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  1. einathens
    i think that the current setup is best, with subjects some might find objectionable kept segregated in their own areas, especially with the descriptions/warnings already in place. i'm not into chem sex or straight/bi or tranny stuff, so i stay away from those sections. don't see why anyone else would have difficulty doing the same. we're all grownups here. please don't cave to the few who want to act like children. if you try to please everyone, you end up pleasing no one. i'm offended by those kardashian people, and much as i might daydream from time to time about having them all killed, i don't actually want anyone to do it. i just stay away from the E! channel, and when i see them elsewhere i turn off the tv and read a book.
  2. einathens
    so you're in a short-term, long-distance, on-again-off-again part time relationship marked by mutual jealousy, incompatible communication styles and differing levels of emotional involvement with a guy who has told you that he's not gonna change and you should back off. how much more clearly do you need to be told? he's asked you to leave him alone. i think you should. wish him well and move on. you sound more like a stalker than a boyfriend.
  3. einathens
    nah, don't delete it just cuz i read it wrong.
  4. einathens
    i love being truly versatile. i think the world would be a much happier place if everyone else was as well.
  5. einathens
    we're not a community, we're a set of niche markets. my problem with self-appointed watchdogs/spokespersons is the self-appointed part.
  6. einathens
    in my opinion, a disclaimer like like 'with all due respect' means the speaker feels that none is warranted. so, with all due respect..... to whom are we giving gay men a very bad image? stereotypes save time. The Onion said so years ago. nameless, faceless cumpig sex is disgusting to some. to others, it's just a regular saturday. when anyone asks if they can be frank with me, i reply 'only if i can be barbara with you.' how does knowing a guy's mother's maiden name guarantee that he won't give you the clap? just because you trust him doesn't mean he isn't cheating and you're too blinded by smugness to realize it. it's cute that you think you know how intimate, fulfilling, comforting and rewarding everyone else's sexual experiences are. especially mine. i think you doth protest too much, but if you keep it up maybe someday you'll really believe what you're saying. i also noticed that at no point does this guy say that he and his singular, devoted, trustung lover are practicing safe sex.
  7. einathens
    do your time and don't re-enlist. if you run, they'll find you.
  8. einathens
    "nice tatt. wanna fuck?"
  9. einathens
    not a dumb question at all. it means they're going to fuck you raw and shoot their load inside you. some of those men think they're being clear that their load is poz. but it isn't clear at all, is it? some think that 'breeding' is specific to hiv, and that shooting a neg load in you is called 'seeding.' in my experience. when men start going on about 'knocking you up' or 'giving you my babies' or whatever, it's code for transmitting their hiv. but not for all men. if you're not sure, ask. but don't expect them all to answer truthfully.
  10. einathens
    @ bbsex6: the mature for your age stuff, the paralyzation when choice is necessary, the impatience, the instantly wanting to have everything figured out, sorted and in place, the not liking change.... i'm a double cap.
  11. einathens
    two questions for you: have you been screened for depression? are you a capricorn?
  12. einathens
    dude, you're in your early 20s. no one expects you to be fully formed. cut yourself some slack. picture the life you have now as a ten-rung ladder. if the bottom rung is the worst things could get and the top rung is the best life you could be currently living, where are you? and how do you move up from there? you don't have your life all figured out just yet, but you should be making plans and setting goals. i would caution against picturing your ex as your future; that almost never works out. i'd also say that if you need drugs and alcohol to let loose and engage in piggish behavior, you're not ready to be a real pig. and that's okay. my own bias is that life is ultimately better with a clear head. you absolutely can be a barebacker without being a bugchaser. please start getting tested regularly, for peace of mind if nothing else. continue trying new things, discarding what doesn't work for you and keeping what does. growth and experimentation are what being in your 20s is all about. enjoy it, and don't put so much pressure on yourself to figure everything out instantly. there are guys much older than you who still don't know what they're doing. relax, and let go bit by bit, when and if you're ready. and don't let anybody coerce you into anything you're not ready for.
  13. einathens
    wow, seems like a lot of these responses are based on the presumption that the top is somehow superior to the bottom. i don't agree. i think it's an equal partnership. there are tops who are interested in giving pleasure to the bottom. there are tops who are interested in taking pleasure from the bottom. the trick is to figure out which you're dealing with and to proceed accordingly. my advice is, try listening to his body. mirroring his breathing and the sounds that he makes can help you synch up and get into the same groove he's in. relax and enjoy it. nothing spoils sex more than overthinking it.
  14. einathens
    i like older men so much i became one.
  15. einathens
    you aren't being fair to anyone. your kids are old enough to sense that there's something off in their parents' relationship, and also old enough to not be traumatized by an amicable divorce. there is no honor at all in lying, hiding and putting your wife at risk, no matter how you try to rationalize it. there's no love or cherish in it either.
  16. einathens
    i looked 15 until i was 30. i worked it into the ground, but until i was 29, if i was asked i'd add 7 years on to my actual age. my thought was, 'for 25 i need a nap, but for 32 i look amaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazing.' then i decided that was just stupid, that pretending to be older was just as bad as pretending to be younger. so now i proudly proclaim my middle-agedness. and when people say i look good for my age, i quote cher on her 40th birthday. 'what does 'you look good for your age' mean? either i look good or i don't. saying 'you look good for your age' is like saying 'for a fat girl you don't sweat much'.' i live in a college town. sometimes it feels like everyone's 20 except me. and i love it. i'm 47 and i admit it freely. only 3-18 more years and i can officially be a dorty old man. can't wait.
  17. einathens
    if you're comfortable with who you are and how you look, don't sweat anyone else's reaction. if you're not, watch 'butch camp' and laugh, then embrace who you are. all you can really do is make superficial external changes (like cutting your hair, editing your accessories and not wearing prints), but the real you will pop out eventually, so why not save yourself time and unhappiness and love who you are?
  18. einathens
    the relief from fucking might be psychosomatic. i know nothing about your condition. dude, you live in the raw sex capitol of the world. go to 962 folsom and bend over. relief will be on top of you in minutes.
  19. einathens
    last year at the folsom fair cumunion party i took 24 loads. 2/3 of those were from men i never even saw.
  20. einathens
    he's an openly gay libertarian, and a lovely young man. he wrote a really funny piece on the gay bar at the republican national convention. i daydream often about a 3way with him and luscious ari melber.
  21. einathens
    so you feel a connection. does he? what does it mean to you? what does it mean to him? long distance isn't working. how do you fix it? do you give up your life and move to him? does he give up his life and move to you? and what happens once you're together? how do you deal with your differing sexual needs? your different economic levels? your different levels of emotional maturity? i don't see a way to make this work, but i wish you luck.
  22. einathens
    some flings aren't meant to be anything more. if you're not happy and he's not happy, why drag it out?
  23. einathens
    i agree. i don't want to have a (_@_) rosebud, but i damn sure like playing in them.
  24. einathens
    ..... what's so bad about a regular tuesday night fuck? sometimes you just want the benefits but you end up with a friend as well.
  25. einathens
    i love rimming and being rimmed before, during and after fucking.

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