JesseAaron1385

Hey Guys, After being a member for a couple of weeks and exploring (see my profile for picture/video links, I will post albums when the site cooperates) I decided to finally write my introduction for the site. I’m 39-year-old gay male with a Culinary Arts Degree as well as a Bachelor's in Integrated Advertising Campaigns and Marketing. This has led me to work in fine dining, restaurant management, catering, event planning, and kitchen management. My profile is JesseAaron1385 and I currently (unfortunately) live in rural Iowa Between Iowa City and Quad Cities. Hopefully I’ll be leaving this godforsaken area soon to relocate in Chicago or Michigan 🤞🏼 as there isn’t much to do and the variety and availability of men is severely lacking. I’m a city boy at heart and can’t wait to be back in a metropolitan area where I can live freely. Stats: · Age: 39 · Weight: 160 · Height: 5’9” · Dick: 7.5” cut · Body: Average · Sexuality: Gay & out (though you don’t have to be out) · Position: Aspiring versatile/switch leaning towards bottom · Personality: Guy next door, Bro · Types: Bears, bros, clean cut, daddies, discreet, gaymers, geeks, guys next door, jocks, leather, otters, poz, neg, punks, skaters, sporty, trendy, twinks, U+ · HIV Status: Positive, undetectable I have always known I was gay even though I dated some girls in high school (which I don’t feel counts) and started having sex at 15. Even though I started exploring sexually a bit younger than some, I’m a “gold star gay,” meaning I’ve never been with a woman. From a very young age I always more fixated on males and felt uncomfortable around females, especially when it came to sex and experimentation. From there it steadily progressed in frequency and variety until I came out at 18. Since then, I go back and forth between being promiscuous or in a relationship. Since I started being sexually active, I’ve lost count of how many people I’ve slept with. I know it’s a high number but am unsure how high, though I did some calculating and figured out my average per month in order to estimate my count and it was easily in the thousands. I used to think that was a bit extreme and that I was a raging whore compared to most but I’ve learned (through this site and other apps) that it is simply the way we are as guys. Throughout my sex life I’ve typically been the bottom. As I’ve gotten older however I have started exploring my Top side and become more versatile with hopes of becoming a true versatile/switch. I do have a bit of performance anxiety when it comes to topping, mostly because of lack of practice and experience, and would love to find a buddy that would help me to become more dominant. That said I will describe myself as a “passive top,” and I thoroughly enjoy a slightly dominant bottom that takes charge in the bedroom. I’m into a great deal and I’m a highly sexual guy so I’m hoping to explore kinks and various fetishes in addition to having a ton of traditional sex. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve started embracing my freedom more and letting my “freak flag fly” when it comes to sex and kinks. Sites like this have helped me realize that everyone has an inner deviant and that it's ok to be open about it. I have a great deal I’d like to try and explore as I’ve not found someone willing to experiment leaving most of my kinks theoretical. I’d greatly enjoy finding a regular fuck buddy or FWB, though I’m still open to hookups and flings, that I can get comfortable and open with. Listed below is a table with my into’s and kinks/fetishes. This isn’t a complete list by any means nor are the items listed my limits. I’m open to a great deal with a little bit of discussion and explanation. I’m typically willing to try most things at least once, maybe twice, with little convincing necessary on your part. That way, if I don’t like it, I know for a fact that I don’t like it. It’s not just an opinion without experience to back it up. Into: · Kissing · Frotting/Grinding · Jerking · Oral · Rimming · Body contact · Anal · Cum · Barebacking · Underwear (tighties, jocks, boxer briefs) Kinks & Fetishes: · Public (sex, groping, horseplay, carplay) · Threesome/Groups · Light BDSM · Toys · Breeding · Musk · Watersports · Piercings/tattoos · Leather/gear/uniforms · Dom/sub or Alpha/beta · First time · Praise · Sloppy Seconds · Almost getting caught I do have several known Hard limits, which are not up for debate. I reserve the right to add to the list whenever I come across something I’m not into. I also have some soft limits which I may or may not be convinced to try with communication and explanation but I make no promises as I have a pretty strong feeling I wouldn’t enjoy them. With the right person, very little is off the table. Soft Limits: · ABDL · Fisting · TPE · Master/slave · Knife play · CBT Hard Limits: · Scat · Excessive pain · Women · Underage · Animals · S&M · Mental control/Manipulation I’m recently out of a bad long-term “relationship” which has left me with a strong distaste for monogamy/dating and am only interested in and looking for sexual connections and friendship with others. I have no interest in being someone’s significant other or partner ever again at this point as I want to explore what the world has to offer without limitations, control, or guilt from another person. I find the idea of a bromance incredibly appealing as I’ve not really had any close friendships with another guy in my life. For some reason my closest friend has always been female which limits the amount of sharing as there are somethings you would rather just discuss with another guy. In life and in bed, I have a passive personality and am typically considered very submissive. However, that is something I would like to change as it has led to me being in bad situations before. I would love a teacher or mentor that can accommodate that side of me while working with me to establish a more dominant or authoritative attitude. Hell, at this point I’d accept having a neutral personality and just being able to say what I want without fear of punishment. I have had a “Dom” before and am incredibly unlikely to accept another in my life as he ended up abusing me and the situation in order to benefit him while getting his rocks off. There was nothing in the relationship about or for me. As a submissive, I must say it was one of the most disappointing moments in my life when I came to the realization that I was nothing but a resource for him. A fuck toy for his (and others) pleasure. He enjoyed manipulating people in order to get what he wanted and I was simply a tool that entertained him while furthering his ambition and adding to his “prestige” as a Dom. In retrospect, I should have seen it before but I was blinded by the fact that I had someone orchestrating my life in what I thought was a constructive, beneficial, and caring manner. A note to all subs out there, be