BarebackedBear
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The "slings" that just go behind your neck are useless, unless you want leg cramps and a sore neck. I've got a spit roaster sling stand from Mr. S Leather which gets you at the right height to get throat or ass fucked. Breaks down and hides under the bed when not in use. I added eye bolts to mine to clip wrist and ankle cuffs to. With my ankles cuffed to the lower eye bolts it keeps my legs pushed back and hole wide open.
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Which, as hot as this encounter was, isn't what I would call it (as someone who has engaged in such). And the only reason I say that is because if people think run of the mill rough sex is CNC, and then hook up with someone who will engage in the actual act, it can create some unfortunate situations.
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Cumdumps don't get to choose. That's part of being a cumdump. I've always been "no loads refused" as long as it's a safer play environment. I play within a circle of friends & mutual friends where everyone is either neg or undetectable, no heavy drugs.
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Every top in my little black book loves to tell me how good my hole feels. Warm, soft, and tight is what I usually hear. As a bottom who only occasionally tops I can't tell you how that compares to the average cumdump 😆 -
White Boys Riding Black Rods..... Taboo Or Not Taboo?
BarebackedBear replied to a topic in General Discussion
Nothing [banned word]. My top three favorite fuck buddies are black. Has nothing to do with cock size. They just know how to fuck like goddamn demons. -
I'll admit how weird I am and say if the other guy wants me totally naked I will, but otherwise I only ever take socks off to hop in the shower 😅 I remember I used to fool with a guy ages ago who thought it was weird. My footsies get cold, what can I say.
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Vaseline for the win for long breeding / gangbang sessions, but it works best when paired with other lubes. On its own there's a lot of friction, especially for uncut tops. And it's too much hassle in regards to clean up for everyday use. I've only been lucky enough to get a multiple round (4+) breeding a few times in my life. During the second one we tried a little experiment. We lubed my hole with a hefty amount of petroleum jelly. Worked some into my rectum as well, one buddy slid a couple fingers in to spread it around. All the tops lubed themselves up with the lube of their choice, all of it water based if I remember correctly. Drugstore stuff like Astroglide. The petroleum jelly in me created a barrier so their lube lasted longer without drying up. Only drawback was it took two showers with Dawn dish soap to get it fully washed out of my hairy bear crack. But I was taking cock literally for hours with no tearing.
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Lack of respect. If I cleaned out my hole and you said you'd be here at 8, don't waste my time by trying to show up at 10 (or just no-showing). You get one chance to have something come up unexpectedly with me, but a no-show is an instant block. Lack of manners. Basically, don't be a douche. If you come across as arrogant, I'm out. Lack of hygiene. I definitely get turned on by a man's "showered this morning but now I'm hooking up in the afternoon" musk, but if you haven't showered all day (or for several days), that's a no-go for me. And please brush your goddamn teeth. Lack of education. If you ask me if I'm "clean" to get my HIV status, that's a block. PnP, lack of clear headedness. I don't do any drugs (I don't even drink). Guys who advertise they PnP or do heavy drugs are a deal breaker. PrEP only protects from HIV and being a needle user raises my risk for a whole host of other infections. I don't mind if a guy indulges in other soft vices in their own time, but showing up stoned and smelling of weed is a turnoff.
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Plus one to choking being a huge turn on. I've only been with two guys who were into it but I loved it. Best experience I ever had with that was with a buddy who's very experienced in it. He's got gigantic hands, can wrap one around most of my neck. I'd always had a fantasy of being raped and being penetrated while passed out. First time we played I was in the sling, ankles in the stirrups, both of us were well lubed (but he wasn't in me yet), he put one hand around my neck and before I knew it, it was lights out. When I came to the first thing I felt was motion like I was on a boat rocking on the waves. Then I could feel my asshole was on fire, felt like someone had punched it. I realized the motion was me swinging in the sling as my buddy was fucking me. When I winked out he forced himself in me to the hilt.
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Rough and raw is the best sex for sure. Beyond that, the more the merrier. To me the best sex is where my hole is left sore, raw, and gaped. The pain is part of the pleasure for me. That means threesomes or more usually. Occasionally I'm lucky to find a single guy who can go for multiple rounds, or a couple.
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Who Read The Real Anthony Fauci
BarebackedBear replied to nanana's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I'm amazed people are still this stupid. Or maybe the real problem is after decades of this disease becoming a chronic illness more manageable than diabetes rather than the death sentence it once was has led to a state of willful ignorance. Maybe people just need a fucking history lesson. I'm currently reading How to Survive a Plague and the reminder of people grasping at straws to find a cause for AIDS before discovery of the virus definitely puts Kennedy's asinine comments into a context many in the younger generation are missing. It wasn't poppers in 1981, it isn't poppers now. Kennedy is the reason we're going to have to bring back the SILENCE=DEATH messaging, because staying silent about his disinformation on any number of health issues rather than calling him out is our greatest public health crisis today. -
Mine is linked in my profile. Same handle on there as I have on here
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Those are still the guidelines as far as I know but my doctors (all seemingly straight, or at least married) understand that gay culture is less monogamous than straight. They've always tested me for full STD panels at each three months check in and remind me over and over that it only protects against HIV and not other infections. It's been a little bit of "this is for discordant couples, wink wink, be careful out there."
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HIV tests of any kind, including rapid / at home tests, run the risk of throwing a false negative. You can be recently POZ and not have produced enough antibodies to trip the test. And during this "window period," you can pass on the virus. It can take months in some cases for your body to produce enough antibodies to trip some tests. I'm not sure where you're located, but those PrEP rules are insane. Unless your physical safety is at risk by requesting PrEP, either from government agencies or your family, just sign the papers and get the pill. If the only risk is family judgment ... fuck 'em? Maybe it's just me but I never worried what my family thought of me or my lifestyle. Chosen family that loves and supports you unconditionally is more valuable than some people you share a blood relation to.
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I definitely have a type that always catches my attention. Older, some form of facial hair, husky / heavyset, black. But sex is too much fun to get hung up on only playing with certain types of guys. I've been bred by older guys, younger guys, guys of just about every race and body type. Pro tip: Guys who are in it to breed / get bred and are just looking for a willing partner have more fun than guys who are in it to only breed / great bred by a particular guy.
