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  1. i wouldn't say there's anything wrong w consentual breath control
  2. for me the good and the bad are all rolled up into one: - cumdump events sound hot until you realize nobody wants you there unless you can top the designated bottom - fucking a community cumdump sounds hot till he starts doming you w demands - fuck me like this - hurry up and breed me - call me _____ etc if i wanted to be belittled and told im doing everything wrong i'd fuck one of the nuns who taught me in school - fucking a str8 guy is super hot till you realize he's too naive to know he was suppose to clean out first - fucking a cummy hole is hot until your aids crisis ptsd flares up and ruins it - why is the voice of dr fauci in my head telling me this is high risk behavior right now - chem sex is hot until you realize you've been fucking all night into daylight and hrs later no one is even close to cumming. sex is great but i got shit to do
  3. want? sure, everyone's a bottom these days, but.... between depression, anti-depressants, high blood pressure meds, age, tina dick, anxiety, etc: gay crushing is experiencing an ED outbreak no one wants to talk about. then there is the increased de-socialization caused by social media, bars closing, etc that the apps feed into. my first month on the apps i foolishly agreed to top several unseen strangers, only to find out face 2 face that something(s) was/were "off" and there was no way i could deliver on my promises. i then changed all my profiles. i may not be an exclusive bottom, but i play one on the apps. 😜
  4. variety is the spice of life so i do it all. but cheating and public sex are like snacking and relationships and indoor hookups are like sitting down to a proper meal. i love an occasional donut but im not gonna eat a glazed and call it breakfast. i'll have low blood sugar by 10:00. likewise, cheating is fun when no one is the wiser. but fucking a guy after you've become friends with his spouse?.. sorry, i'm a slut but not a hoe 😜
  5. i have sim but dif issues so all i can say is : everyone is dif and i may have done cialis n poppers and been ok but i know i had a bad reaction once and made sure NEVER to repeat that again. just my 2 cents. id stick w poppers if u bottom, cialis if u top and say good bye to your flip flop days
  6. this implies that you used to be able to freely join orgies w strangers, which to me is the real surprise 🤣 re: sniffies ive had guys try to partner w me to host such events but tbh i think its more wishful thinking than anything and really - who wants to open their home to unvetted randoms? i have hosted "orgies" which are part of meet up groups i belong to. this is perhaps old school but if it ain't broke don't fix it. you advertise a member based group for some vague thing like "area gays", offer social hr w food and bev and just so happen to have a finished basement and/or playroom where group sex happens. these do lean more FWB than random anon but that's not a bad thing for some. i was recently told a story by a friend. his friend belongs to a private orgy group where he says he was fucked by 23 guys last time he went. supposidly it was not a parTy. 😮 our mutual friend then tried to join the group only to be told he didn't meet the high "hotness" standards for membership. everyone else was livid over the snub but i was like "grow up and smell the poppers! gays who exclude sex partners due to shallow beauty standards? shocking-not!" 😜but really all i wanted to discuss was "holy busted cunt batman! 23 guys! sober?! did he have to wear an adult diaper on the ride home?" 🤣careful what u wish for boys im also in a few local sex party membership based groups not on meet up including one for FF. they exist and im sure there are more that i dont know about because im not "cool" enough to be told 😜
  7. people are too hung up on age imho i have recently been avoiding an 18 yo neighbor who's been pestering me online to hook up. it's not just the "what if he's not even legal?" aspect but something about the way he talks makes me think he's either very inexperienced or maybe even a catfish troll. but i have recently slept w a 19 yo. or so he said. im 63 but if pressed i probably said i was 50 lol so maybe 44 is the answer? but like i said, who cares? the sex was good. tbh ive asked a few people what they think my age is and as they all guess 10 years younger thats what i go w but only sometimes. often i evade the issue and depending on my mood will sometimes just dig my heels in. all my pics are recent and thats basically who will show up so yes or no. i know im in the minority but imo "stats" are bogus math telling nothing. if you need ht, #, age and dic size in order to know if someone is hot or not, youre too shallow to be any good in bed so lets not waste each others time.
  8. "Catfishing refers to the creation of a fictitious online persona, or fake identity (typically on social networking platforms), with the intent of deception,[1] usually to mislead a victim into an online romantic relationship or to commit financial fraud,[2] such as the pig butchering scam. Perpetrators, usually referred to as catfish, generally use fake photos and lie about their personal lives to present themselves as more attractive for financial gain, personal satisfaction, evasion of legal consequences, or to troll."
  9. yes. you seem to be overly fixated on beauty standards and missing the point that sex and kink are about a whole lot more: ageplay, dad/son rollplay, cnc, "corrupted", "i'm a whore w no standards" rollplay etc idk about trendy: but thank god younger guys have so many daddy issues now that im older 😜
  10. i can't comment on that as it's not been my experience. the closest i've been is guys who say they're rearing to go then suddenly go mia. i just assume it about not being emotionally ready to give the body what it craves. sometimes i do get nervous if insanely hot guys wanna hook up for fear umm being catfished. but i do show up and surprise: it's a lie that ALL gay men only care about looks. plus i find you can fake it till you make: if u act like your hot they'll buy into it some 😜
  11. i'm also confused but here's what i think/do: i try to be open minded and give people a chance. some of the best sex i've ever had has been w people i didn't think were my type doing things i didn't think i was into. that being said: my "toxic trait" is not to pursue people im not attracted to, but to perhaps lead on people im less than gag-ha over in a "never say never" way that can sometimes make me seem like a time waster. but the whole idea of nsa hookups is that we can fuck hot guys and not have to get involved with their personality flaws. dating is different.
  12. norefusal

    if? ;-)

    by "let" did you perhaps mean request? 😜
  13. 🤣🤣🤣 this is epic! all "when does life begin, at conception or birth?" philosophy aside, as a gay man i believe in sex for fun so - did u have fun pouring his load in you? all the weird comments here that harken back to a rigid "the sole purpose of sex is procreation" bent, including the zero tolerance stances on condoms, can go jump in a lake imho. talk about stealing defeat from the jaws of victory! 🤣
  14. i love his vids
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