BarebackedBear
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Seems like it's impossible to get a party organized these days. It feels like it happened after the pandemic. I may sound cynical, but I think a lot of guys just got used to spending their free time sitting around the house in sweatpants. The hookup apps are mainly flakes and no-shows out where I live. Plus, rural area with low population density. There was a couple I knew "in the before times" that would host parties at their house. Usually about ten guys or so, wasn't out of the question to get fucked by four or five guys on a good afternoon, sometimes more. Would love to see this start coming back but out where I live it seems like that ship has sailed.
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Prostate issues from bottoming?
BarebackedBear replied to Alexpdx's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I've always heard bottoming is good for it 🤷♂️ Immediately after a heavy fuck session, either multiple tops, one top who can go for multiple rounds, or rough / rage fucking, my prostate is definitely tender and it can be hard to take a leak until things "calm down" in there. But after a run of the mill butt fucking with just one casual bud, never had a problem. My doctor knows I'm gay and a bottom, and as I've reached middle age has had the prostate health talk with me. Mainly just recommending I shoot at least four or five loads a week, more is better. I am curious what he says about bottoming and prostate health, I may ask next checkup. -
I just joined the other day. I'm leaving a message up on my old Twitter for a couple weeks so the people who follow me can decide if they want to move with me or not but that account has gone dark. [think before following links] [think before following links] https://bsky.app/profile/thebackwoodsfag.bsky.social
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Taking care of your hole
BarebackedBear replied to Londoncumdump10's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Honestly, it doesn't have much flavor at all. Tastes like lube, is about all I can say. If you were thinking it would taste like a Pina Colada, I'm sorry to burst your bubble. It's not intended to be flavored. Normally after my buddies are done using me, I like to suck their dick, limp or not, while I rub one out to finish myself off. It doesn't have anywhere near the strong soap taste that I get from silicone lube. -
Taking care of your hole
BarebackedBear replied to Londoncumdump10's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Good lube and practice, learning to relax your hole. I like rough fucking, one of my regulars calls it "consensual rape." He introduced me to Boy Butter lube. It's coconut oil based so not safe for latex toys or condoms (lol what's a condom?), but it's not greasy at all, washes up with soap and water, won't stain sheets, stays slick for hours, smells like sun lotion. Recently used it for the first time with another buddy of mine who doesn't rough fuck but has a beer can fat cock and can go for 3-4 rounds in an afternoon. When he was done for the day my hole was bruised and gaped. But no tears. You can also get disposable "lube injectors" to shoot some up into your rectum which can help if you've got some well endowed buddies. They're also great to slick up your guts before a gangbang scene. Keeping your rectum slick will helping prevent the pulling that can become problems. Check sites that sell hardcore toys or cater to the fisting crowd. Beyond that, the more often you bottom the more "hole control" you develop. And after a long fuck session or with multiple tops, self care is essential. A after a shower I'll apply a little Vaseline and work it into my hole with a finger if they really roughed me up, just to keep everything lubricated to prevent chafing while I walk. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
I also work in tech, and that's another fear that I have. Especially with the distrust of legacy news outlets and the rise of sites like Twitter becoming the primary news source for a lot of people, and how these media empires are owned by individuals who are a little bit too cozy with the administration. This isn't anything we haven't seen before, though. I think if you're of a certain generation you must have learned in school about the Hearst media empire. I doubt anyone reading this is old enough to actually remember that first hand. But then again now we've come full circle to my last reply talking about the lack of education in this country in the area of civics being the root cause of a lot of what we've seen lately. Hearst also used the "America First" branding on his media and in praise of fascism's rise in Germany after his shift to the right. Every old concern and fear is new again. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
