BBOpenHole

If I see a profile that says "safe/condoms only" I don't bother messaging first. If they reach out to me, my first response is "raw only". Because apparently a lot of guys don't bother to read profiles. Or profile names. LOL. In person, dudes rarely insist on condoms. But when they do, I tell them I am on prep, doxy etc, and I want them to fuck me raw. Only ever had to turn down a handfull of dudes that still insisted on condoms after that. And as it is, I don't feel any sort of way about refusing a top that wants to use condoms. It's just not a match for what I want and what they want. Not everyone like the same cup of tea! Simple as that!

Might be in the extreme minority, but I DESPISE silicone and petroleum based lubes. They work great and all because of the staying-power, but that's also the downside in my mind. For me, they tend to get EVERYWHERE and then everything is just oily and slick for the rest of the night! Once that happens, it's near impossible to get a grip on a wall or bed frame or anything to get leverage. Plus, if you are a bottom that likes to occasionally dig out a load or two from your hole for a taste (like I am), I want to taste that cum--not the lube that helped it get in there. And those lubes just stick around forever! Spit and cum are #1 lubes for me; water based lubes like the KY Gel lube in a desperate pinch. And flavored lubes belong in the trashcan!!!

Having a lot of fisting friends, I can say this is less an emergency alternative and more an old faithful standard! They didn't call it the "Crisco Disco" for no reason... 😉

Much the same sentiment as other bottoms posting here. I don't mind if a top watches porn while they fuck me. Hell, if it helps them get off and dump that nut up in me faster, I am all for it! Normally I throw on some bareback/breeding porn on my laptop, have it sorta nearby but not in the way--so if they want it, it's right there for them to watch, or if they don't they can just ignore it. Only ever had one top that explicitly didn't want it, but I think it was more him worried about it being on my laptop (thought I might be recording him) and he just reached over and shut the computer, then fucked my brains out.

Whoever is free tonight and wants to breed up a bottom, come through. Really had a shit week and I'm letting go this weekend. No loads refused. Vishara vid. till 1am, Look for the guy with long hair and a black tanktop. Then getting a room at East Side Club till the morning. Just getting naked and going ass up in a room till morning.

Dudes flaking out and ghosting is the WORST! Especially for us bottoms--and it's exactly like what you say. Tops are chatting up 5 bottoms all at once, picking the one they want, and then ghosting the other 4--leaving us prepped out and waiting for a load that's never gonna show up! Honestly the best thing about in person cruising is time management. There's no waiting around for a guy to text you the address or tell you he's on his way and show up an hour later. Either they are stepping into your booth then and there, or they aren't, and you can keep looking.

Kinda had the same experiences with it. I've kept my profile just to have it, but rarely have I had much luck finding tops or events. Mostly it's Sniffies and Grindr anymore--that and hitting up the video stores. Truth told, I kinda like the in-person cruising more anyway. Less time-wasters and flakes, and the scene feels even more anon just grabbing the closest stranger and offering him a warm wet hole in a dark booth.

Haha! For real. I can manage a tank top--was walking around in one there two weeks back, but it was chilly in there to be sure! But I had on long pants (when they weren't around my ankles). Don't think I could have survived in just a thong! Though it wasn't too bad back in the darkroom. That place always gets warm when dudes crowd in. Just bend over against the wall over the radiator, take loads while staying nice and toasty!

The Fair Theater is the only one I know in NYC. I hit that up regularly. Surprising mix of older and younger guys there, though a lot of the older folks actually just sit around in the lobby area and chat. Like a big gay social club with raw sex in the back. Kinda a perfect atmosphere, really!

I mean, I get it. Some rando follows you to your apt and like hangs around your door? Probably would do the same! Can't really blame them! Definitely hoping it was the first and LAST time anything like that happens! Gonna be asking any dude that meets me at the door "You the guy I am meeting?" from now on!

Figured I'd share this because of the sheer insanity (and humor now that I am through it). Last weekend, decided to hit sniffies to see who was around. Got a message from a guy. Average size dick, not bad body, but profile said he loved raw. Chatted him up, he sent a vid of him shooting a MASSIVE load. After that, no question. We were hooking up. I am a total cum addict. He's hosting, texts me address, says he'll meet me at the door to the apt. building. I get there, and there's a dude waiting in the lobby right in front of the door. This lady walking right in front of me pulls out her keys but he opens the door for her and for me, I say hey, he says hey back, and starts walking back into the building. I follow. But I notice this lady is walking along with us. We all get to the apartment door and both the lady and the guy enter. I start to say something like, "wait, what?" And the lady screams "OH HELL NO!" and slams the door. Now I am SUPER confused. So I pull out my phone and check my messages. Dude I was supposed to meet at the door now says "Actually ring me on the callbox, I'll buzz you in". I followed some total random stranger to their apartment, no fucking wonder they were freaking out!! Dude must have been there waiting for the lady, not me! So I ring the dude, we have fun, he drops a GREAT load in me. Then I am walking out the building and I hear. "EXCUSE ME, STOP PLEASE". I turn around, and there are three cops in the hallway. Apparently the folks I followed called the cops! FUCK MY LIFE SIX WAYS FROM SUNDAY So now, I have to explain this whole fucking mess, to a bunch of cops. I am just like, fuck it. Yeah, I was here for a hookup. Met the dude online, thought other guy was him. These cops looked SHOOK. Like, they couldn't believe someone would just tell them "yeah, I was here to get some dick in me." Long story short, I think they felt more uncomfortable than I did, so they were like, "be more careful next time" and let me go on my way!

Bored with my toys. Going open hole this weekend. No loads refused. Gonna be camped out at Vishara on Friday and Fair Theatre on Sat. Sunday and Monday, dunno. Might host some hotel fun if the loads are flowing. Prefer anon. Load me up quick then make room for the next guy. Hit me up if you want, or just show up. I'll be the guy with long hair and a hole full of loads.