BarebackedBear
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Is it wrong that I want to be raped by a gang of men
BarebackedBear replied to Bbpigoz's topic in General Discussion
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It's a hookup app / site, not the reading comprehension section of the SATs. Nobody's reading profiles and even if they are they're skimming for stuff that gets them hard. I honestly don't get bent out of shape when guys message me who are definitely not what I'm interested in, I just have a pretty firm "no reply" policy: No face pic, no chat. Doesn't have to be public, but you have to send me a face pic if you don't have one posted. I don't respond to the automated "one click" messages the apps let you send. If you live so far away feasibly we'll never hook up, I don't respond (this isn't a pen pal service). If your first message to me is asking if I have more pics, I don't respond. I'm not here to provide spank material. The one thing I will gripe about is guys who will message me saying "I wish you topped." How do you even respond to that? I'm sorry I'm not the daddy bear of your fantasies who's going to rip your butthole open stem to stern? FWIW I do top, occasionally, but it's rare someone trips my trigger in that way & when they do I reach out to them so I list myself as bottom on my profiles.
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I must be in the minority. All I got from poppers was a headache. No feeling of euphoria. No loosening of my hole as some guys claim happens to them. Took a hit, immediately felt light headed, then felt like I had a hangover for about twenty minutes or so until I could get some fresh air. Was at a buddy's house for a sex party, he had a sling in a shed out back and I was in it with one load already in me when I took a hit before an especially well endowed buddy took his turn in me. Ended up hopping out of the sling and sitting at a picnic table in his back yard to get some fresh air before hopping back in the sling to take a couple more loads. Never again. Maybe I'm just an old man.
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Bareback: Fetish or sexual practice?
BarebackedBear replied to favorite's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I think for a lot of guys who came of age in the era of AIDS it became a fetish. "The forbidden" that we must never do. PrEP changed that (some didn't wait for it to come along). For me it's a sexual practice. Whether it's sex with a partner, a friend with benefits, or an anonymous stranger, it should involve a certain level of intimacy appropriate to the encounter. And I fail to see how there can be any intimacy if there's a piece of latex between you. -
Anyone else experiencing anal orgasms?
BarebackedBear replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in General Discussion
Happens to me for sure, I get those full body shaking ones. What I'm referring to is what a lot of people call "anal orgasms" rather than "cumming hands free." It's the same intense feeling as having an orgasm, but I don't ejaculate. The feeling usually starts at my prostate and goes throughout my body. How to trigger them is different for everyone. For some it's purely physical sensation. Prostate stimulation, deep penetration, etc. For some it's headspace. For some it's both. The best way to "increase" the sensation is keep getting your ass used and figure out what you like. Find a partner who takes direction well and is into figuring out how to make it happen. I have one partner who triggers it in me in every time and he loves it because it makes my hole clench down tight around him when it's happening. We've been playing off and on for almost ten years now and the first time it happened he was super into figuring out how to make it happen every time. Now he's got it down to a science so when it starts it usually doesn't stop until he finishes and pulls out of me, all I can do is lie there and hold on. -
I honestly can't even blame the apps (although all the bots are a turn off). It seems like in general, at least where I live, folks just aren't the mood to get out and get laid since the pandemic. It's like everyone's just too comfortable sitting around at home with their Amazon Prime. It's starting to feel like I couldn't even get laid if I was standing in a whorehouse waving a stack of hundreds over my head.
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Bear belly as requested, featuring bonus jock content.
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Amen to this. That's the video I'd like to see.
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If this is actually real and not a fantasy, fuck you. I say that as a BB bottom who loves getting bred. The more the better. But I'm on PrEP, and I do it consensually. You belong in prison.
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What's the longest you've gone without cumming?
BarebackedBear replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
Do depressive episodes count? Because if so, when I was balls deep in The Big Sad® I literally went probably a couple of years without blowing a load. No hookups, no interest in jerking off. Beyond that, it's hard to find playmates out in the rural backwoods area where I live and sometimes I'm just too busy & exhausted after work & real life to be bothered jerking it, but after a week the hornies start to take over again. -
Btms you prefer older or younger tops
BarebackedBear replied to mnbare's topic in General Discussion
Older for me, whether I'm the bottom (probably 80-90% of the time) or the top, no upper age limit. I think the largest age gap between myself and any of my partners was a buddy I played with just after college. When we first met I was in my early/mid 20s and I remember him telling me he was pushing 80. Lived in a townhouse in one of those 55+ retirement communities. Some of my regulars have reached the age where they can't get hard enough to fuck, which is no problem for me. I've got other ways to make them feel good. I rarely top but there are two adorable little old men in my area that bring it out in me. One is in his late 70s, short (can't even be over 5'5"), average build, bald, and has prettiest little pink butthole I've ever seen. Absolutely love the cute little cooing sounds he makes while I've got him on his back using him as an edge toy. I think the only "age appropriate" guy I play with is one of my older buddies' partners. He's got a twink boytoy and when I go to play with him, sometimes his boytoy also drops a load in me. But that's it. -
Hooked up with this guy once, average / husky build, larger uncut cock, pounded me twice that night, all around a great experience. Left my hole sore and raw just how I like it. Made plans for him to come over a second time probably months later, we kind of fell out of contact for a while. He showed up a couple hours late after making texting me that evening with excuses that he got hung up with "work," got here reeking of cheap weed and acting like he was about to fall asleep the whole time. We made out for a while then he lost his hard on when it came time to dick me down. Complained I wasn't "doing enough" to keep him hard. It was a weeknight and I had to be up for work early in the morning and I'm laying there an hour past my bedtime, unbred, next to a guy who says I'm not putting in the effort after all that? Haven't called him again.
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Who was your most influential dick?
BarebackedBear replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Random hookup I had around Christmas of 2015. Nice guy, dad bod, shorter dick but a little thicker than average, with the biggest damn balls I've ever seen. I mean literally like a pair of oranges, and hanging down half way to his knees. So big I swear to God he walked a little bowlegged so he wouldn't slap em with his thighs, bless his heart. He fucked me dog style that night and I could feel his nuts swinging up and slapping my own junk while he did it. We ended up dating for almost four years. We split up on good terms & still play from time to time. I've never been a size queen but not gonna lie ever since I met him a pair of big balls turn me on more than a huge dick. -
Labido after antidepressants.
BarebackedBear replied to BadBob214's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I had the opposite effect. After years of no sex drive while trying to fight The Big Sad™ alone, going on Fluoxetine not only stabilized my mood but also brought the hornies back. By the second or third week after starting it I had a good buddy out to play for the first time in over a year, he spent the whole afternoon and put four loads in me. It was awesome and I've never looked back. I'm on a low dose though so YMMV. -
What's better, uncaring tops or cruel tops?
BarebackedBear replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
It's the top's choice in how he uses me. I like them both. I'm lucky that all my partners see themselves as in the "caring about my experience" camp, but they know I'm submissive and like to feel used so most are happy to oblige and at least "give uncaring" to satisfy me. One in particular knows I like painful sex and has a thick endowment and isn't afraid to force himself in. I only have one semi-regular who will be full on cruel, to the point of feeling like I'm being raped. Throat fucking until I'm gagging and spitting up, ass pounding until my hole is raw and torn. I don't see him often but it's always fun.