I've been saying for years, but especially since Trump entered the political scene, this country has a serious problem with education, specifically around government and civics. It's not a blue collar versus white collar thing. No sane person can look at what the Republican party has served up for nearly a decade now, both at the national and local level, and feel that this is really a long-term solution to real problems that real Americans face. Both sides are guilty of engaging in partisan identity politics, but in the Trump era that's the only thing the GOP can offer. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
This is what I'm primarily afraid of. I'm coming from a place of privilege. I'm a white male, age 18 to 49 as The Simpsons joke goes, meaning I'm basically the demographic with power in this nation. I'm even straight passing, even though I hate that phrase. But I'm still a fag. And I'm concerned that groups that hate now have their mouthpiece and figurehead back in the White House. I remember what it was like last time. I live not far from Charlottesville, VA. I remember the neo-Nazis with tiki torches. The administration is going to have a lot of power, at least until the next midterm when we have an opportunity to take back the Senate. I hope we don't lose any Supreme Court justices between now and then. But I'm mainly concerned about what this is going to mean in the neighborhoods. In the communities. In the streets where people are emboldened to act on their hate once again. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
Preface: I firmly believe that in addition to being a rapist, a misogynist, and just overall a disgusting excuse for a human being, Trump's rhetoric and his focus on grievances and his strong man attitude towards ruling rather than governing puts him squarely in the category of fascist. I'm also well aware that he's going into his second presidency immensely better prepared than he was for the first, after years of being groomed for this by a cabal of conservative interests with their own agenda. That being said, I feel like there's a little bit of catastrophizing on the left in light of the news. I think in the short term his economic policy is going to be a cheap sugar rush for the economy which is definitely going to have long-term knock-on effects. With a power shift in the Senate, any nomination he wants to make will get pushed through. Yes, it's bad. But until he starts to make good on these threats I'm stopping short of calling this an existential threat to democracy. He not only won, it looks like he actually crushed the popular vote unlike the last time he managed to game the electoral college. I still think we have enough rational, sane people in this country to hopefully keep the worst of the damage in check over the next four years. I have to believe that at this point. -
As a bear type I'm loving that body hair is coming back. Men should be comfortable to be themselves and the push for hair removal always seemed weird. For my own preference, I am attracted to all types of men, hairy or not. But furballs always get my dick twitching. I once - once - shaved for a guy who wanted to see me "smooth." I'm pretty damn furry. Within about ten, twelve hours I had "stubble" head to toe. It was horrible and lasted for days until my "body beard" started to grow out. Never again. If you're not into fur, I'm not the guy to take home.
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Are “Belly’s” in Vogue? Help Me Understand Please
BarebackedBear replied to a topic in General Discussion
"Dadbod" seems to be the flavor of the week with The Gays these days, and tbh I'm here for it. I've always been a big, beefy bear type. Hairy all over with a tummy, thicc ass, solid thighs, bearded. For ages I was invisible while twinks and gym rats were what the porn industry told guys they should want. We're heat in the winter and shade in the summer, and a thicc ass makes a great slapping noise when you're clapping cheeks. Don't sleep on the bear types. I've even had a few guys tell me when I get really worked up in the moment, I growl 🐻 -
Depends on the top. One of my regulars has a shorter but insanely thick cock, beer can fat. On my back, legs up with him lets my hole relax and gape easier, plus he likes seeing my face when he forced himself in. One of my other regulars has a thinner cock but he's well over 9". On my side with one leg pulled up to my chest unkinks my guts so he can slide in all the way to the balls, deep past my second hole. With most other guys I'm a face down, ass up kind of bottom.
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Bottomed for a much older (probably over 3x my age) daddy type. On my back, legs up with his arms wrapped tight around them in case I had the urge to pull away since it was my first time.
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@BackwoodsBear 👀
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Anything sex acts your don’t particularly enjoy?
BarebackedBear replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
Getting my ass eaten Getting my dick sucked Both do next to nothing for me. One of my regulars LOVES to eat ass. I let him get in there and chow down because it turns him on but the whole time I'm laying there like 😪 I moan and growl and act like it does it for me just to ramp him up. Sex theatre, as I call it.