wary of who you commit to and give your “leash” as not all of them have your best interests in mind. I never want to see or hear of anyone living through similar experiences as I know the pain associated with it. As far as barebacking, I have always avoided condoms because I just couldn’t enjoy the sex with one. They are uncomfortable for me as a bottom and I can’t really cum with them when I’m topping. In 39 years, I can count on one hand how many times I’ve used one. Honestly, I feel it was a lack of sexual education/knowledge and low self-confidence that led me to never wear a condom. I don’t regret my decision in anyway as the sex is insanely better without a condom but I feel that everyone should be aware that the reasons behind your barebacking/breeding obsession are not always healthy. There is a difference between choosing to go without a condom versus not using one because you don’t have the confidence to say “no” to someone. I know that would never occur to many of you so I feel it’s my responsibility to make sure that those who go without for reasons similar to mine have a voice and a choice. Self-care and preservation are key psychological traits that are meant to keep us from doing dumb and damaging things. So submissives out there, be in tune with yourself enough to know the difference and dominants please listen to and care for your subs. They make your lifestyle (and sometimes life) what it is and deserve the care, respect, and voice that comes with such commitment. For if subs didn’t exist your life would never be complete. It should be a relationship of symbiosis as you must have both in order to fill the holes in your life. I am HIV+, undetectable and have been for a little over three years. Finding a site that doesn’t present in a status phobic way has been eye opening for me. Unfortunately living in a rural area has left me with limited options for partners because lack of sexual education and ignorance. I’m sick of using apps like Grindr and being judged by other users for the fact that I’m positive. The attitude and their treatment of myself and others like us is beyond reproach and is entirely due their closed-mindedness and a lack of knowledge. PreP and NRTIs/ARTs completely negate a positive status when it comes to having sex. In the age of Google information on every imaginable topic is available with a few clicks there is no excuse for being discriminatory against someone for it. Being positive should have ZERO impact upon you or your thought processes and opinion in any way unless you BOTH choose for it to. It’s too easy to solve the issue by taking a medication (either person or both) that negates the possibility of contracting and fear of it is completely irrational anymore. It’s a single pill a day whether you take Prep or are positive and medicated so there is no reason for you to fear something you can absolutely 100% control. If you’re worried about remembering to take a pill a day, there are injectable treatments like Cabanuva that provide 2 months of prevention (a six-month version is being trialed) at the cost of a single visit and shot in the ass. Seems like a small price to pay to me. I'm open to a variety of situations and experiences with a wide range of types. My preferences and requirements vary per person as I feel that everyone has something appealing and attractive to offer (that said I do have general guidelines for what I'm looking for). Physically I generally like guys that are more masculine; hairy and uncut are bonuses but not necessary for me to like have an interest. I could keep going but I fear leaving something out and offending someone so I’ll stop there. For anything more than a hookup I’d prefer them to be a versatile bottom at minimum as I want to enjoy both worlds if they are going to be around for a while. I find guys that are confident and know what they want to be very sexy. I prefer ages 18-55 but I am flexible as there are always exceptions to the rule. Pictures of myself are available but I wrote so much that I don’t have the space to upload them into the post. In lieu of that I have a Google Photo Album that has a variety of shots including: face, body, dick, ass, jerking, oral, and sex with others. They range from current to a couple of years old but are accurate representations of me currently. I also have an album of Videos available to share if interested, shoot me a message and let me know. I’m happy to share them with most people a majority of the time though I do reserve the right to say “No” if I’m not interested. I don’t mean this as an insult but more that I’m probably pre-occupied and just don’t have the time or effort to share them. I’m sure if you look hard enough through my various profiles you can find it.· · Google Photo Album: [think before following links] https://photos.app.goo.gl/wWFrKp1DE7wFGmAU6 At this point, I realize I have written a short story and I apologize for it (not really). In actuality limited myself but got on a roll and kept some of my thoughts flowing. If you’re still with me at this point, PROPS to you and I thank you for taking the time to read what I wrote fully. If you want to message me, feel free but do me a solid and make sure you don’t ask me information that can be found in this introduction. I don’t want to waste the time repeating what you can easily find on your own if you’re actually invested and determined. Prove to me that your interest is more than surface deep and make me feel worth the effort and I’ll reciprocate fully. Please, leave a comment, shoot me a message, or contact me (regardless of your stats) if you want to talk. I’m more than happy to have chat buddies and look forward to the possibilities meeting new people will bring (my various contact points are listed below). Contact Info: · Adam4Adam: Jesse_Aaaron · NKP: Jaaron · Fetlife: Jaaron13 · LifeOut: JesseAaron1385 · Tumblr: miversguy · BBRTS: Jeppy · Squirt: JeppyAaron · Reddit: Open-Owl-4170 · xHamster: jeppyaaron · X: @JesseAaron24155 · Telegram: @jeppydoodle Lastly, if there is any information you feel I’ve left out or think I should expand upon, please let me know. I’m more than happy to discuss it with you and add it to my saved Introduction document. In fact, I would greatly appreciate your help in expanding and detailing this document as it was an eye-opening experience to put down in words what I’m thinking and feeling. I must say that this was moderately cathartic to do as I didn’t realize I had such opinions and ideas until I started putting them down in word. Once again, I thank you for your time and look forward to hearing from you!

I absolutely love making videos. I have tons of fucking vids and hundreds of other dirty vids. I just enjoy being recorded and sharing them. I guess I like the attention and desire it elicits.

250! Not too bad 🤭

Hey man, I'm in the QC/IC area of Iowa.

Hey I'm in the IC/QC area!