20 of the 21st i only fucked my husband and the last 4-5 i can keep track of the times i've topped. no one asks for a condom. but most of these guys were cumdumps. one str8 guy had me impressed. trying anal to see what it's like, gettin raw dogged by an anon daddy in a seedy motel room while the wife waits at home? that recklessness turned me on 😈 but i mostly bottom these days and the only guys who use condoms are str8 guys on the dl. selfish: i'd rather get fucked w a rubber than not fucked at all empathy: when i tried to talk the last one out of it he said "i know. this isn't about you though" and i get that. if youre cheating on the reg anon youre gonna catch something at some point and who wants that drama. women take this stuff so seriously 🤬
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it depends but i have noticed in general that younger guys are much more open to kink and rough play than i was at that age, and that other guys my age still are. myself: i'm much more open to it as rollplay because things are so much safer now and ive gained so much confidence. this past WE i hooked up w a much, much younger guy and damn was he a nasty pig - it was wonderful. then i had a 3 way w 2 older guys and every time i tried something a tad outre it was "no not that. no i don't like that. "etc eventually i got bored and left 😜
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prepared to have your mind really blown: some people spend all day in the rain, cold or blistering sun protesting women going into clinics that also perform abortions. 😜 that's not including the people who go ahead and blow the place up
