norefusal
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with my luck i've probably only taken 999 😜 but seriously: eliminating relationships (repeat fucking) i've only been slutty for a total of about 15 years, so to reach over 1k i'd have to have bent over for 1.3 guys per week, which tbh seem doable. 😈 but who knows? i'm probably underestimating how many "unlucky" weeks i've had over the years 😜 -
Do you feel the cum when you're bred? How is it afterward?
norefusal replied to anon11's topic in General Discussion
to me the most important thing to remember is being aware of what you can and can not control. the most important being: do i really want this? i was more like 27 and very attracted to the guy who spent time talking to me and then fooling around for a long time so by the time we got to it I was very ready willing and able. if you rush to just do it right away w just anybody you're pretty much setting yourself up for a "a don't think it's for me." situation. when i was younger i bottomed more like a top in the sense that my primary motivation was how getting fucked improved my orgasm. when i got older i learned to focus more on the actual pleasurable sensations of getting fucked and enjoying that rather than just focusing on if i cum or not. it's like a whole different thing. i mention this in part because being present and focusing on the moment also highlights how every top cums differently. some guys you can actually feel the cum hosing down your insides. other guys you can feel the cock pulsating inside you as he pump out the load. some guys are verbal, some guys are showy, some guys just breath a bit heavier and some guys stealth. likewise you body reacts differently. sometimes it trickles out n down your leg. sometimes your body expels it either in a wet fart or cramps that send u to the bathroom. sometimes it comes out the next day w your morning dump and sometimes your badly absorbs most of it. -
this is just me. we all have preferences but at the end of the day the most important thing to me is the shared experience: two people engaged in mutual pleasure. this is no longer a 1 an done. he's now a reg FB by stressing that he'd rather have no hair than you being yourself he's saying his pleasure is more important than you as a person. so let him go get it from someone he doesn't have to engage with. and you concentrate on fucking guys who appreciate you for who/what you are.
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i can't think of an example of this exact scenario, but i also spent most of my life living away from my family in places where i could get more dick. when i was younger i used to sometimes push it w going mia during work hrs because i was cruising instead. i suppose that comes the closest to "have u ever skipped obligations just get anon dick?"
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Tips for Seducing a Str8, Married Neighbor
norefusal replied to atlfukbud's topic in General Discussion
this my only advice to the OP is to keep doing what your doing. if you leave the blinds up and the lights on while getting pounded and he watches so be it. that might be kink enough. wait for him to decide he wants to potentially blow up his whole life for a meaningless fuck. but be prepared to live w front row seats to all the ugly drama if this blows up his home life. you're literally considering shitting where you eat and maybe you wanna keep this as a wank fantasy, where it probably belongs. -
i'm the exact opposite. 😜 a young twink who wants desperately to be bred is a huge turn off for me. but a str8 guy, esp a masc str8 guys, taking dick up the ass for the first time? huge turn on.
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something must have gone down, cause i was on it fine earlier today but you're right, i just tried again now and buffer buffer buffer do you have much luck there in general. its worse than bbrt for me in the lack of frequent engagement. but at least i do hook up from bbrt. NKP thus far is just guys way far away hitting me up to see if i wanna buy T 😜
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What do you feel when you're called "faggot" by a top?
norefusal replied to BBBreeding's topic in General Discussion
What do you feel when you're called "faggot" by a top? turned on complete a good lay sexy like i'm home -
I find it difficult to cum when I top
norefusal replied to Sluttyuncle's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
i'm the same way. i've always taken time to cum but when i was younger, especially with women, this was seen as a good thing. part of the reason why it's become "problematic" is everyone is way too obsessed w jizz these days. they want that load like it's a crack fix and it can't ever seem to come soon enough and the vocal demands just stress me out. tbh i've never once enjoyed receiving head. by the time i cum it's like I passed the fucking bar exam. 😜 but it also stresses me to hear the dry/tight jerk off method is problematic. it's honestly the only way i can get off. i fucking hate jerking w lube. everytime i try it i end up quitting half way thru. easy to say, but can one really retrain a habit they've been doing daily for almost a half century?! 😮honestly it might be easier to just retrain myself as a total bottom 😜 oh, and about the whole gay world suddenly being bottoms only all of a sudden: i've found that Str8 guys on the DL are still happy to top, especially for door open face down no questions asked fat ass 😈 -
all clothing is uncomfortable if sized improperly. but in my case "uncomfortable" doesn't = painful. i just have never gotten used to the floss up my butt crack, permanent wedgie feel. i also don't like if the top wants to fuck w it on. it just gets in the way and gets messy. different strokes for different folks
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i used to think exactly like this. but in recent years i've learned to enjoy exploring new things and giving things a chance. pros: damn my booty pops in a good thong. it's like a miracle bra for your butt the guys who love it, love it and that triggers the whole i get pleasure from giving pleasure dynamic cons: they're so fucking uncomfortable you can basically only wear them to turn a guy on and then thankfully they pull them off you. i could never wear them as real underwear. mostly they're only good for photoshoots theyre just not me. i feel much more at home in a jock but then we get into the whole curating your sex life automatically limits the number of partners and while most guys default to a quality over quantity lifestyle, i'm currently feeling my ill fuck anyone and everyone oats so why put a red velvet rope up at the door to only let in certain types
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i've never been in this situation because for me when things go wrong it is primarily due to the emotions and not the sex. my first attempt at a OR went south not because we were fucking other guys but because my BF increasingly started making them the priority over me. they were easy and didn't expect emotions from him like i did. my second attempt was probably too little too late w my ex husband. i was happy when he agreed to open things up but once the suggestion by a hook up that we do a 3 way repulsed me i realized that i was way more angry w my husband then i even realized and that the relationship was damaged way beyond "im bored w monogamy".
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attracting tops as a straight-looking man...
norefusal replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
two pieces of advice come to mind: 1. try to accept that it might not even be about you. cruising areas always have a % of nervous guys who are either newbies or jaded and feel something about you reminds them of the cop who did arrest them in this very spot last year 2. lean in and work it. if you give off a str8 cop vibe, most gays will be on you like flies on shit. work that porn rollplay angle and they'll be nice to officer friendly before you make them do "hard time" 😈 -
to me this is 3 separate things. crabs came first but to me that's not an sti/std as i once got them from sleeping shirtless between the sheets in a "no-tell motel" 😜plus anything you easily Rid yourself of w over the counter stuff is not the same thing imo also, it's kinda a blast from the past for me. years ago when i was a newly out youngster freshly moved to a gay metropolis sleeping w tons of other guys in the same situation like a bunch of kids w a new toy it's no wonder we just seemed to be spreading the same craps over and over again amongst ourselves as it was in retrospect a "small" group of young horny just out guys and degree of separation between us was a lot less than 6! 😜 it took over a decade before my first sti chlamydia - but that was a direct result of "condom fatigue" and the increased risks i was taking w frequent BB sex. it's a whole other ballpark imo from the seriousness of the illness, to the more intrusive cure, to the having to go "public" w the news and make a dr apt and talk face to face w someone etc vs a quick trip to walgreens w jackie o shades on. 😜 still neg but this really is a whole nother ballpark imo vs chlamydia which was 10 days of pills and then like it never even happened. there's no do over w hiv. whenever people bring up the negative effect of regular prep usage i say "yeah. you know what else really fucks your body up too? hiv" there's no such thing as free lunch, just personal choices
